Originally posted by: neelabha
Exactly! She's so timid. How can she work as a cop? Hard to believe that a girl like her can nurture such ambitions in the first place.
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Originally posted by: neelabha
Exactly! She's so timid. How can she work as a cop? Hard to believe that a girl like her can nurture such ambitions in the first place.
Originally posted by: gangubai1
Much like being a snger, or being dancer is an inborn talent, so is this profession.Arent this inborn talent been sharpened ???? dont they practice to become best in their field ?It demands a solid steel spine, quick-thinking abilities, dynamism and leadership qualities, ability to handle, manage and overcome volatile confrontations.She showed everything in first episode dear , just caz she locked her dream cannot dismiss saying she never had these qualities ... when ur own family betrays u one need time and inner strength to over come it , sandhya was trying to hold on to her dream she did , its not like she didnot give up so easily , she did put a fightEven the junior most IPS officer is responsible for the law and order situation in an entire district.yes, they all go through grilling yaarAll the stages that you mention test these abilities and Sandhya simply doesn't have the grit in her to aspire to that position. It's time that serial makers stop trivializing such responsible positions and careers and stick to 20-min eye-locks.Hmm, are they just showing eye locks and nothing more ???arent they showing the different emotions, not the same ones we see in every show , just caz she has a dream doesnt mean she cannot fall for a person ... yaar, if they are showing ambitious gal turning into soon to be typical bahu, then they might have something in their mind, else they wont touch IPS, they could have chosen any other field , not s/w thats general one ...
Don't know your age-group but would suggest that you try and catch some episodes of an old-time serial called Udaan. That will give you an insight on what it takes to aspire to be an IPS officer. It needs a girl who has the strength to stand up against goons and till her fields single-handed not someone who needs her father to play watchdog while she is reading under the street lamp.She didnot ask her father to stay, he insisted on staying , udaan yes, that was different , lets see how this goes,yet, how can an educated ambitious girl get married to someone without talking to them is beyond me.trust me , it still happens , not talking about arrange marriages, but not talking before marriage, i find it very silly i mean like ur going to spend ur whole life with a stranger , yet u are not allowed to talk ?
I remeber watching Udaan but I am not able to recollect anything except only one episode in which the police officers will be allotted places to control riot and the lead will be sent to an area which is usually very calm place and does not need any measures taken by the police to control anything. BUT I guess Udaan was based on Kiran Bedi's biography.
Originally posted by: gangubai1
How does it matter what Sandhya thinks? A girl who is so insipid as to give in to emotional blackmail by her bother and sacrifice her life's ambition, instead of saying "you go to US and give me my share of Dad's property and I'll stay in a hostel and continue my studies"
She has taken two weeks and still not opened her mouth about her life goals forget about clarifying all these things before marriage itself. What kind of an IPS officer will she be? it's better a girl like her sit with her lips sealed and play the perfect beendni of her dragon sasuma. that is all she is fit for.
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I wont call that transformation silly for sure, we still live in a world where a gal is treated like nothing and house wife material after wedding , no matter how educated she is , not every one living in cities also are open with this idea, husbands want their wifes to work for financial support but only some encourage their wifes in their fav careers ,I dont know about ur thinking but for me yes a gals life changes when her marriage is announced , i had seen many cases and i pity them ...Again i disagree , she is definitely IPS material , right now all she is looking for is approval , a IPS officer doesnt have to be always aggressive, have attitude , even a calm person can become a good IPS officer , and coming to being strong, sandhya is neither weak nor strong she is in btw, a tough training will make the gal have command on life ...