Lessons by Mrs. Shergill to Mr. Shergill

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Watching the the way Mrs. Shergill handled La made me think that they included in it lessons for Mr. Shergill too.
First and foremost 'don't jump to conclusions' Despite, finding Ra with his ex-GF/fiance and despite the GF's suggestion to an intimacy, Dri handled the situation with finesse. She didn't accuse Ra.
Second, which is connected to the first lesson... Trust your partner. Make your judgement based on the observations you have drawn on him/her, upon your understanding of his nature.
Third, be calm don't lose your cool.
Fourth be open about your stand without accusations. She says that she doesn't like La which might as well be telling him to stay away from her 😆

Can't express my appreciation for that scene enough... Supporting each other and standing together to face tbe opponent.
Dri was amazing as the wifey, addressing him with respect (with terms like inhone, aap), presenting them as a unit ('hum dikhana nahi chahte") making it clear that she understands her husband (inhem dikhava nahi pasand) and the final touch of moving closer to him as she says "khas kar ke apni' personal' jeethom ka... that hint of intimacy, belonging 👏.

PS:plz forgive the hinglish letterings of a Malayali 😕
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Now I'm much more excited to watch the episode.. 😭
Hopefully, we'll get more scenes of DriKshit claiming their HAQ on each other

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Dri handled Lava with finesse, dignity and grace which is so like her. The girl is a true match for the sassy Shergill. In the words of daadi from IB "takkar ki jodi".
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Posted: 6 years ago
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This outstanding scene really deserve this special appreciation. Loved the way Dri handled Lavanya.
Rakshit also realised that his wifey doesnt dislike him nor is indifferent to him like she says or pretend to be.
Looking forward to see how Cvs show more trust building n emotional bonding betwee them.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Dri's characterisation is terrific, she very well put Lav in her place. I liked how she walked to Rak and stood by him as she handled Lav. I also loved the way Rak corrected Lav when she addressed Dri by Ms Sood and Rak urged that she is Mrs Rakshit Shergill. Dri's smile post that reflects that she was glad Rak expressed his right on her in front of Lav
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I'm new to this show. Just watched all previous episodes in the past 3-4 days.😆Haven't watched today's episode's yet except a few clips via Instagram. Drishti and Rakshit both have a soft corner hidden for each other but they don't seem to want to acknowledge that.🤔Their reactions always seem to depend on their mood. They'll be caring one minute for each other, and taunts will start the next minute.😆

Anyway, I don't like it when Mahima acts mean with Drishti and obviously she's disappointed that Rakshit did not get married to the right girl at the right time, but why is not Rakshit saying anything such as "Drishti too is a girl with 'min rasi'"? This would surely calm down Mahima, and Drishti has caused no harm to anyone ever since she's living at the Shergill's house. I guess it's an Indian drama so the saas has to make the bahu's life miserable.😆Hopefully later Rakshit speaks up and takes his wife's side. I await for this.👍🏼

Overall, I really enjoy the pairing of Drishti and Rakshit because they are different and will probably help each other become a better version. I mean, every word of Drishti affects Rakshit and he is trying to become cool and easy as an individual, and that's amazing. I also look forward to Drishti realizing that she also feels something for Rakshit. She only mentionned that she married Rakshit to save her sister Divya and that she'll continue to pretend in being in this marriage relationship. Drishti needs to think about herself too because regardless of her duties as an elder sister, she has a right to be in love with someone. 😳


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Posted: 6 years ago
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I haven't watched the complete scene but bits and from what i gathered - Dri naturally exudes a calm, composed and graceful way of tackling these situations even if it's something/someone she thoroughly dislikes.
She aproaches it in a sophisticated manner (as Deepika says) and absolved it with finesse.
Although she has an inkling of R character, Lav was his ex gf and one he was willing enough to marry, so there must have been some uneasiness that she camouflaged through her show of them as a couple whereas behind closed doors a different story is played.
More than the trust aspect at this time she's not one to display her laundry in public that's what I took.
Subconscious feelings are another matter

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Posted: 6 years ago
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one of the finest scences of today's episode😊. In every sentence of dristi's speech,there was one thing common yet silent...that is trust ,respect & care r such things which should be shown through gestures ...not by words. Waise, rakshit babu was pretty upset when his dear wify snatched and give away his thandai ka glass to sunny🤣
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: BlueJasmine

one of the finest scences of today's episode 😊. In every sentence of dristi's speech,there was one thing common yet silent...that is trust ,respect & care r such things which should be shown through gestures ...not by words. Waise, rakshit babu was pretty upset when his dear wify snatched and give away his thandai ka glass to sunny🤣

🤣True. But he didnt see why wifey did that. Loved the way, she held n then hid behind Rakshit to escape Sunny.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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As sofna mentioned & I 2 agree DRI has her own sophisticated way 2 deal with persons & problem.

I m not wrong Rakshit is ver y much impressed by this quality of DRI

By this incident Rakshit should understand that what we see is not always right , he saw shikhar & DRI chit chatting , holding hands etc & jumped on d conclusion that DRI is flirting with Shikhar

If dri wanted she 2 would had accused Rakshit 4 flirting with lavanya as lavanya was his ex gf but she kept her trust on her husband & relationship


As lavanya Sai there is no relationship b/w drikshit , so drikshit can start with friendship it will help them 2 know each other.


As sofna mentioned one of her post that Rakshit wants DRI's attention .

When he don't get DRI's attention he turns a bit taunting kind off but today when he was getting DRI's attention he was in a gud mood .


I hope changes comes in drikshit relationship after holi event

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