can someone answer this question for me?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: ginak

As I said shelly wud love to hear what you have to say abt Ridzy 😊. your take on it that is!

Ok..I'll try to be a bit more specific..😊 What killed Ridhima's character for me was that rape prank actually..for me, that was the lowest one can stoop but I was still ready to forgive her.. she redeemed herself a little during confession days but after the kasauli fiasco, it's blah...

As far as consistency is concerned, Ridhima is always facing an all time low..DMG doesn't even let her stay true to her own self..here she's reprimanding Armaan for not keeping his personal and professional life separate, some days pass, and here she's celebrating her demotion from being a monitor and IOTM and having a ball...

She breaks up with him 'cause she isn't sure about her feelings and has serious problems with what Armaan is, and then she doesn't want Armaan to change for herself ( considering the lines she uttrered to Bi like 'wo mere liye khud ko badal raha hay') ok, I'd like that explained to me..You reject him when you don't like what he does, and if he tries to change himself for you for the better, you don't want that too..then pray tell what exactly you do want..

Originally posted by: simplyvivacious

Sarah I had meant for shelly to expand a bit more on her take on ridzy just to clear the air 😊 Thanks for your detailed reply too.

Ok..I'll try to be a bit more specific..😊 What killed Ridhima's character for me was that rape prank actually..for me, that was the lowest one can stoop but I was still ready to forgive her.. she redeemed herself a little during confession days but after the kasauli fiasco, it's blah...True the rape prank did it for me too esp after she had undergone a near rape experience which must have been traumatizing!

As far as consistency is concerned, Ridhima is always facing an all time low..DMG doesn't even let her stay true to her own self..here she's reprimanding Armaan for not keeping his personal and professional life separate, some days pass, and here she's celebrating her demotion from being a monitor and IOTM and having a ball...hmm very interesting point there.

She breaks up with him 'cause she isn't sure about her feelings and has serious problems with what Armaan is, and then she doesn't want Armaan to change for herself ( considering the lines she uttrered to Bi like 'wo mere liye khud ko badal raha hay') ok, I'd like that explained to me..You reject him when you don't like what he does, and if he tries to change himself for you for the better, you don't want that too..then pray tell what exactly you do want..

Yeah right! I guess she wants him to be true to himself and not change for her (he told her she makes him feel not up to the mark and that he changed himself for her still she is not satisfied so I guess she feels he shudnt hurt becos he had to change) and since she doesnt like quite a few attributes of that Armaan she doesnt want to continue the relation cos she will be hurt. I guess she feels in the long run, if he changes for her then he will be uncomfortable and then it will tell on the relationship. But then if he is happy with it, shudnt trouble her. I guess wud have been nice if they cud sit down and sort it out but guess she is not the kind to sit down, talk, and sort things out. if it works it works, or else she moves on??? I tried really hard believe me to come up with that and after reading sneha's point of view. I dunno if that makes sense. Basically trying to understand myself so 😳

Originally posted by: simplyvivacious

I completely agree Gina..I think all of us have our biases one way or the other..Maybe we understand and relate to Armaan's actions, feelings and thoughts more because of the wonder that Mr. Karan Singh Grover is..His expressions don't let anything unclear, explain even the smallest details...

Originally posted by: ginak

Sarah I had meant for shelly to expand a bit more on her take on ridzy just to clear the air 😊 Thanks for your detailed reply too.

No prob, and got your point there, Gina..😊 Was trying to be a bit more understandable for Shelly...

Originally posted by: ginak

Yeah right! I guess she wants him to be true to himself and not change for her (he told her she makes him feel not up to the mark and that he changed himself for her still she is not satisfied so I guess she feels he shudnt hurt becos he had to change) and since she doesnt like quite a few attributes of that Armaan she doesnt want to continue the relation cos she will be hurt. I guess she feels in the long run, if he changes for her then he will be uncomfortable and then it will tell on the relationship. But then if he is happy with it, shudnt trouble her. I guess wud have been nice if they cud sit down and sort it out but guess she is not the kind to sit down, talk, and sort things out. if it works it works, or else she moves on??? I tried really hard believe me to come up with that and after reading sneha's point of view. I dunno if that makes sense. Basically trying to understand myself so 😳

Dunno if i made any sense there!

I'm trying hard to understand too😳..

Originally posted by: ginak

I guess we have seen more of this from Armaan's perspective like it has been said in so many posts and the actor potraying Armaan is soo awesome at expressions and conveying what the character feels, they have banked heavily on him and the character ridhima hasnt got her fair share but only some episodes here and there where out of the blue one is given the explanation. One identifies so much with Armaan one often gets biased too!

Right on... I totally agree with you and Sarah!!

Armaan has potrayed the chara very beautifully.... Hats off to his acting skills..👏

And Ridz has not got her share and now more so... completely is out of her usual chara that she would have never been... hence it is hard to relate(for me)..

Sarah... Rape epi...did it for you....Kasuali did it for me ...I just thru in the towel after that!

My one more question: Ridz doesn't want Armaan to change for 'her' ... now looks like she has changed... hopefully not for him....... can she live with that or would want to go back to being her usual self??

Originally posted by: dmg07

My one more question: Ridz doesn't want Armaan to change for 'her' ... now looks like she has changed... hopefully not for him....... can she live with that or would want to go back to being her usual self??

hear! hear! I take my hat off to you for bringing this point, Veena...👏 You go, girl!! here's a bigggggg hug for you...🤗

Originally posted by: dmg07

Right on... I totally agree with you and Sarah!!

Armaan has potrayed the chara very beautifully.... Hats off to his acting skills..👏

And Ridz has not got her share and now more so... completely is out of her usual chara that she would have never been... hence it is hard to relate(for me)..

Sarah... Rape epi...did it for you....Kasuali did it for me ...I just thru in the towel after that!

My one more question: Ridz doesn't want Armaan to change for 'her' ... now looks like she has changed... hopefully not for him....... can she live with that or would want to go back to being her usual self?? very very apt question that. Why is she changing and is it for him? Just to get him to smile? and is it alright for her to change??