Why Blame?

Hey guys I understand that Ridz does lots of things that may disappoint Armaan...BUT this time I don't think she has done anything wrong! She did NOT say yes to be his partner in the dance, but Armaan just got upset...and what is so wrong with being a friend of someone, who apparently does not have any friends in the hospital?? I think we need to look from Ridz Perspective before starting the blame game! what do you guys think?

I think after Ridz has confessed..Armaan has only been getting upset with her...

Armaan is acting a bit weird..But hes just a guy who loves Riddhima loads..

As long as they are together I ahve no problem!

But I do agree with you!

yaa...sort off...actualy...m nt blamin ridz..bt...rahoolll...uurrgghh...hes sooo irritatin..he knws shes armaan's weak point dts y hes doin all dis!!!.. 😡 😡 😡
n yaa..armaan is actin weird by gttn upset on every smaal thng!! 😕 ...

i agree she didnt say yes to rahul n the dance...

but considering how much armaan luvz her..she duznt hav the same luv back..she duznt undstnd his feelings

You couldnt be more right. Ridz was pretty clear that she dint wanna spill the beans of their relationship to everyone just yet.. but Armaan wants her to pretty much do that by proclaiming she loves him in front of everyone. WHY? I don't get it. The man just got the woman he's sought after so fervently for so long, WHY does he want to scare her away, by his posessiveness and jealousy and past rivalry?? Simply put, Armaan's started behaving like a Child and Riddhima's just an innocent bystander who's getting caught in the fire..

Then again, I might be contradicting myself, but if you notice the underlay of music in their arguments from yesterday, the tone they use with each other, and their body language, you can tell it's not as serious a fight as everyone is making it to be, just one of them love-quarrels.. and it's but a learning experience for both of em

I totally agree that he s being too possesive and we should not blame her for no reason..she really loves armaan and for getting some ides she even went o shashank and ask in indirect way and how did he confessed

I agree with you guys...Armu has started acting like a child...but then again their fights are childlike arguments as well! 😆 But cute nonetheless! 😆
I just think Armaan should trust his love and not get jealous and upset so fast...I'm sure when Ridz goes with Rahul in his car, Armaan will be VERY upset...but obviously he will not give Ridz any other choice and that's why she'll prolly be compelled to go with Rahul...urgh Armu just trust Ridz and bring back the cute scenes! 😉

Guys...lets get sum perspective here. this woman has given this guy an extremely extremely tough time. she wouldnt even let him touch her hand, or go out with him after months of persuasion. he has always stood by her and she has well, never done so. at last, he has her and he is just wanting to enjoy having her and being with her and for once he feels he can have sum expectations of her. what else is the meaning of being together and commitment. just when rahul has gone and complained against armaan to keerti, riddz goes and says that yes he is my friend. hw wud we feel if the person closest to us claims to be a friend of sum1 who 1 second ago has tried to get us into serious trouble or harmed us seriously. sum loyalty maybe expected atleast?? as far as armaan is concerned, it is difficult for him to digest that a girl who take aeons to confess to him or go out with him(she still has not done so really has she) or still keeps saying chhodo to him, is agreeing to everything rahul is saying...possessiveness is part of the game of luv...adn esp when luv is new. and that too when an enemy who is obvioulsy trying to create trouble. i dont agree that riddz is an innocent bystander. she knows what rahul is doing, she cud have avoided him just as she has avoided armaan for so long...

Originally posted by: pyaridilwalino1

I agree with you guys...Armu has started acting like a child...but then again their fights are childlike arguments as well! 😆 But cute nonetheless! 😆
I just think Armaan should trust his love and not get jealous and upset so fast...I'm sure when Ridz goes with Rahul in his car, Armaan will be VERY upset...but obviously he will not give Ridz any other choice and that's why she'll prolly be compelled to go with Rahul...urgh Armu just trust Ridz and bring back the cute scenes! 😉

i agree wid u!!!!!!!!!!! i was finkin da sme! i can understnad dat rahool is armaan's enemy bt still i dnt get da fact y ridz shuldnt be his frend? ure rite armaan shuld trust his love!!!!!!!!!!! i can understand y he is jealous bt still i ifnk he shuld trust his love! hes startin to be so childish!!!!!!!!!! n ridz is sweet n innocent n jst goi along wid it! 2day jst for armaan ridz was nearly gonna tell every1! bt i fink armaan shuld understnad her! dey r happy how dey r! i dnt undrstnad y armaan wants to tell every1?😕

Originally posted by: dmg2c

Guys...lets get sum perspective here. this woman has given this guy an extremely extremely tough time. she wouldnt even let him touch her hand, or go out with him after months of persuasion. he has always stood by her and she has well, never done so. at last, he has her and he is just wanting to enjoy having her and being with her and for once he feels he can have sum expectations of her. what else is the meaning of being together and commitment. just when rahul has gone and complained against armaan to keerti, riddz goes and says that yes he is my friend. hw wud we feel if the person closest to us claims to be a friend of sum1 who 1 second ago has tried to get us into serious trouble or harmed us seriously. sum loyalty maybe expected atleast?? as far as armaan is concerned, it is difficult for him to digest that a girl who take aeons to confess to him or go out with him(she still has not done so really has she) or still keeps saying chhodo to him, is agreeing to everything rahul is saying...possessiveness is part of the game of luv...adn esp when luv is new. and that too when an enemy who is obvioulsy trying to create trouble. i dont agree that riddz is an innocent bystander. she knows what rahul is doing, she cud have avoided him just as she has avoided armaan for so long...

Okay I disagree with you in many places....for a girl it's very hard to trust a guy, go out with him, and confess....Not many girls follow their instincts and that's what is shown through Ridz character...if you remember way in the beginning where Armaan was falling in love with Ridz and he would ask her out..it took her awhile to trust him...but then he broke her trust...once something like that happens it takes a lonngggg time to rebuild the trust...and it's very difficult for a girl to confess...I'm not saying it's not hard for the guy...but it's equally hard for the girl...and I don't think there was anythign wrong in Ridz taking her time to realize her feelings and then finally confess them!

Secondly...I agree he has always stood by her...but in a way so has she...during the rough phase of Minnie..and she cleared up the whole mess of Maya (even though she misunderstood him in the beginning..she made it a point to clear everything out on her own)...so you cant' just say she has never stood by him!

Third...I don't agree that committment is to have expectations of each other...the reason we fall in love is because we love the person as he/she is...not because we expect them to be in a certain way we want...if that's the case that really isn't loving the person...Ridz has been shown as a goody-goody character...it would look out of character if she said No she is not Rahul's friend when Rahul asked her...and plus that would look sooo mean nonetheless! Armaan instead has fallen in love with the personality of Ridz...and he is just getting upset over little things, soon he will realize I'm sure!

Lastly...confessing to be in love is much more difficult and important than saying yes to be friends! I know Ridz knows what Rahul is doing...and I think she is trying to end the whole fighting thing...like she said before she doesn't like all this nonsense fighting stuff...also she DID NOT say yes to be Rahul's partner for the sangeet...and Armaan knows that,b ut he is just getting carried away in his anger!

I don't think Ridz is to blame at all here!!! I think all these arguments won't last anyway...afterall they are in love! 😊