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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: krishnaria

Awwwww..Shilpuuuuuuuuuu🤗

another Amazing post from u..wow..Loved it..u alwzz put in deep thots n dats so well...
i agree wid u..Sid is no less a Ordinary human being..he als has ordinary human feelings..i agrre wid the FEAR part...
Riaaaaaaaa🤗................nikammiiiiiii...........thank u for ur darshan and reply sweetzzzz
we knw how is Sid..if we look into fun-filled world of Sid...Superstitions don't play a role..bt today he did..i agree dat Fear changed into Superstition..For sid looking back into FBs stops at the Honesty Point..the guy puts in dep to keep up to his wifey's promises,wishes..she asked him to b truthful all the way he is..Sid,he knws n undstands dat well..somewer his Concscience inside is one way not asking him to utter the truth coz of the peace,contentment,happiness he sees on the face of the lady..Sid worths dat..he kinda can't loose on dat..
Exactly...........the glow on his wife's face with sheer happiness n contentment and the fear of loosing that is wat is stopping Sid do what he knows his wife loves the most about him, telling the truth.
n on the other side of it the his conscience asks him to say the rightful now once again for Riddhima's sake..sid kindastruck in between riddhima's wish n happiness..n thus his mind kinda gets into such superstions..its jus a mere illusion craeted by his mind coz of the trueth wic he plays hard on to deny..he doesn't want ot..n thus everythg apparent seems wrong...
👏👏👏BINGO!!!!!!!!!! All things that are now appearing in front of his eyes are now mere illusions of his mind coz he is not the person who can hide the truth......He is a pure honest n genuine guy with lots of wisdom but a certain fear is currently overruling his mind and he is linking all the mis-haps to wat this fear.
but we know Sid how he is..he'd def speak into the right, to the right person at the right moment n later eberythg wud look much beautiful n at reat n peace....
Once again..beautiful topic!!well expained!!
Sid is Sid and we love him for the true human being he is with all his flaws........and yes this abundance of wisdom that he has we await to unrevel soon.😳

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Posted: 15 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: indian_beauty

Shilpuuuuuuuu 🤗 🤗
A-M-A-Z-I-N-G 👏
I agree with everything you said...I can't and don't wanna add anything...You said it ALL....and your quote:

"Honesty is not dependent on time. A truth remains a truth, today as well as tomorrow. It only takes ur inner strength and the belief in right or wrong to reveal the truth today not worrying about tomorrow." ~ Shilpa (sajni786)


I couldn't agree more....A truth is a truth no matter what and it has to come out one day or the other...it really doesn't matter...

I really have nothing 2 say....this post just left me speechless....You described each and every emotion Sid is feeling right now....JUST PERFECT....Thank you for writing such a beautiful post!!!

Zarquuuuuuuuuu🤗..................thank u darling for reading n replying....Am glad u liked it 😳😳
And u are right..........The truth will come out one day.......and we await that day.....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hi

fab post shilpa, enjoyed reading it. you have put everything beautiful

i can thoroughly relate and identify with sid's words and behaviour/dileama today

sid is so inocoincet, he fears that if he tells Rids reg Armaan, she will become dukhi and guilty again

but sid has always eventually done the rigth thing and i trsut him that this time too he wil do what is right and rids will fall for even deeper for Sid

norzar
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lennie

Hey Shilpoo, on a roll lol

Lenzooooooooooooooo🤗..........seems like it....dont ask me how 😆😆
I agree, and i love your quotes
Thank u 😳😳
Sid is not being dishonest but he is keeping this from her and he knows its not right, and he knows he has to tell and he will tell her but its when that is the question
He doesnt want his Ridz glow and contentment to fade esp on her wedding, she is happy and excited, Sid doesnt want to dampen that or see her upset, but he knows he has to tell her
And its bugging Sid, and on top that the mishaps that is happening all around is giving him signs he has to tell her soon and importantly before the marriage ceremony
Yup........Sid not dishonest........he is simply taking precautions coz he fears losing that vibrant smile on her face the he sees now. And its this fear that making all these mis-haps look even more scary and fearful to him and as he links these fears to the mis-haps......out goes rational thinking n in comes superstition and he even gets more concious about hiding the truth from Ridhimma.
I think we all go through this, that it bugs you all day till the time you actually get it off your chest, and Sid is one of those guys who just cant be himself if this thing is on his mind and chest
Exactly............Sid as we say an ordinary human being just like us with extra ordinary heart and who is honest n genuine and thats why hiding a truth from someone he truly n deeply loves is bugging him and he finds no peace in all that is happening around him.........Isnt that wat we all go thru when we hide things we know we shudnt be???
Sid looks back on all the mishaps happened and he realises that god is indeed telling him things and he has to tell her
Being honest with Ridz is always been Sid's belief and Ridz actually telling him actually quality that she loves about is, another added pressure as well
As we all know SR's whole relationship is based on Trust, Honesty and Faith
👏👏👏👏
Lovely quote and yes............SR's relationship has always been based on trust, honesty n faith and thats where the integrity of their relationship stems from. And its this pressure to maintain this intergrity that will finally open the doors of wisdom that are currently covered by the clouds of fear n superstition and he will tell her the truth.
In the end truth is truth, only time can change how one person sees the truth because of the length of time you have kept it from them, it makes a difference when you tell the truth and how one perceives it i guess, does that make sense ???
Yup.........sometimes the timing in telling the truth can change the perception of the one on the recieving end of that truth.........but wat ultimately shud be looked at is the reason behind the time taken and the fact that the strength combined with sheer genunity was there to unrevel the truth and thats wat I call "pure courage".
Thanks for replying sweetz 😳😳

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: norzar

hi

fab post shilpa, enjoyed reading it. you have put everything beautiful

i can thoroughly relate and identify with sid's words and behaviour/dileama today

sid is so inocoincet, he fears that if he tells Rids reg Armaan, she will become dukhi and guilty again

but sid has always eventually done the rigth thing and i trsut him that this time too he wil do what is right and rids will fall for even deeper for Sid

norzar

norzieeeeeeeeeeeeeee 🤗
Thanks for reading and replying sweetz..............am glad u enjoyed it 😳
And I agree with u..........Sid has abundance of knowledge currently being over casted by his fear of losing Ridz's smile n happiness.........But the moment his wisdom starts ruling his not so rational thinking.......he will tell her the truth and Ridz shud fall deeper for a guy so pure....so genuine ......and we all await that day 😍
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wow shilpa awesome post, I agree to every bit,

I believe in whatever opens up your conscience shall be welcomed 😳 even if its superstition , more over I think its actually a inner emotional turmoil of a good human which pushes him/her into the state of dilemma and judgment of right or wrong, as a beast wont think once after committing any crime so in a way this is a difference between the man and the beast. 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Shilpuuuuu so glad that you have finally decided to post your thoughts on MF...everything you have written is so true and beautifully written...i really dont have a lot to add to your post...it is so true how today we got to see how sid's heart is sooo pure that it is slightly tarnished, you see pure 24k gold actually erodes away because it is soo soft...just like sid's heart....and you are right sid's whole world is ridz especially her happiness...and everything he does, everything he's ever done, was for her happiness alone...and you know his keeping this from her is only a temporary thing, he would never keep something like this from her indefintitely, he's only doing it to save her from the clouds that are bound to shadow her happiness on this wonderful occasion...personally i dont think there really is a "right" decision for sid to make, in fact i think this is one decision that should never have even fallen on sid's shoulder...i think that its unfortunate that the person leaving didnt have the guts to call and tell both sid and ridz that he wasnt going to come, that he was going to leave so that they could have a wedding without interruptions and drama...no i dont think its wrong for him to have left, i can get why it would be hard for him to see the marriage, and that he needs time to absorb it all, but to have left shilpa hanging like that and then to not tell the woman he "loves" directly the reason he's not coming and leaving it for shilpa to tell or not tell, and then to have sid carry that burden is simply unfair...but w/e it is what it is...

i do think that sid will come clean, as he will always be honest to ridz in the end regardless of whether it will lead her to getting hurt or not, but this time it has taken him a little longer because before his eyes he is seeing ridz not only bloom before him, but grow confident in her feelings, she is finally voicing her opinions out loud, she is telling him what she has kept in heart for so long...i mean think about it ...would you have waited for a very long time to not just gain the trust of the woman you love, but her love as well. you have been patient and understanding waiting for her to trust you enough, trust herself enough to finally let what lies in her heart out...and now finally she is slowly letting it out and now there is something that threatens to set it back, something that threatens her focus to shift from her love for you to the worry of a loved one...i dont think its too much to ask for your bride to think about you on your wedding day (esp given her state of mind in the last one)...so yeh he postpones the inevitable, he tries to shelter these few sweet moments of his life that are supposed to be special that are supposed to be only about him and ridz...

I do think its only fitting that things dont go smoothly for sid and ridz on their wedding day, after all nothing has ever been easy for these two, nor has it been smooth, and if you can overcome the obstacles life throws out of you and come out standing...united..then nothing will be able to stop you...and i am sure regardless of how much "fate" aka JPJ end up ruining Sid and Ridz's special day they will find a way to make it not only special but to show each other and those they love that there is nothing that can stand in their way...that they are simply..just meant to be...

-Arp

(PS no need for me to write a bakbak...😆 i did it all here)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Shilpu, 🤗

Lovely words as usual. 👏👏 Baatein karna toh koi aapse seekhe. The quotes are so apt, and so are your thoughts. I agree, fear is such a real reaction... its animal instinct. But as humans, we have also been blessed with other emotions to complicate the simplest of things. But then that is the beauty of life... it unfolds to us in layers, gathering our various emotions and then provoking us to react. I've said it so many times before, and perhaps so has Mrs. Modi. But, at the expense of sounding like a broken record, I will say that Sid is such a wonderful character, so easy to relate to because he is genuine. He is made up of real emotions whether they be the jealousy experienced by a lovelorn husband, or the sincerity of a devoted friend. What he went through today, was completely natural. Considering any anxiety-prone situation as such, it is understandable that his mind will try and reason, even with the most unreasonable. His concern about his wife is so vivid, it spells in everything he does. So when he finds out such a shaking truth, as with any other person who has loved another, he wants to protect his beloved... protect, not keep her away from it. He wants to keep her from the guilt that he knows may rear its ugly head if he tells her. If anyone truly understands this woman beyond the basics, its him... and knowing so, he cannot throw her in the fire... at least not without him. But I have a feeling Mrs. Modi might have a different reaction this time...

Ishq barse boondan boondan...

Cheers,
dc
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Posted: 15 years ago
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OMG OMG OMG Shilpuuuuu 😳

Mindblowing post , loved it to d core😳😳

i agree wid each & every word said by u..👍🏼

yes sid is like us too, he also fears and gets hurts, he loves his wife to death and he don't want to upset his wife but on d same point he wants to tell her d truth😕

but as we all know our Sid he will tell her d truth & dat too before marriage😳


"Honesty is not dependent on time. A truth remains a truth, today as well as tomorrow. It only takes ur inner strength and the belief in right or wrong to reveal the truth today not worrying about tomorrow." ~ Shilpa (sajni786)

Honesty is not time dependent and its wisdom that can open the doors to one's conscience conquering the fear making one do what is right........and we shall see how!!!

ohhh i loved d above quote & lines😳


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Posted: 15 years ago
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My heartiest thanks to all those of u who have taken out the time from their heavy or not so heavy schedule to read and reply in my post..........Believe me.........its feels precious to be given even the slightest bit of attention and for me it also enlightens me with ur intellectual and thotful minds contributing to my school of knowledge.


Sid is as all of u have said a guy with directions and genuine human emotions n traits and wat he experiences today is part n parcel of being a true human being and wat we shall see tomorrow is the highlight of this gem of a human so rare to find........

Love you all.......
Rab Raakha 🤗

Edited by sajni786 - 15 years ago

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