Armaan Malik: Its my life! - Page 2

Originally posted by: norzar

hi

fab post nikita, i completly agree with you,

i am highly disappointed with Armaan, why cant he realsie what pain he is putting both siddhima in, and now Shilpa too is becoming a voctim of hsi pain, it is not fair.

His behaviour is making siddhima feel guilty, and how can he expect both of them to be happy in they own world, when he is doing so much to himself,

Rids crying and hugging her's and Sid's wedding photo today, shows how much she loves Sid and wants to be with him, but its the guilt trip which has become an unending saga for her, she balmes herslef for putting Armaan in all the pain and its high time Arman stops punsihing himself and others for something which no one is responsible for, its destiny/fate, he needs to accept and face the reality. he needs to release rids from the guilt, he needs to release sid form this guilt. They are stuck because of him,

waiting for the promo sidmaan clip and hope its an eye opener for Armaan

norzar

Thanks Nozar!

Exactly he is not understanding that he is hurting the people he cares about and I agree how can he expect them to be happy.

I know Sid is her strenght and she wants to hold on to it because this is the relationship that is giving her happiness.

SidMaan scene should be the turning point for Armaan, if not I don't know what the CVs have in store for us. 😆

Originally posted by: saddy101

I completely agree with you.
armaan should think about the others also.
I know he's really hurt and he wants to be left alone a while,
but I think he should atleast try to move on or atleast try to be happy.
I really want my old armaan back who could have done anything to make others
feel happy😍

Exactly Armaan is not trying, and no one can help him until he helps himself! 😳

Originally posted by: uppaas

Awesome post..👏

You have hit the nail on the head..I am shocked the way the cvs have butchered Armaan..He was the guy who CLAIMED HE ONLY WANTS RIDZ HAPPINESS ..what he is doing now is the opposite ..hurting himself to get Ridz attention , make her feel low and guilty..This is nOT LOVE but OBSESSION..I cannot understand this Armi..what happened all his efforts to get SR2gether were they fake???

When he saw SR in the rain he asked god for someone ..what happened....
?????
he is harming himself to hurt others.........and now making sure they know abt it..The bday episode did not stop him, now this fight.......😕
So Armaan Malik it is your life and you can do what you wish to but do realise your decisions effect a lot more people than you realise and till you don't help your self by accepting the truth the pain is never going to stop!

I could not agree more👏

Exactly what has happened to that Armaan Malik, the one who asked for somebody the one who was looking to move on, he just stopped he is ready to destroy his life and that makes no sense, I get he is still hurting but he is not trying to heal, he is living in the past and if this continues they will ruin Armaan even more as a character.

Life ,fate ,destiny ,Riddhima,Shashank everyone has TOLD Armaan what to do ,never asked him what he wanted to do .Shashank knows how much Armaan loves Riddhima and even then he asked Armaan to go and help SR come together.Riddhima asked him to move on and destiny never let him be with the only person he loves the most .He has been a lonely man but even then always thought of giving everyone happiness,when such a person is reprimanded for no mistake of his and has no one to share his sorrow or to understand him that person does become a victim of frustration ,irritation etc. Armaan thinks no one ever listens to me I never get what I have desired and wished for so why should I listen to anyone too .Secondly Armaan never intended to hurt Riddhima or come between SR ,he infact wouldnt even cross their path and still maintains a distance.Armaan is not in this world to only please others and work to set other relations right ,he has a life of his own and even though fighting isnt the right way to deal with it but atm his condition makes him do so .

As per Arman he only told ridhima before that he wants her to be happy,the cvs shows that his love for ridhima will be for ever but wait a minute, if A loves R so much then in this situation what a normal person do, when he saw that ridhima heard about street fight then he will say i will not go for street fight to make Ridhima happy and then he can do whatever he wants to but telling ridhima you can not stop me for street fight and then keeping promise of not hitting back, really i doubt the maturity of Arman's character
In my pov if you love so much then you will let her go for her own happiness and do not make scene like this and make her feel guilty, any girl in place of ridhima feel the same pain how ridhima is feeling right now. Even if you feel same for some one in your family if he is emotionally so weak due to circumstances then you will also make sure he will not face the scenario where he has to face the emotinal reality . it is not jealousy but concern and guilt

Originally posted by: Ankita.M

Life ,fate ,destiny ,Riddhima,Shashank everyone has TOLD Armaan what to do ,never asked him what he wanted to do .Shashank knows how much Armaan loves Riddhima and even then he asked Armaan to go and help SR come together.Riddhima asked him to move on and destiny never let him be with the only person he loves the most .He has been a lonely man but even then always thought of giving everyone happiness,when such a person is reprimanded for no mistake of his and has no one to share his sorrow or to understand him that person does become a victim of frustration ,irritation etc. Armaan thinks no one ever listens to me I never get what I have desired and wished for so why should I listen to anyone too .Secondly Armaan never intended to hurt Riddhima or come between SR, he infact wouldnt even cross their path and still maintains a distance.Armaan is not in this world to only please others and work to set other relations right ,he has a life of his own and even though fighting isnt the right way to deal with it but atm his condition makes him do so .

P.S-- I respect you POV 😃 I have no intention of arguing .This is just the way I see it .I agree that Riddhima isnt wrong in her place either !

Thanks for the response😳 and I have to say well put and I respect what you have said. 👏

Armaan has always thought of everyone's happiness and I won't deny that but right now he is hurting everyone around him even without meaning to, and that I feel is because he is refusing to accept the fact SR are as a couple. He respects Sid and Riddhima individually but he struggles to see them as a couple and I get why but because of this refusal he is struggling to move on and he is not trying to move on, he is going backwards to old ways as a sense of comfort but this is it he is not accepting things and till he doesn't he will hurt everyone around him and no one can help him till he helps himself.

Like you I do not wish to argue - I just have responded to what you have said! 😳

Originally posted by: parishima

As per Arman he only told ridhima before that he wants her to be happy,the cvs shows that his love for ridhima will be for ever but wait a minute, if A loves R so much then in this situation what a normal person do, when he saw that ridhima heard about street fight then he will say i will not go for street fight to make Ridhima happy and then he can do whatever he wants to but telling ridhima you can not stop me for street fight and then keeping promise of not hitting back, really i doubt the maturity of Arman's character
In my pov if you love so much then you will let her go for her own happiness and do not make scene like this and make her feel guilty, any girl in place of ridhima feel the same pain how ridhima is feeling right now. Even if you feel same for some one in your family if he is emotionally so weak due to circumstances then you will also make sure he will not face the scenario where he has to face the emotinal reality . it is not jealousy but concern and guilt

I don't believe he is making her feel guilty on purpose but he is not dealing with what has happened over the past few months and that is a problem. He needs to let go of Riddhima I agree but he needs to do it a way that he isn't destroying himself.

Nikita. 🤗

I guess you know that I am a SRian but still my views are a bit different here,

We all say that Armaan is not moving on. He is not trying. And blah blah blah. But lets look at it this way.

I have always said that Riddhima is torn between her past who doesn't let go of her and her present who is waiting for her. She wants to take a step forward but can't, because the past is pulling her behind her; her past doesn't let go of her in the sense that her past doesn't let her move on toward the future where Sid is waiting. The thought of living a blissful live when Armaan dies a million deaths torns Riddhima. She loves Sid, but she doesn't want to be the reason Armaan builds a slow suicide for himself.

Now, Riddhima was .... well, I honestly laughed hard when she gave Armaan that stupid kasam. I mean, like, what the heck ? She didn't mean to but that kind of thing would only hurt him more, physically and emotionally. Armaan isn't letting go of her, fine. But why does she jatao hak over him? That kind of thing only makes the hold tighter. What Armaan needs to know is that Riddhima has moved on, in order to make a fresh start. But Riddhima talks like she still rules her life. Now, how is he supposed to believe that she is over him ? Though she is, really, but she still can't control his life cause it gives him the wrong impression.

Armaan won't try to move on till he is sure that Riddhima is over him. And Riddhima always gives him the wrong impression.

Shilpa and Sid are sweethearts. They are people deserved to be loved but getting hated and torn between Armaan and Riddhima. They didn't do anything to deserve this kind of twist in their lifes, did they? The person they love a lot are torn between their presents and pasts. Armaan doesn't let go and Riddhima doesn't let him let go!

She can't give him the impression that she wants him. That's one of the main reasons that Armaan hasn't moved on yet, he thinks that Riddhima could come back to him, and she just keeps on jataoing hak like she still cares for him in that sense. Caring and caring in that sense are two different things.

Originally posted by: nikita_88

Thanks for the response😳 and I have to say well put and I respect what you have said. 👏

Armaan has always thought of everyone's happiness and I won't deny that but right now he is hurting everyone around him even without meaning to, and that I feel is because he is refusing to accept the fact SR are as a couple. He respects Sid and Riddhima individually but he struggles to see them as a couple and I get why but because of this refusal he is struggling to move on and he is not trying to move on, he is going backwards to old ways as a sense of comfort but this is it he is not accepting things and till he doesn't he will hurt everyone around him and no one can help him till he helps himself.

Like you I do not wish to argue - I just have responded to what you have said! 😳