30/7: Sid did something wrong? REALLY? - Page 6

Originally posted by: shihij07

<font color="#ff0066">hi nitzy di!!!!!!!!!!
how are you?
here is my opinion regarding the whole scenario. i really don't want to blame sid and shilpa. they are as innocent as lambs. i mean, they won't imagine hurting somebody deliberately, even though i want sid'd constant seeking for advice should cease. he should ask their friend's opinion occasionally and implement them according to his own like or dislikes......, though he unintentionally spoilt his own and ridz party though we can't blame him
i really wanted to see how he would arrange a party according to his tastes for his ridz...
i really find it absloutely normal , asking help of your friends, but sid's habits...eh...🤔well are getting too much dependent... otherwise nothing of that sorts would have happened today.
P.S- DI, i was confused seeing ridz today. was she crying because she still loves armaan or she could feel his pain, hence the tears?
i really have tough time analysing our cuckoo riddhima....sometimes i feel , i should leave all my grey matter under my bed before watching her.....😳
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Originally posted by: -honeydew-

i know this wasnt for me.. but still, lets see, if i can help you with this... as weird as this may sound, she likes both the men and she cant help it... she is married to one, and doesnt find him bad, or see anything wrong in giving the marriage a shot, at the same time, when she see's her past right in front of her, totally in pain, perhaps the soft person inside her, forces her to spring back and be there for her lover, and she knows she cant...
did u notice, that till the time, she knew Armaan was missing she was happy making things happen with Sid, cos she knew, Armaan was around, somewhere, may be not with her, but somewhere and she knew her world was intact, the moment she realised he was missing, this whole effort she was making lost its prominence over the man she loved/s so dearly... its not an easy call to make..
perhaps Riddhima will need more time to let Armaan live his life, without her being a part of it.. cos, the day she knows he has actually moved on, she will not be able to take it either, cos, she is somewhere complaisant, it is her and no one else in Armaan's life...!! sorry for gate crashing...

phew! lastly it is really hard to decide between two men, both of whom are really really awesome in their own way!!

Originally posted by: Lennie

She will always love Armaan no doubt about that, but it isnt like before, she has moved on and healed and she loves Sid, if she didnt then really she wouldnt be here with him after everything that went on back in April/May and also Sid wouldnt have confessed at all to her about his love - if he felt Ridz hasnt moved on or loves him - that was the ultimate thing for Sid

And what she did on wednesday was the most biggest and massive and important thing for a woman to do, bared her heart and soul to one man she loves and sees everything in - it wasnt about proving anything but all it was about was the love and the love she has for Sid and that she is his forever by body, mind, heart and soul (her past is cherished in her heart and always will be but thats about it) and like i said before SR are soulmates, they have that pull to each other that is their bond and much more

The way i see it was anybody would be disturbed to find out your your b-day decorations is same from her past b-day with Armaan, hence the suprise and she was disturbed no doubt, but for Sid she went along smiled with his gestures by each thing looked the same, then the cake - all she had was to get through with it for herself and Sid and make it about her and Sid, and then she sees Armaan and you know what she is thinking coz she thought the same when she saw the decoration, its all same - and she must of seen Armaan's pain which is being visible to her lately and hence the sadness and guilt she feels and even more in this atmosphere coz its looks the same

And eyelock was not of a lovey dovey eyelock but noticing of each other and the atmosphere - because she knows Armaan is confronted with it in his face

Another thing Ridz didnt sense Armaan at all even she was disturbed and having flashes of the past which obviously connects to Armaan but she still didnt sense him at all and thats huge thing, and she hasnt done that for ages

Ridz is healed and moved on with Sid (again i say Ridz does everything with her heart from honesty and many times before she had the chance to go back to her past but no), and until Armaan moves on - Ridz cant completely satisfiedly move on with Sid, coz the guilt and sadness is there when she knows Armaan is going through coz she once went through this, but her pain and situation to this day i will say was worse coz she was bitter and went mad looking for him and had no idea where he was