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If after the party Sid is angry and hurt by Armaan's actions, then I think it would be justified.

I mean seriously now? Riddhima's birthday is something which Sid has planned with all his heart and mind, and unfortunately, it will end on a sour note. It's supposed to be Riddhima's special day as well but too bad it probably won't end the right way.

Even if Armaan is upset, angry and whatnot, out of all days he chose Riddhima's birthday to vent out all his emotions and frustrations? I guess I agree with some people when they say that Armaan's breakdown was needed but still...the situations and circumstances he does it in are not right. If he gets hurt by seeing SR together and being romantic, then why not just leave? Not only is he going to embarrass himself, but he's going to drag Sid and Riddhima into it as well. He's been invited as a guest, so why not just stay in his limits? Duniya wale ke saamne tamasha karne ki kya zaroorat hai?

If by doing all this one is supposed to feel sorry for Armaan, then that's not possible from my side. Infact, he'll just end up looking immature and stupid in POV. 😕

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Posted: 15 years ago

i guess u r right,i mean i know he is heartbroken but by his step he will break sid and riddhima also in tears...
feel bad for all of them...

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Armaan is destroying AR foreva with his own hands. Ouch. 😲 It pricks, it really does.

I always knew Armaan was an egocentric and self centered lover, so when he had taken the responsibility of bonding S and R together, I chuckled. For a bit, he was alright because of night clubs, a new chick on the block, and middle school bets, however as soon as it hit him that maybe Riddhima was genuinely content to be with Siddhanth, he went, 'Oh shit'. That's when it all shattered for him, and then came those flashbacks, the yearn for her body, the longing to be with her, the jealousy to know that Sid has rights on her which he desires. I still don't blame him...he's a flawed human being. It happens.

...He's not necessarily pouring out his pain only, but he's mocking first of all A -- R, then he's humiliating Riddhima's martial life. He's derogating Riddhima's love that she once had for him, and of course last but not least, he's being a buffoon like usual. He should've confronted long back, and if on the insides his intentions were to not see Sid and Riddhima be one then he should have not put up an act. Simple.

How he's venting is not the way to go.

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I understand where you are coming from. Sid's hard work will be to no avail as Riddhima will clearly not be happy about Armaan's outburst at the party. Although the time and place are wrong Armaan has every right to say what he feels. The guy has been hurting for so long now and hasn't said anything to a soul. I don't think that he CHOSE Riddhima's birthday as the day to feel cathartic but rather just not being able to take it anymore. Riddhima should know how Armaan is feeling so why would she ask him to be there? Because she once loved him or because she feels they have an unspoken friendship? Armaan is only there because Riddhima asked him to be. I just feel everyone's responsible for this. Sid for being insensitive enough to ask Armaan to help plan the party, Riddhima for inviting him knowing full well how he is and Armaan for keeping everything in for so long. Armaan may be found looking immature and whatnot but atleast he just gets everything off his chest. That's all I'm waiting for.

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amazing post👏
sid has worked day and night to make his wife bday a very special one, he has tried everything that will make her feel special, he wanted to make the day a markable day, but what did he get in return, his bro who he loves so much he crashed his party, not just his party but he humilated him and hiw wife, he created a scene in front of everyone, making people points fingers at siddhima, hurt siddhima so much by his childish act. all i can say is that armaan needs majore help, maybe his memory losse has really got to him or something, first he shows he is a mahan man, oh i will unite siddhima and become "mahan." atleast that will make me look cool and all that, and in the next moment he is like "UH" siddhima together no, hell no, ridz is mine and only mind, she has no right to touch her husband nor she has any right to express her love on him, blah blah, i just want to say stop showing two faces of armaan, if he hates siddhima then come openly with it and if he loves both of them then cvs stop this nonsense drama, it si going nowhere.

as for sid getting mad and doing something to armaan, i don't think so. the sid that we know he will not stoop that low like his bro, yes he will be heartbroken, hurt like hell, but he will not beat the crape out of armaan, sid is way beyond that, always have been. he will camly handle the situation. but you never now what this cvs is going to do.

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Originally posted by: hewascool90210
amazing post👏
sid has worked day and night to make his wife bday a very special one, he has tried everything that will make her feel special, he wanted to make the day a markable day, but what did he get in return, his bro who he loves so much he crashed his party, not just his party but he humilated him and hiw wife, he created a scene in front of everyone, making people points fingers at siddhima, hurt siddhima so much by his childish act. all i can say is that armaan needs majore help, maybe his memory losse has really got to him or something, first he shows he is a mahan man, oh i will unite siddhima and become "mahan." atleast that will make me look cool and all that, and in the next moment he is like "UH" siddhima together no, hell no, ridz is mine and only mind, she has no right to touch her husband nor she has any right to express her love on him, blah blah, i just want to say stop showing two faces of armaan, if he hates siddhima then come openly with it and if he loves both of them then cvs stop this nonsense drama, it si going nowhere.

as for sid getting mad and doing something to armaan, i don't think so. the sid that we know he will not stoop that low like his bro, yes he will be heartbroken, hurt like hell, but he will not beat the crape out of armaan, sid is way beyond that, always have been. he will camly handle the situation. but you never now what this cvs is going to do.

Armaan didn't actually crash the party he was invited. Its not even that he is being shown as two faced. There's a difference between being hurt (which he is) and trying to break someone apart. He has never said or thought that Riddhima is only his or that her husband has no right to touch her. He's just having a hard time getting over that fact that she will not be in his life the way she once was. Of course he loves Siddhima there is no doubt in my mind that he does, but its not like it doesn't hurt him because it does. And Sid would never do that to Armaan. Sid is rational now and for him to beat Armaan up will be completely out of character. He'll be hurt but not angry enough to beat Armaan up.

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Posted: 15 years ago

Amazing post...👏 I really agree with you and whatever Angel (bani) has said.

If sid get angry, defiantly it will be justified. I mean no man can take all this, Sid accept riddhima with her past n all and even he consider Armaan as his big bro. Whatever armaan did in party was just worst. He took whole issue in public. Sid was trying to give best b'day party but in end armaan ruin it all.

After the party I want see Riddhima, Siddhant n shilpa reaction because this trio gonna get hurt. I want Riddhima to take a stand now.

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Originally posted by: vena.cava.
Armaan didn't actually crash the party he was invited. Its not even that he is being shown as two faced. There's a difference between being hurt (which he is) and trying to break someone apart. He has never said or thought that Riddhima is only his or that her husband has no right to touch her. He's just having a hard time getting over that fact that she will not be in his life the way she once was. Of course he loves Siddhima there is no doubt in my mind that he does, but its not like it doesn't hurt him because it does. And Sid would never do that to Armaan. Sid is rational now and for him to beat Armaan up will be completely out of character. He'll be hurt but not angry enough to beat Armaan up.

agree on the part that our sid will never do that, b/c he is not that kind of man to just loose his cool and do something stupid and i really thank you for understanding sid.

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Originally posted by: vena.cava.
I understand where you are coming from. Sid's hard work will be to no avail as Riddhima will clearly not be happy about Armaan's outburst at the party. Although the time and place are wrong Armaan has every right to say what he feels. The guy has been hurting for so long now and hasn't said anything to a soul. I don't think that he CHOSE Riddhima's birthday as the day to feel cathartic but rather just not being able to take it anymore. Riddhima should know how Armaan is feeling so why would she ask him to be there? Because she once loved him or because she feels they have an unspoken friendship? Armaan is only there because Riddhima asked him to be. I just feel everyone's responsible for this. Sid for being insensitive enough to ask Armaan to help plan the party, Riddhima for inviting him knowing full well how he is and Armaan for keeping everything in for so long. Armaan may be found looking immature and whatnot but atleast he just gets everything off his chest. That's all I'm waiting for.

I agree with u some extend. yes Sid asked armaan to help but in the end he did by himself. If armaan would help, do you think Armaan would let sid organize little bit similar party which he was doing before for riddhima.

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Armaan doesn't hold respect for Siddhanth - Riddhima, the way Sid holds respects for Armaan - Riddhima. Armaan in his senses to a stranger (Shilpa) speaks how S and R only had a marriage occur, and there's no sort of genuine sentiments involved. That's quite bizarre because he has seen both S and R at their raw, vulnerable state. Sid 'fessed up to Armaan first that he loved Riddhima, and Riddhima on the other hand broke down in front of Armaan when Sid wanted to divorce her. Later on also, Armaan has had individual encounters with S and R which should confirm him that they share more than just a social contract, marriage. Lately he has also blocked Riddhima's man Siddhanth out his mind at his own expense....how yesterday he longed to be with Riddhima (again in his senses) should have made him feel wrong. It's never wrong to love a being, but there should be a control on nerves with the yearn and desire especially when he himself had initiated to bring S and R together. I still say that S and R are one today, because of Armaan, and I had thought for once Armaan was not being self centered, but for him to go back to square 1 is not how it should be.

Sid is a buffoon for being too, too comfortable with Armaan. He can be his brother, colleague, friend, but he needs to keep Riddhima separate. After all, Armaan is her ex, and differences are bound to occur if Sid keeps on discussing his wife with her ex.

All in all, the characters are flawed, and are responsible for what will happen at the party. The after math will occur due to their negligence.

The environment and state which it will happen in could have been avoided, and a more sought out confrontation could have happened but knowing that this is DMG, I did expect heavy drama, melodrama. Armaan will speak out, but with that he will hurt many in his drunken state too, especially A and R's love.

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