If after the party... - Page 2

if armaan so hated to be in the party then he should have wished ridz a happy bday and leave, if it was hurting him so much then don't stay there but no, he had to get drunk and create a scene where there are so many people, and how can he say that you should take care of your husband rather then you ex., duh, sid is her husband ofcouse she will be concern about him, sid will always comes first before anyone, yes she can also care for armaan but as a friend that's it, nothing else, but as far as sid is concern ridz will jump into fire for her cute doctor.

Originally posted by: vena.cava.

I understand where you are coming from. Sid's hard work will be to no avail as Riddhima will clearly not be happy about Armaan's outburst at the party. Although the time and place are wrong Armaan has every right to say what he feels. The guy has been hurting for so long now and hasn't said anything to a soul. I don't think that he CHOSE Riddhima's birthday as the day to feel cathartic but rather just not being able to take it anymore. Riddhima should know how Armaan is feeling so why would she ask him to be there? Because she once loved him or because she feels they have an unspoken friendship? Armaan is only there because Riddhima asked him to be. I just feel everyone's responsible for this. Sid for being insensitive enough to ask Armaan to help plan the party, Riddhima for inviting him knowing full well how he is and Armaan for keeping everything in for so long. Armaan may be found looking immature and whatnot but atleast he just gets everything offhis chest. That's all I'm waiting for.

But how come after so many days Armaan has finally decided to vent out all his pain and fustrations? Of course he has the right to say everything he wants, but he should also be sensible enough to take the time and situation into consideration. Armaan should find someone to talk to and share his feelings if he's suffering so much.

Yes, I can say that it's Riddhima's stupidity to invite Armaan to the party BUT at the same time, Armaan added on the stupidity by actually deciding to attend the party. Do these people ever think with their brains?
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Originally posted by: zainab25

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Sid is a buffoon too for being too, too comfortable with Armaan. He can be his brother, colleague, friend, but he needs to keep Riddhima separate. After all, Armaan is her ex, and differences are bound to occur if Sid keeps on discussing his wife with her ex.

This, I gotta agree with. Sid can be friends with Armaan if he wants or whatever, but still, why mention Riddhima over and over again in front of Armaan? I don't know if he's just plain naive or what.

@ hewascool90210 - Agreed that Sid would never do that he's just not like that. He's just an awesome, sweet person. I may love Armaan more but that doesn't mean I'm blind or absolutely ignorant towards Sid and can't understand him. I am not that kind of person (:

@ indn inn0cence - Why Armaan is having an outburst now is beyond me. Even I question that but its DMG and so the CVs will instill drama. Armaan attending the party may be because Riddhima has asked him (as I have said before). She said she would be very happy if he'll be there and of course Armaan still loves her and therefore goes. I'm not justifying his stupidity just trying to see the motivation behind it. And yes, I believe they never think with their brains. :D

See, I disagree.

In reality (yeah yeah, I know this is DMG but lately I'm seeing glimpses of logic *hawww*. Did the CVs change??) we tend to burst at the most inappropriate and inopportune times. Not just a coincidence. Instead it's because the tension builds up, and then typically something triggers the outburst - something emotional, someone/something hitting a nerve, etc.

In this case, he's in pain coz of his past. And in this case circumstances are flaunting in his face - the fact that his past (his life that he's having such a hard time letting go) has not only moved on, but is happy. ANY HUMAN being is bound to be hurt and jealous. So he did the mahaan part by trying to help out, whether they needed it or not. But now he's dealing with the pain, in hiding and secrecy for the most part. BUT, when it's out-there-in-his-face, and his past, that he keeps thinking about, is very much in his present, with someone else as her hubby, dancing in front of him - it drives him to drink, and that in turn facilitates the outburst.

I think the CVs did it the most logical way they could have, really. Now I undersatnd why the bday was brought in. If this is how Shilpa finds out, or gets an inkling about Armaan's past, I'll like it. If this is how Sid gets more aware of Armaan's pain, I'll like it. And if this is how Armaan faces reality, and gets one step closer to getting over Ridzi, then I'll like it too.

All in all, I think it'll be a great thing - ArSh dynamics will change, I'd love to see how Shilpa reacts.

SidMaan dynamics will change, I'd love to see how they act in front of each other after that. I wanna see how Sid treats him after this. He's a good actor, would love to see the emotions on his face.

And well, R ... hmmm, I dunno if she'll bring anything new to the palette ... she'll be angry at A? Done that. She'll be uncomfortable? Did that too. She'll cry at the situation, did that many times ... But it'll be interesting to see a new level of maturity in her and Sid's relationship once they realize that Arm is in a lot of pain when he sees them together.

So all in all - I'm thinking this outburst, no matter when and where and how - was a long time coming. I'm hoping the CVs make good use of it.

One thing I dont' understand - and this isn't directed at the TM specifically - why are ppl so shocked that Arm is in so much pain? Seriously, I'm genuinely asking, totally baffled ...

If you've ever been in love, like the true love (no crush, a full fledged I-reciprocate-your-feelings kinda love), then you'll know it's extremely excruciatingly painfully difficult to get over someone. It's possible to love again, and be happy, but it takes time. I, for one, think they're being logical about the track, and also leading up to the ArSh and SR track ... don't get why ppl are upset to much ... 😕

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😲I don't think Armaan trashed the party as he was invited by Riddhima as he had already planned that he was too busy to attend but she insisted to call him as friends. I think Armaan was just having a hard time accepting the fact that Riddhima is no longer in his life and he was drunk so his supressed feeling came out that he has hiding from SIDMA......which is natural when you are drunk. It is good in a way what Armaan did so SIDMA would know what he upsetting. If Sid accepts Riddhima with her past then he must know that it hurts Armaan alot to see them together and he moved out Sid way so he can be with Riddhima.Armaan is not made out of stone that he can forget his feeling for a girl whom he was going to get married too and had lots of dreams and desire................all gone within 6 months. I think AR need to sit down or go away and discuss what happened between 6 months - Armaan needs to know how Riddhima became Sid wife and Riddhima needs to know why Armaan kept his brain tumour a secret and why he told his dad to say he doesn't love her.😭 Both to discuss their feeling and then come to decision what will happen as like this both are in denial as Riddhima is unable to move on with SID (as we saw several attempts of this - even when she tried to prove it on her birthday she had closed her eyes, held the red sheet really hard with tears in her eyes so it is indicates that she is not ready for Sid to touch her) and Armaan walking around angry, upset and no emotions, he has forgotten how to smile😃.

I think SIDMA need to help him or else he will go mad then Riddhima will blame herself and she will never become SID as she will blame him for breakup of AR as his bodyheat as killed 2 bodies but one soul. AR are apart but not happy and both trying to lead a life in denial and both will never forget first love..........as it was true love who both went through lots of pain and trouble to acheive. Riddhima looking at Armaan all through the Birthday Party because she knew how Armaan use to make all her birthday special.............Poor Shilpa as she is in for a shock😲 and she is going to be hurt as Armaan loves and loved only riddhima😭 so no chance for her unless he fogets Riddhima