She's not Riddhima and He's not Armaan. - Page 7

Originally posted by: micshy

beautiful post just loved it n i agree with every word of it

Originally posted by: sweetshruti

Well I choose to disagree with that. I know 😛 😆

Well when I say AR's love is eternal and true I'm not saying that because I love them as a couple. I'm saying that based on facts as they have been potrayed on this show.

what are those facts, per se?

The extent that AR have gone of each other, the no. of times he's risked his life for her and she for him, they have fought against the world for each other, they have gone against everyone they loved to be together, they've cried, laughed and loved together. This is what makes me call them as an eternal couple. After All that they have done for each other can we really say that
THAT'S NOT TRUE LOVE??. Because if thats not love then what is???

so you define true love by the number of bullets one has taken for their partner? sorry to burst the bubble hon, but I read about psychotic lovers committing suicide or getting intentionally run over by the train everyday in a newspaper. I'm too cynical, and I'm sure you are too, to believe that all of that is 'true love'.

true love, as we know it, is a reflection of how well you understand your partner. how much happiness you can bring in your partner's life (and by happiness I don't mean constantly smiling), the ability to take a leap of faith if need be - that's what's real love is all about. a couple can have made zero sacrifices or taken zero bullets for each other, but can still be in 'true' love.

unfortunately, AR never understood each other that well. armaan understood her to an extent; but never respect her limitations, and ridhima didn't understand armaan at all. inspite of being together for 3 years, they could never develop the kind of faith that would make the viewer 'see' that true love. the friction was always there; no matter what the situation.

I LOVE AR because of their LOVE for each other and their LOVE STORY and not vice versa. I don't love the AR love story because of the actors playing them or because I like the actor jodi or something. For me its always about the characters and not the actors.

err, did I say anything about the actors?

Tell me a lot of people claim that ArSh is "true love", "eternal" etc etc BUT tell me what is that statement based on?? They have not even started loving each other yet and statements like she is his soulmate or she will love him more than Riddhima etc is being made already.
Isi'nt that too much in the air. Let something happen before we can pass such judgments.

I can't speak for other fans. I didn't make a claim like that. if you see such a topic, they're you're free to contradict. go ahead. do it; no one's stopping you.

I'm not asking any fans to not like their respective jodi's or disrespecting their choice BUT whatever I've said is wholly based on what we have seen on the show till now i.e facts. Not fantasies.

omg, you sound like we're having some sort of a scientific debate 😆 see, no matter what happens, fiction, at the end of the day, can be percieved by one in whichever way they want - there is no such thing as a 'factual feeling' or a 'proved feeling' when it comes to fiction. as a general example, what you may feel is 'love', someone else might feel that it is 'obsession'. there goes your 'fact' down the drain.

Well as much we would like Riddhima to divorce Sid thats not how it works. DMG is a show meant for the Indian audience after all. Marriage is considered as a sacred and holy bond in India. Divorce is still a big deal here. Riddhima is being portrayed as a "Bharatiya nari" who values marriage and traditions and will not break her marriage so easily. (again these are not my words. These are words of the CVs and channel. Its a fact). So from Day 1 of Armaan's return we all knew they will not show her simply dumping Sid and running into Armaan's arms. No they will twist and turn it and will do something really BIG leading to the AR reunion.

well if divorce is such an issue in the Indian society, then nothing is BIG enough to justify divorce. when wives can survive domestic abuse & rape and still continue to live with their husbands, then I don't see what can be BIGGER. care to elaborate?

Frankly I don't think the current track of DMG is about anything. It does not have a track anymore. Its lost its way and HOW.

correct; it doesn't have a remotely sensible or meaningful track. however, it does have a direction, and my perception says that it's about second chances, be it armaan and shilpa or sid and ridhima.

But again as you said its about perception. No one is right or wrong. Everyone perceives things in a different manner. If you have strong facts and evidence to back up your perception it gives you a strong argument for your case. Otherwise it becomes another "statement in the air" without any base.

are we fighting in the supreme court? 😆

Anyway lets see wat this show has in store for the viewers now.

Originally posted by: CZ..