30th June: Sid knew he had walked in....

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ash08

@ash08

Dazzler

Posted: 15 years ago

#21

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Awesome post baby.

Amongst the three of them, Sid is in a much better position to analyse things and he is the one who understands the other two perfectly. He is the one who has seen these two at their vulnerable best and he is the one who knows how hard they are trying to adjust to the situation. And he has matured a lot during this learning phase.

Yesterday was a sincere effort on his part to make things right between his wife and his big bro. Kudos to him for that. Riddhima needs reassurance from Sid - he has proclaimed his love for her. He now has to give her all that she needs from that relationship - a husband, a friend, a confidante, a philosopher and a guide along with a assurance that he knows she belongs to him now and whatever happened in the past shall remain there and not affect their future.

For Armaan, Sid somewhere feels guilty to be responsible for his present condition. Humour helps. And by involving Armaan in his life with Riddhima he wants to assure him that he will still be a part of their lives..... Its only when Armaan really moves on will Sid be able to let go of that guilt. Riddhima too. I am hoping that Shilpa will be that healing touch to these beautiful yet troubled souls.

Love ya,
Ash

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Lennie

@Lennie

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

#22

Hey Pocu, first didnt even know you did a topic

I still say like you that Sid knew what he walked in on, how can you not - you feel it, you see it and these two ppl he knows well and he knows there past

He knows more then anyone what AR are

Like i said Sid knew what he walked in on (his face said it at the start and when he talked to Ridz but he never questioned what), something was going on, but i have say he reacted so well and made a light of the situation in a moment, alot of ppl wouldnt have done that, but just stand there and hint for Armaan to leave but no Sid didnt, Sid acknowledged both together, one as his wife and future who are both on the right track in their life moving on, and one as his so called friend and someone he sometimes calls brother

As for Ridz she says Sid doesnt understand, Sid understands more then anyone (Sid has been beside all the way through and understanding when even apart)- even more then us, and we ask ourselves would we do the same as what Sid has done for Ridz for AR when put in the same situation???? the way i think is always put yourself in one's situation and circumstance and think what you would have done, you will kinda get your answer

Yes Sid understands, always has done - always will do, and there has to come a time i think Sid knows that AR will be in alone working on a case or some function happening, all 3 need to get comfortable with each other, Armaan and Sid have - and now its Ridz, and i feel Sid should speak up about it, and tell RIdz that its ok for her to be in a room with Armaan, speak to him etc

Edited by Lennie - 15 years ago

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Maham

@Maham

Voyager

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#23

AWWWWWWWW............totally agree ths is our SID!!🤗

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rosa.cricelli

@rosa.cricelli

Explorer

Posted: 15 years ago

#24

Superb post Pocohontas and bravo. I love your analysis. Your take on it is simply brilliant and I could not agree more with you.

I was so pleased with Sid's reaction when he entered the room and found both Riddhima and Arman together in conversation. There was no bitterness, no jealousy, no misinterpretation and no misunderstanding. It is only natural that they are bound to run into each other; they are in the same profession, they share the same circle of friends, they work in the same hospital. To assume that it would be uncormfortable is an understatement. But the ever gracious and dignified Sid showed exactly what he is made of. A trusting soul who would rather destroy himself (as proven in the past) than to be untrusting of his wife. He has finally reconciled himself in knowing that Riddhima is committed to the marriage and to cast the seed of doubt would be going in the past. He now wants to move forward and is justified in believing this. After all, his wife has decided to move back home. Our very wise Siddhant not only chose to lighten the mood but also reaffirmed to both Riddhima and Arman that everything is OK on his part, even if Sid's comments seemed flippant on Riddhima's part. That is confidence. That is wisdom. That is maturity. That is Sid.

Once again, Pocohontas, I so look for your posts in anticipation because they are always beautiful and thought provoking. You indeed are very talented. God bless.

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TheBlackJaguar

@TheBlackJaguar

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+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

#25

Thank you everyone and thank you so much. You guys have no idea how special you all make me feel for a few minutes everyday. May the Lord be with you. GOD bless you. 🤗

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ShiningStar18

@ShiningStar18

Rocker

Posted: 15 years ago

#26

Poco LOVED your post..

It seriously brought tears to my eyes..

Sid seems to be childish on the outside but this can't be ignored that on the inside,he is an intelligent and understanding man who knows what Riddhima has faced and her facing Armaan was a somewhat awkward phase for her which Sid knew should be made easy for her...

Sid was calm when he entered the scene and it was difficult to ignore the different emotions that had creeped on his face in a short span of some seconds which then formed themselves into a smile..

Sid is a very deep person who does not say everything out loud but observes and communicates what is important..