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Posted: 15 years ago
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Great post again - keep it coming 😊
I wont say much coz we kind ahad a discussion yesterday in the SR AT thread 😊
I agree with Ridz scene and the way she walked off that it dont matter what Armaan said that Sid would also write the same, but really its Sid's words and Sid's voice she wants to hear, and Sid's feelings
Also we all know SR dont work like how Armaan thinks romance is like, coz of his romance and all that, SR are something else all together - which only SR know and how destiny/fate plays with them
Sid made me proud on Wednesday, because his honesty and to base his relationship with Ridz on truth, you know many fans of SR are happy that this man chose honesty then confessing his feelings, coz no way would he want Ridz on a lie, and also overshadow Armaan's feelings to get his own out
Sid is a man that demands nothing of her, and yet gives everything of himself.
This is the beauty of Sid in the SR, esp towards Ridz - Sid will be any form with her, and real with her upto a point, like you said Sid is one of those ppl that can close up and get angry coz he is that Silent lover
She wants a steady constant love that she doesn't have question, doesn't have to pacify, doesn't have to prove. She wants reality with her realist Sid. All she wants is to walk beside someone who will never leave her, whether it is in the good times or the bad. She wants her life to stay just that, hers. She doesn't want grand gestures nor does she want all the stars in the sky. All she wants, is for someone to want her and to want to hold her hand through this journey of life and never ever let go.
This is it for Ridz, she wants this - any woman would want this but for Ridz this is utmost important now, and that one hand that held her hand when she needed it the most when at the time she didnt know she did, Sid was that hand, and that one hand she wants to hold her all her life and never let her go, and she need her balance in life, and i have said before if Sid left, her life would be inbalanced (that Soul-connection) and also a void in her heart and life, that no-one can fill. And there arent many men like Sid who would do what he did and still does, and that too silently and only for her well-being and her happiness, like Pocu says - A soulmate like Sid comes after waiting an entire lifetime
although life with a realist is one that will be filled with many moments of silent broodings, you will always know where you stand. The respect and love will burn at a constant there will be no flare ups or cool downs it will always stay within the speed limit, and it will always stay on course
This paragraph sounds so much, i cant quite grasp what it actually means, Arp can you explain pls? 😊 and esp the underline bit
Edited by Lennie - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#22
Lenzo...thank you again for commenting...as i said you always add something more...


As for that paragraph...


although life with a realist is one that will be filled with many moments of silent broodings, you will always know where you stand. The respect and love will burn at a constant there will be no flare ups or cool downs it will always stay within the speed limit, and it will always stay on course

Well for the first part...what i meant is that Sid is not one who will always speak what is in his heart, oh sure he is always ready to let ridz know when he is angry or upset with her, or when he is happy. But he is never quite able to put into words what he feels for Ridz...for what he feels for ridz is sooo much more than words...but he does and will forever show her the ways he loves in silent gestures....see Sid will show his love to Ridz by giving her respect to make her own decisions, it will be with little things like asking if she will be ok in the dark, or giving her money for emergencies, it will him claiming that the hospital will miss her (which is his way of saying he will miss her as well)....see Sid has been showing ridz that he loves her in soooo many ways, but unfortunately Ridz is unable to recognize the signs for she herself doesnt even know if he wants her...but once she knows that he wants her....once she realizes that she means something to him...she too will be able to see all the ways Sid shows her he loves her...and at that point it will no longer be as important for her to hear him say the words...because she knows that he shows it to everyday in a million different ways...see this realist does something that few of us realize... he chooses to show his feelings with actions rather than words...and as we all know actions speak louder than words...

As for the second part...i guess wht i was trying to say is that Sid the realist is someone that puts a lot of thought into his actions...and him falling for Ridz all though it was subconscious there was still some thought involved....for he saw the woman that she was her saw her wounded and then saw her rise up from the pain and embrace life again...and through this he decided that he wanted to stand beside in this life and walk hand in hand with her both as a partner and as a shield...Sid's love once it has been ignited will burn constant....and what i mean by this is that nothing Ridz does or says will ever be able to change it...for example if she chooses to leave him for armaan his love will not die, nor will it flare...b/c it is already burning at the highest level...and as i said Sid is a simple man he will not need Ridz to prove her love in grand gestures to him like by shouting it out to the world or claiming her rights in public...sid is content in knowing that in their hearts they belong to each other...so once ridz tells him once and for all that she wants him and only him...that even if he doesnt want her she will not be going back to armaan...he will take that hand that she wants him to take so badly and he will never ever leave her...this is what i mean by staying within speed limit...see Sid is content with their relationship taking a natural course even if that means they start out as friends and stay that way for a while he is ok with that...when the time is right they can move on to something more...and as for the staying on course...once ridz tells sid she wants him he will never leave her...no circumstance, no brain injury, no external force will be able to keep Sid from Ridz...every decision he makes he will make sure she is a part of...as he told Armaan she has the right to know the truth and make decisions for herself...i guess what i'm trying to say is that with Sid...Ridz's future is set he will be her husband and nothing will ever change that...he wont ever leave her to defend herself from the world or to break again under the hardships of life...

ok i'm short on time so alot of this ramblings...i hope you get what i was trying to say...if not post again and i shall try to clarify again😆

thank you for commenting lennie😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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this is so beautifully written
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I so luv how you write... and I concur wholehearthedly.... totally in agreement....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: arp04srocks

Lenzo...thank you again for commenting...as i said you always add something more...


As for that paragraph...


although life with a realist is one that will be filled with many moments of silent broodings, you will always know where you stand. The respect and love will burn at a constant there will be no flare ups or cool downs it will always stay within the speed limit, and it will always stay on course

Well for the first part...what i meant is that Sid is not one who will always speak what is in his heart, oh sure he is always ready to let ridz know when he is angry or upset with her, or when he is happy. But he is never quite able to put into words what he feels for Ridz...for what he feels for ridz is sooo much more than words...but he does and will forever show her the ways he loves in silent gestures....see Sid will show his love to Ridz by giving her respect to make her own decisions, it will be with little things like asking if she will be ok in the dark, or giving her money for emergencies, it will him claiming that the hospital will miss her (which is his way of saying he will miss her as well)....see Sid has been showing ridz that he loves her in soooo many ways, but unfortunately Ridz is unable to recognize the signs for she herself doesnt even know if he wants her...but once she knows that he wants her....once she realizes that she means something to him...she too will be able to see all the ways Sid shows her he loves her...and at that point it will no longer be as important for her to hear him say the words...because she knows that he shows it to everyday in a million different ways...see this realist does something that few of us realize... he chooses to show his feelings with actions rather than words...and as we all know actions speak louder than words...

As for the second part...i guess wht i was trying to say is that Sid the realist is someone that puts a lot of thought into his actions...and him falling for Ridz all though it was subconscious there was still some thought involved....for he saw the woman that she was her saw her wounded and then saw her rise up from the pain and embrace life again...and through this he decided that he wanted to stand beside in this life and walk hand in hand with her both as a partner and as a shield...Sid's love once it has been ignited will burn constant....and what i mean by this is that nothing Ridz does or says will ever be able to change it...for example if she chooses to leave him for armaan his love will not die, nor will it flare...b/c it is already burning at the highest level...and as i said Sid is a simple man he will not need Ridz to prove her love in grand gestures to him like by shouting it out to the world or claiming her rights in public...sid is content in knowing that in their hearts they belong to each other...so once ridz tells him once and for all that she wants him and only him...that even if he doesnt want her she will not be going back to armaan...he will take that hand that she wants him to take so badly and he will never ever leave her...this is what i mean by staying within speed limit...see Sid is content with their relationship taking a natural course even if that means they start out as friends and stay that way for a while he is ok with that...when the time is right they can move on to something more...and as for the staying on course...once ridz tells sid she wants him he will never leave her...no circumstance, no brain injury, no external force will be able to keep Sid from Ridz...every decision he makes he will make sure she is a part of...as he told Armaan she has the right to know the truth and make decisions for herself...i guess what i'm trying to say is that with Sid...Ridz's future is set he will be her husband and nothing will ever change that...he wont ever leave her to defend herself from the world or to break again under the hardships of life...

ok i'm short on time so alot of this ramblings...i hope you get what i was trying to say...if not post again and i shall try to clarify again😆

thank you for commenting lennie😃

Wow Wow Wow I loved reading this 👏👏
Took me to another level of knowing Siddhant Modi and how he is truly this way and how he is for Riddhima
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thank you all!!! for reading and commenting 😃
Edited by arp04srocks - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Her chosen path has always been Sid as you say her bond with Sid overpowered everything -

and she cant bear not to have Sid in her life - as she cant really see beyond a life without him

she is willing to let go of Armaan's everything just to be with Sid who from her pov has no clear idea that he wants her or cares and she hasnt thought beyond that -

all she knows she wants Sid and she sees her life with Sid

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Posted: 15 years ago
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A bond that is formed due to a strange, powerful and an enthralling pull between SR......

its bond that is unbreakable.....unexplainable......

coz it is a bond of soulmates...

and such are the powers of this bond that it outweighs the forces of love like AR share......

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Arpi...this was so good......sometimes in life we go through a journey to find our true destiny...and that is what happened to Ridhima...that does not lessen th elove she had for armaan....but on the same level does no decrease her love for sidhantgh...she loved and lost to find love again....how much more wonderful can life get.

Keep them coming..its a treasure to read your takes

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Posted: 15 years ago
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loved the post--you are a great writer and you gave me a new understanding and a greater love for all that is Sidma.

I totally agree that AR love is what every girl dreams of- (everything is over the top gestures) but SR love is what every woman dreams of(calm but so passionate that you do not need over the top gestures).



Once again WONDERFUL post.

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