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@romiosugar1

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Posted: 15 years ago

#31

Honest question to honest answer!!
First of all, let me correct some of your concern. Riddhima loves Sid and she wants to be with him not for sake of her parents but for her own happiness---->this has been proved several times in recent episodes. We do not need to assume anymore whether Ridz wants to be with her husband or with her love (or should I say ex-love). Therefore, If I were in Ridz place, I would definitely stay with my husband, Sid. Though Sid is currently acting up and being rude (in some suspense majboori), he is a sweet hearted man and has all the qualities a husband should have. I infact wish to have a husband like Sid in my future .......lol.

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Posted: 15 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: fafi
1st of all i wd nt b a fool like ridz to marry a guy who just ruined my image in society...tht will b the most questionable thing to b asked to my father...im a muslim/ nt frm a very modernized family....bt even my father wdnt b tht dumb to ask me to marry tht guy rather he wd ask me to stay away frm him😆...so choose krne ka to sawaal hi paida nahi hota😆

this is the right answer i think.

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caprigurl

@caprigurl

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#33

I would never ever marry a guy for the reasons Riddhima did in the first place. And even if i did- once i realised that the marriage is never going to work, when the husband himself realises it and when i have someone whom i love and who loves me so much right there waiting for me- i would choose to go for my love and help 3 lives get back on track as they were supposed to be :)
Would choose my true love surely!

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zara

@zara-KSG-malik

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 15 years ago

#34

i would chose my love for sure.........i would never allow any one to insult me like this even he is my husband or what so ever.......

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sapna2107

@sapna2107

Explorer

Posted: 15 years ago

#35

First of all it is still not clear if Ridz loves Sid...her actions & dialogues are shown according to what society would expect her to do as a married woman. While having conversation with Armaan before KC, the one question cleared everything. We all know which one was that so I wont explain here and when Armaan said you still lo....he stopped....she didnt question him or stopped him for saying that...she was silent. The main point here is that she still hasn't said 'I love you' to Sid clear & loud. This is why everyone is still confused....Cvs are creating this mess beacuse they want to keep AR SR happy at the same time. So it is still questionable....she needs to plan her actions to suit society before dealing with Sid...it is not natural. Sid deserves someone who would love him unconditionally because he is a nice guy. Coming back to the question choosing between marriage & love. To me marriage shouldnt be considered as a 'capitol punisment'. At the end of the day two people have to live together not society so marriage should be based on love & trust not for any other reason. Armaan left Ridhima so that she could live a comfortable life...he wanted Ridz to hate him so that she could move on without guilt & exactly that's what is happening. Some people are bashing Armaan how he left her but real reason for his actions speaks volume about his love. No SANE girl would marry anyone else if she was in Ridz postion. Her marrying Sid is not at all justified. Due to lame reason of society pressure, parents wish marrying someone won't ruin just your life but other people's life too which is your husband & lover. Yes, i do agree on moving on if your first love wasn't a true love & he left you for selfish reasons or betrayed you because then you have reasons to hate but not in this case...Ridhima still feel most comfortable with Armaan only...he understands her so well....after fake marriage scene with armaan she ran to God to explain her actions....why? because one only does that when you know you have done wrong to someone and are afraid that you have done wrong...

Edited by sapna2107 - 15 years ago

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Hally Bi

@-alimabi-

Sparkler

Posted: 15 years ago

#36

okay im kinda confused what has religion got to do with what yu chose i simply dnt understand 😕

2 members have stated that they are muslims and have said that they would chose the lover over the husband but what has this got to do with being muslim.

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punjabkudi98

@punjabkudi98

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#37

honestly i would choose my husband

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aisha

@noseasync

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 15 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: fafi
1st of all i wd nt b a fool like ridz to marry a guy who just ruined my image in society...tht will b the most questionable thing to b asked to my father...im a muslim/ nt frm a very modernized family....bt even my father wdnt b tht dumb to ask me to marry tht guy rather he wd ask me to stay away frm him😆...so choose krne ka to sawaal hi paida nahi hota😆

I agree 2 each n every point Of urs 👏

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ASAWARI

@saumya{roka}

Explorer

Posted: 15 years ago

#39

i wud choose my husband. marriage is a most important commitment. ridz shouldnt leave a guy who has supported her so much in her bad times

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caprigurl

@caprigurl

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 15 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: sapna2107
First of all it is still not clear if Ridz love Sid...her actions & dialogues are shown according to what society would expect her to do as a married woman. While having conversation with Armaan before KC, the one question cleared everything. We all know which one was that so I wont explain here and when Armaan said you still lo....he stopped....she didnt question him or stopped him for saying that...she was silent. The main point here is that she still hasn't said 'I love you' to Sid clear & loud. This is why everyone is still confused....Cvs are creating this mess beacuse they want to keep AR SR happy at the same time. So it is still questionable....she needs to plan her actions to suit society before dealing with Sid...it is not natural. Sid deserves someone who would love him unconditionally because he is a nice guy. Coming back to the question choosing between marriage & love. To me marriage shouldnt be considered as a 'capitol punisment'. At the end of the day two people have to live together not society so marriage should be based on love & trust not for any other reason. Armaan left Ridhima so that she could live a comfortable life...he wanted Ridz to hate him so that she could move on without guilt & exactly that's what is happening. Some people are bashing Armaan how he left her but real reason for his actions speaks volume about his love. No SANE girl would marry anyone else if she was in Ridz postion. Her marrying Sid is not at all justified. Due to lame reason of society pressure, parents will marrying someone won't ruin just your life but other people's life too which is your husband & lover. Yes, i do agree on moving on if your first love wasn't a true love & he left you for selfish reasons or betrayed you because then you have reasons to hate but not in this case...Ridhima still feel most comfortable with Armaan only...he understands her so well....after fake marriage scene with armaan she ran to God to explain her actions....why? because one only does that when you know you have done wrong to someone and are afraid that you have done wrong...

WOW👏

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