have a question for you all - Page 2

Originally posted by: Viji79

Hai I am new to this forum. I would choose my husband if I were in Riddhima's place.

Originally posted by: mini09

1st of al i would neva get married..bt still if this happens...i would choose my luv..

Originally posted by: fafi

1st of all i wd nt b a fool like ridz to marry a guy who just ruined my image in society...tht will b the most questionable thing to b asked to my father...im a muslim/ nt frm a very modernized family....bt even my father wdnt b tht dumb to ask me to marry tht guy rather he wd ask me to stay away frm him😆...so choose krne ka to sawaal hi paida nahi hota😆

Originally posted by: lucky__me

Here is my answer as an induviadual and as being who I am (no fan gurliness involved ):

A person i dont love will most definately not be my husband..... I will or atleast i intend to marry someone only after falling in love be it an arranged match...or found by me doesnt matter.

But if I do land up in a wedding Like Ridz did I would never ever leave my husband for my ex and question of love or husband wudnt even arise coz my husband & love will be the same person.... ! The person you are refering to as love would be an Ex not a "love" anymore.... !

AND here it definately is in context to Ridz...so i will try putting myself into Ridz shoes (which i tell you is for sure a very confusing thing but i wil TRY )

First, I'm not tht selfish to spoil and put at stake Other guy's life so I wudnt have evr agreed to marry Sid if i was looking to commit suicide on the wedding day & I never wud have put the other guy (Sid) in a Cruel situation to make his wedding venue my suicide point...

Second, After being saved from a suicide by the same man & him refusing the marriage, I wud have felt embarrased & ashamed beyond words can describe, to ask him to get married to me.

BUT

On thinking really hard.... y would ask him to get married to me after witnessing the worst of me.......?........It can happen only if I have realised after the poison fiasco ...wht a fool i have been by commiting such a huge sin and my past wud automatically be killed under the shame of my suicide attempt sin & OTHER person wud be like a saint to me. So at tht point i would decide to get married to him only if i have seen Something heavenly...in him...some thing bigger than love and only if i want it with all my heart. And This marriage will be my decision not my compromise.

I wud never ever leave my husband....even if my ex returns coz i'd really be in love with my husband.... Our bond will be very special and precious as we've truely witnessed the worst together and his innocence & selflessness wud've won me over during the wedding itself.

Originally posted by: ksg_ritika

if i wud hv been in riddhimas place i wud hv chosen my luv .......... not coz of d fact dat i luv him bt coz of d reason dat he luvs me a bit 2oo mch n cares abt me more dan he cares abt himself, his lyf and his family ..........

Originally posted by: pooja6992

so forget that u are an AR/SR fan and tell me this

if you were in Ridz place...would you choose your love or would you choose a husband you don't love but have to be with him cuz your parents tell you to?

you all live in 2010 and are more decisive than the woman before and also follow your own heart and not what others tell you...and you know that is true...
and many would say no i would do what my parents tell me cuz i'd want to make them happy, but think about it...would a parent be happy if your face doesn't have a smile? wouldn't your parents be happier when they see you fight for your love and go back to them and live happily?

please tell me your views
and forget if your an AR/SR fan

that was my POV please don't bash me for it

and please don't bash any other members on the forum...or i will report you immediately and so will the other members : )
so lets keep this a bash free post and lets respect each others POV...

all are welcome to say what they want but please lets respect each others POV

i hope to hear some good views...please be real here about it

Originally posted by: pooja6992

hey i really respect your POV, but i have a question...would u stay with him even after the ill treatment? right after the marriage he was behaving so bad with her...yah he saved my life doesn't mean he can treat me in what ever manner...and also, if your ex came to you and said i love you, your heart would beat towards him...and you being happy with ur husband would be out of the question even right after the marriage since without love the marriage can last only a while, nobody can be happy i've seen many couples like that...they are together because they are from the old times but they arent happy cuz there was never any love....it was just brought to them without having too much to put into it like Ridz who didnt want to marry him but had to...even after he took such bad pics of her and it was in front of the whole hospital where she works...

Originally posted by: -alimabi-

First of all a person who left me thinking that it would be the "right thing" not even once bothering to tell me, why should i wait for a person like that ?

Ridz loves sid incase yu aint bin watching for the last couple of episode 😆 as for if i was in her position i wouldnt go back to that person i would have already fallen for sid 😆 he is an amazing human being and i have a chance to finally be happy . Love cums an goes but a person like siddhant only cums once in a lifetime so yes i rather grab him with both hands then go back to a man who didnt care weather i was dead or alive who didnt even consider sending me a letter or even a phone call o yeah how cn i forget he left me twice second time i was dying 😕 if thats his love then i dnt want it.

A person needs to move on in life you cnt always think just because yu have loved or fallen inlove the first time, that person will be the only person yu are going to spend your life with because in the real world it doesnt work like that. Fairtales dnt exist in real life they only exist in books.