Why Why Why???? - Page 2

Originally posted by: pavs

if riddhima wants to stay with sid tht clearly indicates she wants him in her life..n he wants to be married to him..not vry person after marriage wud like to drop her husband just for a blast from the past..ppl move on ..even if remnants of love remain other priorities take precedence...

hey hun..first, thank u for ur comment.. and my take is that if u are TRULY happy being with someone then u do NOT tell "a blast from the past" that u had been DYING to hear those words from them... if a person has SERIOUSLY moved on... then hearing ur ex say these things to u just irritates u..and u don't cry about how helpless u are...u know wat i mean? like...it all seems really forced becuz if she was really over him, then his words wouldn't affect her the way they did... also, nobody should drop their husband becuz of the past, however, this past is not something which was hush hush and wasn't discussed nor was it a relationship that they broke off on purpose.....circumstances and timing was all not in favor of them..and they were separated.. i feel they are realizing NOW how much they really mean to each other.... and yes..that is cheating..she isn't cheating on Sid physically but her heart belongs somewhere else..and its not just AR thatz suffering, its Sid as well..and i honestly dont' think ANYONE deserves their spouse to be in love with someone else... CVz have been VERY clear about Riddhimaz feeling towards Armaan..almost in every episode now, they show that she is still in love with him but can't be with him for various reasons...

Originally posted by: eveline

why ??? shimmie...people do it all the time...dont they..for whatever the reasons..for society, for parents, ....a zillion reasons....life can be happpy and simple ...but human nature being what it is.......

and that suxxxxxxxxxx eve..i hate it to the extreme..i wish ppl weren't sooo messed up!!

Originally posted by: shihij07

di! i completely agree with you!people are not so lucky as riddhima to get so many chances again and without any break!
today, riddhima's eyes spoke volumes about her love for armaan and the helplessness of being sid's wife. the way she keeps accusing him of leaving her clearly indicates that how much it pinches her to stay away from armaan. had she not felt so hurt and fallen in love with sid she would have forgotten and forgiven armaan for his mistake, but she keeps on digging the facts again and again. it shows how much frustrated she is.controlling her mind is difficult, but controlling her heart is tougher. how she was trying to hide her feelings, imitate her expressions to indifference towards armaan's words and then failing miserably, she turns her back against him.
and doing this to make others happy is not a good solution to make a relationship healthy and demanding. its going to add to her woes.
i even understood sid's furiousness when he saw ridz and armaan in lonavala but he was not interested in any explanation afterwards and blind to riddhima's pain. and his suspicions will nag him constantly! he would never be able to trust riddhima and then regret his actions later. the foundation of this marriage was so shaky that even a slight wind can crumble it. i don't know how sid suddenly wanted riddhima for himself when just few hours ago he was letting her go to armaan. because he was not being sincere to his ownself. no, he was never sincere and wanted to test riddhima. he should have known that ridz would never ever chose armaan because she is indebted to him. it could be seen how riddhima was willing to help sid and get in his good books, even after he treated her cruelly! because she was guilty and would never in her dream would think to be selfish enough to go back to armaan.
on the other hand, riddhima will not be able to love siddhant because her life and love are armaan's possessions and she can't snatch them away!
society will not give her any rewards for saving her marriage? does this society really care? they just need to make papparazzi out of a human issue. call it a girl's mistake and name her as if she is an animal. and this is the fact, a woman whose life and chracter bloated once, will never be a fairy or divine for this society even if some good guy marries her. all they will remember is her dark deeds, for which she might not be or not fully responsible.
sometimes we just tend to defy our own identity and that is human. just rub salts on other's wounds and stalk and screw them for something so trivial and unworthy!
you are right di!
some people purposely hunt for miseries and pain even when happiness constantly begs at their doors.

um, just one question for u..are u really 18 years old?!?!? holy crap..ur maturity is amazingggggggg...i agree with everything u said and only if more ppl would start thinking like u...life would be muchh easier!!! agree with everything u said... marriage revolves around trust and friendship and if those things aren't present, then FORGET IT...sooner or later, it will catch on to u and ur relationship will come crashing down....

Originally posted by: shimz

and that suxxxxxxxxxx eve..i hate it to the extreme..i wish ppl weren't sooo messed up!!

you bet!! it makes a mess of their own lives and dumps their near and dear ones in it too....why is it so difficult to understand one simple motto...u can only spread happiness ...if u urself have it in u...

and no shihij..is not 18..this dadi amma is more like 81...oooopsss!!😆

Originally posted by: eveline

and no shihij..is not 18..this dadi amma is more like 81...oooopsss!!😆

haha i see that..omg!!!

writers ki deemag nahin hai thats why

Originally posted by: eveline

you bet!! it makes a mess of their own lives and dumps their near and dear ones in it too....why is it so difficult to understand one simple motto...u can only spread happiness ...if u urself have it in u...

exactly!!! happiness begins from within..and if u urself arent' happy with ur situation,circumstances, and ur relationshipz then how are u gonna make anything else better or keep someone else happy? impossible..its like would u ever see a patient treat another patient? or a doctor thatz sick coughing and sneezing while treating their patients? no...never....its not the right way..so how can a sad and mad person bring TRUE happiness to their loved ones? and if they aree ur loved ones then they will recognize ur sadness....and if they don't, then, well, then ur screwed 😆

Originally posted by: amaira

writers ki deemag nahin hai thats why

hahah for a second i thought u were talkin about me!! i was like "Nahiiiiiii...esko kaisay pata chala?? maine tu itna chupa kay rukha thaaaaa" 😆 hahah but thank God... its still a secret 😉

Originally posted by: shimz

um, just one question for u..are u really 18 years old?!?!? holy crap..ur maturity is amazingggggggg...i agree with everything u said and only if more ppl would start thinking like u...life would be muchh easier!!! agree with everything u said... marriage revolves around trust and friendship and if those things aren't present, then FORGET IT...sooner or later, it will catch on to u and ur relationship will come crashing down....

😆 i am 18 seriously . and its heavenly to see somebody calling you mature.😳 you know till my eleventh grade everybody called me silly and innocent. maybe i am but life has taught a lot!
one more problem is that i have lately become pensive. and i just hair split every issue😲😆. and thanks to some great people here . they are also responsible for building a part of my thinking!
lately, i am witnessing all kinds of people here, more then those around me and i was shocked 😲but lately i am getting precious surprises on this forum!⭐️
you know what i mean?😳
thank a lot di!!!!!!!!!! love you..........