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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with u.
Well Ridhima was potrayed as strong woman.
Even after the incidents happened with sid and if she doesnot like sid then she should have lived alone like her sister Anjali. May be she should have given herself sometime to put things in place.
I already mentioned in my earlier post that if a woman is finanacially and emotionally independent then she need not care for society. Society will not come to rescue always but it will point out finger at u when u're a fault.
Has Ridzi was like the above then Armaan's re-entry will not a problem for her.
Seriousy even I like AR union ( after watching 2 years of romance onscreen) but here I am confused.
Really Ridzi has really messed up her life.
Anyways it is the duty of CVs to break their head to give a good end to the story.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Excellent post dear👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
#23
i dnt knw but i dnt see passion in the way she looks at him i just think that armaan thinks too much abwt it but i do agree she shoudnt send him mix signal.
Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shamil

buzzzy babyyy.. a brilliant post👏

between who said this??
Someone said that even if you are married its okay to cheat if you love someone else because love is greater than any morals of infidelity.
haila!!! so if my hubby lobbe another chameli, its ok for him to aankh ladaao and ishq ladaao with that chudail????..
in that case every infidelity case becomes lawful🤪.
about riddy babes, she is giving wrong signals to both the guys.. one min she looks like she want to be in armaan's arms, next moment she goes into 'bharatiya naari - mujhe na choona mode. Then she wants to be with siddy but doesnt want to talk to him. I think its high time shanky daddy did some brain scan for his beti. she has partial amnesia

👏Ohhh Shamil! Thankx for commenting...she does seem to have amnesia 😆
😳I am blushing becuz, did ummmmmm Jhootha Singh by any chance come with you *glances around* 😍
Lol, Shamil as much as I know its hard to believe. But, trust me I did come across a post where someone did say that and a couple of people were actually agreeing with the person there. For me I found that shocking 😲 As I am totally against adultery and infidelity no matter what the basis. 🥱
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Posted: 15 years ago
#25
Ive said it umpteen times and Im going to say it again!!
I hope arman and ridhimma die of embarassment when they see sid!!
Posted: 15 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: n7genius

Wow' Amazing post, lighteningbuzz👏👏👏! Each and every sentence you wrote there is so right and I agree with all of it totally👍🏼. We all(SR fans) kept telling how Ridz behavior is wrong, but you have explained in the most beautiful and simple way. 👏

Just loved the whole thing you said about LOVE. What is this love when there is no truth in it and when u have to stoop down to cheating to prove/show it? I mean if you love some one, acknowledge it openly and in a truthful manner. Let the other person know that you love him/her and show them why they shud choose you. Charming someone just shows making someone fall for you physically! The way you handle the situation shows your qualities and that is how one can make someone love you not just for how you look but for what you are. There is a way to handle every situation and if Ridz Armaan love each other truly, they shud first acknowledge, get divorced and then try to get back together. Can't true love wait for that long to make things right in the right way?

As you have already mentioned, Ridz is totally at fault here. If she wants to go back to Armaan, she shud say that clearly to Sid. Signing divorce papers does not show that she loves Armaan. It was clearly shown that she signed it becoz she was angry for what Sid told to Armaan. Instead she keeps blaming Sid for calling this marriage a lie, for not supporting her and for questioning her whether she wants to be with him or Armaan. She even has passionate eyelocks with Sid. Then how can Sid not think that she feels something for him😒. And please don't call passionate eyelocks as just becoz of care, guilt or sympathy for Sid. There's a difference in the way a person looks compassionately towards someone they care to passionately towards someone they love. Ridz shud seriously get a hold on herself and think abt her behavior.

Armaan is at fault too. He knows Sid loves Ridz and that they are not going to get divorced for next 7 months. He is aware that they may stay together for next 7 months. So, he shud start wooing Ridz only after the divorce. Till then, he shud show his love for Ridz by supporting her like a friend and not by tempting her towards something abominable.

Sid 🤗' I feel sorry for him that he is caught in such a situation 😭and to think of it now that he fell in love with Ridz 😭who can't decide, can't have a grip on her emotions and has no compassion for other's feelings 😡

Awww N7genius,
Thank you so much for commenting. 😉😉 I know there is a major difference between how we look at someone with care and how we look at someone passionately becuz, we have feelings for them. We all know how she stares at both of them and its clearly NOT just a casual glances she shares with them. I feel for Sid right now too. Becuz, he is in that situation where he is completely numbed at what he is supposed to do? Like you said in one hand she lectures Sid about their so-called marriage and to start valuing their relationship and on the other hand she doesn't even communicate with him when it comes to talking about their relationship and Armaan. I hate how she went to Lonavala without even telling him! I know it was an emergency case but, while she was traveling to Lonavala she could've called him in the ambulance on her way to Lonavala! But, wait I forget this is DMG, DMG and logic never seem to get along! 😔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: JATINTHAKKAR

Hi Payal,😛

Nice Topic.👏
Riddhima will feel guilty of her Acts & she will think of Sid But Armaan ka kya?
Ohhhh....Armaan ko toh Sharam hi nahi hain.
Well Armaan knows Sid loves Riddhima,he also knows that Siddhima aren't divorced then why he is following Riddhima everytime?
Well Last Friday's episode,Armaan got upset when he heard that Sid was assissting Riddhima in an operation.
What's the right of this man to get upset?
In tuesday's episode,when Riddhima arrived Lonavla,Armaan is sayings thanks to her for coming there.
Who will explain to this oppurtunistic Armaan that Riddhima has came to see her patients?
Well Payal You have really done a well job of explaining to these Armaan fans but will they understand your point is a big Question?
Armaan's behaviour is like "A Dog Wagging it's Tail".

@What's the right of this man to get upset?
I felt like laughing at this😆....lol he doesnot even have the right to get upset?these r human emotions and deffinitely not under anyones control
The same opportunistic Armaan did tell Mrs Riddhima Modi that if she wasn't comfortable wid him around she can tell Dr Keerti
@Armaan ko toh Sharam hi nahi hain and Armaan's behaviour is like "A Dog Wagging it's Tail".
Your opinion accepted😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Topic Maker
I'm an AR fan but still loved ur post as u have written it in a very sensible manner!!!
I don't support infidelity....i would rather prefer those intense eye-locks and lifts between AR after Riddhima gets divorced from Sid if at all that divorce happens
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: BlueSoul

First of all, what are these 2 doing? .... 😆

Now, coming to your post and questions,
1. If we go out and just give a look to any guy. They stalk us till our building. Then giving such passionate looks... Tauba Tauba.
I guess Riddhima actually loves getting all attention from 2 guys. And when they try and stop giving her attention she does something crazy and the boys are again after her. Ufffffffffff.
"Yeh ladki haye allah, haye haye re allah."
2. She is 2-timing. Both Armaan n Sid are clueless. Giving passionate looks to both of them. Bhagwaan bachaye aajkal ki ladkiyon se. Ram Ram.
3. Don't you remember the scene where a girl was asking Armaan's number, and Riddhima was fuming? Woh toh bechara kuch kar bhi nahi raha tha.
4. You're asking them about their BF/Husbands? You won't believe but once I asked the same question regarding someones real life. You can guess the Q, Right? Let me tell you their answer. All were saying that, No one has control over their felings and its best to end a relationship where there is no Love. I don't know what made them answer this Q like this. Maybe the unconditional love for a Character. I still rate that post of mine as one of my best posts as it turned out to be the most shocking one and an eye-opener.
5. She screwed up her life and Sid helped her. And now she convenienlty forgot all the good deeds one by Sid and says "Tum mere laayak nahi ho". I wish someone would have slapped her. Not that I am encouraging violence. But when a person is in great shock, to get that person out of that shock, slapping is necessary.
6. "Someone said that even if you are married its okay to cheat if you love someone else because love is greater than any morals of infidelity." --- Yeh kisne kaha??? Mujhe batao. Mujhe unke legs choone hain. I wish he/she follows this advice and behave calmly when his/her Wife/Husband cheats on them.

TM ...fantastic post as thodi hum na uska naam CHUDAIL raka hai..She is a 2 timing idio tI am married 4 a long time and have had nasty fights with my hubby but I dont want 2 EVER GO BK 2 MY EX .NEVER.
As A woman if my ex cum in front of me i will not acknowlege him .
Ridz is a 2 timing idiot who is the cause of misery to the guys.
I dont know what a and S love her 4????
And the viewers bigger idiots to want their So called eternal lover to go 2 a weirdo.........
Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: StarshineHues

Amaaaaazing post !! Agree with each and every word......I don't understand HOW Riddhima's behavior can be justified. Its like she wants to have her cake and eat it too. If she loves Armaan, why doesn't categorically tell that to Sid and set him free ? I hate her dialogues, "Meri shaadi ho chuki hai." They reek of hypocrisy if she indulges in behavior that she did yesterday. Her treatment of Siddhant is beyond belief and beyond justification. All she sees is her problems, she's oblivious to the pain of all those around her. Leave alone Siddhant, no human being deserves to be treated the way she's treating him. She's disrespecting and hurting Siddhant, and at the same time, her behavior is also disrespectful towards her "relationship" with Armaan if she's doing all that she's doing while still being married to Sid. Honestly, I can't believe the woman and her shallowness.

Forgot to add, I loved your point that how would ppl react if the same thing happened to him as Siddhant. I'll bet it won't be so easy to forgive and justify Riddhima then.

Great post !!

⭐️ Yep and I liked how you said that, "she wants to have her cake and eat it too." Becuz, she does love to get attention from both guys becuz, why else is it taking so long to let them know how she feels and who she wants to be with especially when both men are willing to respect her decision if she gives it to them in a dignified manner.
Edited by lighteningbuzz - 15 years ago

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