Originally posted by: CinciGal
I think she is frusrated that no one is listening to her. She has stated, more than once, in no unclear terms, to Sid that to her her marriage means a lot. She has told Armaan very clearly that she doesnt want him around anymore. Yet Sid brings up Armaan everytime they speak, and yet Armaan wonders if she still loves him(it should not matter whether she does or not, she does not want to be with him and thats the end of it).They are going on in cricles about this matter endlessly, that too, among themselves and behind her back.
With Sid - I think he wants to know if her decision to be with him is because of society and rules or because she really wants to be with him... and other than parroting the same statement again and again, she doesn't give him a clear answer... she aught to understand that Sid has seen her craziness for Armaan and that he might need reassurance that her happiness is with him and not with Armaan... If by any chance it was the other way round I think Sid would have gone to any lengths to let her know that his happiness is with her...
and about Armaan, as long as Armaan felt that Ridz was happy with her present and it is only his return that has caused her misery he was trying to do what he could to ensure that he does what he can do to undo any problems that he has caused... It is only when he is no longer sure of her being happy that he has started questioning....
so why doesn't the lady for once think about other people... I mean why doesn't she for once understand that she is not the only person who is affected in the whole thing? There are two other people and her inability to respond to certain vital questions is what is hampering any progress in three people's lives... even if she thinks she is the most unfortunate creature and sid and armaan's pain is nothing in front of her why can't she have soem consideration for whatever amount of pain they have and talk to them sensibly... I mean she can be a woman who knows her mind without shouting or being hurtful to others. right? But she is a very self centred person and she somehow never acknowledges that she can also be at fault... She has this holier than thou attittude which doesn't allow her to own up to her mistakes and rectify them.... she always finds bakras to camouflage her mistakes and they let her do it also!!!!
a proper reply to either sid or armaan would have solved this problem once and for all!!! but no!!