Commitment: A Lost Virtue - Page 7

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

I don't understand, why u guys think Armaan was made a fool😭 It's true that nobody was thinking abt his emotions.. But nobody laughed at or enjoyed his situations either.. I may come up as SR fan, but not once I said Armaan is cheap/wrong etc etc..😕 He is not !! And it was Sid who made a mockery of marriage, thanks to Ridz who saved it :)

Armaan was never a fool.. and nobody can make him a fool.. It's the irony of fate.. n Nothing else💔

Originally posted by: yattri

" i may end up falling for Sid" i think she said tht out if sheer convenience... she had no other option but to fall in love with sid.. no signs of armaan.. forceful commitment.. miserable life.. why not make it happy by falling in love with him.. him happy me happy life happy!
its not tht she may end up faliing for sid but she may HAVE to end up falling for sid! and tht too she said it long time ago.. now the time is different situations are different.. and i dont think SR relation is going to be the same even if they are together now.. sod will always have the feeling of not trusting her loyalty towards him and she also wont be 100% loyal towards him!
and abt commitment.. it si not a burden.. it is by choice.. and you cannot force yourself to a life long commitment when you clearly are not up for it.. if you were up for the marriage you wouldnt have acted the way she did.. when armaan came back.. its okay to get affected but when she moved on in life she shouldnt be affected by him to so much extent.. she CLAIMED to have moved on..but her actions say otherwise..!

coming back to commitment i dont think riddhimma is going to break her so called commitment so soon anyways

Originally posted by: xoHarshaxo

I agree with you.
Ridz was Happy with Sid before Armaan came back and she was ready to give there marrage a Chance. But then....

:o who said armaan is cheap????? Ill go smack tht person :D armaan was never a fool but the situations he was put into made him one.. I don't think you can say tht he didn't make a mockey out of himself.. telling his prem gatha and happily getting ready to marry riddhimma when each and every person in the room was fully aware tht tht is not going to happen.. and not once did anyone stop it.. its called fate when its inevitable.. I don't think it was inevitable..

MARRIAGE! He was going to marry her for god sake and he was the only person who thought this was truly happening!

@cookies: LMAO! i think before marriage she had in mind tht shes going to die! SUICIDE 😆 tht surely didnt happen.. feelings comes from heart.. true.. and you surely cannot force it.. otherwise you need not use the word "may" it would have just happened.. she was trying to feel sth for him.. and i agree it was genuine..you would obviosly like someone who has done so much for you.. she may even have fallen for him if Armaan wasnt back! but the point is he is BACK! and now she cannot develop further feelings for her husband whatsoever! but idk this character is messed up! cant decide for herself.. i hope she does soon!

and at this pace am sure everyone is going to be lawyers! i bet ill be one! 😊

anyways it was nice knowing the opposite point of view! i like to hear both sides :)

Originally posted by: shamil

@topic maker- this is one most most mature and sensible post I have seen here 👏
Being a married woman myself I can vouch to what u have written. but alas! since the members here are mostly teens or young maidens , they may not be able to completely digest what u have said. I guess we have to give them time 😉 Till then let them float in the fluffy clouds of fairy love tales...coz its very hard to convince them..

Originally posted by: -Fizzylicious-

what a lovely topic i agree with everything u said & i personally know couples who actually went to the level to throw chappals at each other they were this pissed 😆😆but than again they love each other so much that u get a gushy and mushy seeing them when they r romancing and m not kidding it happens as u said feelings change.

i respect the institution of marriage a lot and i think she should stick to her words and what she thought she should go ahead with her marriage and keep armaan as a beautiful memory (I absolutely agree...and he will always be a part of her heart) and make him understand what it means to be married she can help him find a perfect girl and they can be best of friends but going back to him just won't be very good and appreciated by the older audience who r married caz i m sure many women r viewers r the show and by showing her goign to armaan is just so against indian values . the creatives have to remember that they r in india and not usa even in usa i know someone who went through the same and than chose her husband so yeah. I might have to disagree with you there. I don't think a marriage in itself should be the reason to keep two people tied together if they r not willing to be in that relationship. But in SR case, they r both willing n want to make their relationship work. They may not have strong "feelings of love" but they have a very strong foundation from which love can blossom with time.

also, i think we all need to get out of our candyfloss world and see this realistically . Just put urself in riddhima's position for a sec and think if u r under pressured like her what would you do? will you leave ur husband who has no fault and is doing everything to keep u happy just like that in a sec and for the useless reason that ur past love came back? plz it doesn't happen in real life. Commitment is a big thing I agree and I think people have forgotten its meaning and value. Thanks for replying! but again u understand it with time as u mature so yeah .

p.s i m not bashing anyone and not expect anyone to bash me in return thank u

Originally posted by: yattri

:o who said armaan is cheap????? Ill go smack tht person :D armaan was never a fool but the situations he was put into made him one.. I don't think you can say tht he didn't make a mockey out of himself.. telling his prem gatha and happily getting ready to marry riddhimma when each and every person in the room was fully aware tht tht is not going to happen.. and not once did anyone stop it.. its called fate when its inevitable.. I don't think it was inevitable..

MARRIAGE! He was going to marry her for god sake and he was the only person who thought this was truly happening!

@cookies: LMAO! i think before marriage she had in mind tht shes going to die! SUICIDE 😆 tht surely didnt happen.. feelings comes from heart.. true.. and you surely cannot force it.. otherwise you need not use the word "may" it would have just happened

and at this pace am sure everyone is going to be lawyers! i bet ill be one! 😊

anyways it was nice knowing the opposite point of view! i like to hear both sides :)