A Riddle.. thy name is Ridhima!! - Page 6

I Kno Ridzi Luvs armaan just as much as he does..but in her reason...shes fustrated at what can she do now..? how can she go to her love when shes married? how will she face evrything that life is throwing at her? things happenig wayyy to fast! only been three month since she cme bck..but all the things that happened....it can tke so long...yet be summarized in a few words.. but i wnt my armaan&ridz together and sid happi aswell! seems impossible right now..but evrything is fair in war and love right?

@topicmaker-well i lyked u're topic.
Ridz is in luv with Armaan but as Armaan stated tat she is only angry with him tat doesn't mean she does not luv him.
2.talking about sid yes the girl did find a little frnd in her hubs. But tat does mean she has started to luv him she is just thinking about sid as a frnd n loving him only as a frnd but Ridz really luv's Armaan from Botton of her heart but can't speak becoz of her ego is coming in between.
There was always a Big ego problem in between Armaan Ridhima's relation n in sidima's relation there is no such thing as they do not luv each other they r simply married & as in every Indian arranged married the couple do feel for each other but do they luv each other may be not it's just tat they r married does not mean tat they r in luv while as for Armaan Ridhima there is soo much ego but with full pure true luv they can,will do anything for each other.

interesting discussion :)

i think riddhima's feelings for sid goes more than just gratitude..we have seen the built up of that since the honeymoon..fr instance she kept thinking of him, n the realization that she has started liking him, she couldn't stand to some extent sid going to marry another girl bt i don think its just fully blossomed love yet.

Thanks for all your responses. Very interesting discussion! Some of you mirrored my confusion and some of you didn't!

Most interesting outcome I must say is how we can quantize love!!! 😉 I am afraid my friend, this is something even experts would have a tough time defining it!!

Nevertheless, I think time does have a say in love! And it is definitely directly proportional to time! Since many of you shared personal experiences, let me also share mine!!! I and my boyfriend had to struggle for 4years before we could make our respective parents agree for the marriage. With time, my commitment, faith in him, understanding different aspects of him, strengthened my love. And during the entire time I had a sid like character (whom my father had chosen for me) in my life! Since I was not a confused character like Ridhima, I made a wise decision and married the person I love! It is easy to give in and move on but it takes guts to stick to something you believe and love. And a true love always gives you that courage to fight it out.

The short span of 3 days, 1 month, weeks to fall in love are plausible for a person with clean slate(though personally I see only disaster in such hastened love but anyways that is my view) but in this case we are talking about a girl supposedly madly in love with her boyfriend Armaan!!! I may be old-fashioned but this instant move on raises lot of credibility issue on Ridhima's love for Armaan!

As it is I didn't like the reaction that Ridhima gave seeing Armaan! I mean she was not bothered about Armaan's health! I know I am repeating but I'm so bugged by it! It just seemed she was more eager to remember her marriage to sid than the genuine concern about Armaan's wellbeing! Is this love?

I also don't understand why some of you doubted Armaan's love!! If you see the whole serial from the beginning, it is all about Armaan's love for Ridhima. Ridhima may have been indecisive sometimes but Armaan has never wavered and remained resolute in his love. Regarding his decision to stay away from her in his craziness state, I thought more than you and me, Ridhima, being a doctor would appreciate his sacrifice and would understand him. As a doctor you would know the helplessness state of Armaan and his need to stay away.

Originally posted by: zainab25

Hey!

You speak what is on my mind too. Keeping all of the biases and favorites aside, one complaint I have is that Armaan being portrayed the self righteous human being from the very beginning suddenly is so indulged into acts that he doesn't even have time for his love anymore? 😕 How's that selfless again? When he had seen Riddhima's traumatic state in Panchgani, he should have been concerned for her when he was able to regain his senses and conscience back. Except before all that, he planned to have concerts, and then conveniently stop at Mumbai to catch up with Riddhima. How does that justify at all?

Originally posted by: angel_wings

Bingo.... oh if......only if Arman could took some time from his 'busy' schedule of singing and dancing ....and communicate with riddhima ....life would be far more better for all three of them

Frankly speaking I would have loved if Armaan had headed to Sanjeevani straight away opening the door in double shirt, a slight breeze ruffling his hair 😳 ...than the rock 'concert' entry. But lets' try to justify the script or rather CV's temptation of a big intro of KSG after 6 months with logic and sane discussion!!

Rock concert was for a noble cause and was organised by some organizers. Armaan being a intrinsically sweet and caring person could not say no to the organizers. The problem with this guy is that, whenever somebody is asking for help, he simply can't say NO!! Even in the recent episode, on way to meet Ridhima he was waylaid by the intern and being a helping soul he gave him a lift. We have seen his helping nature with Muskan episode too!

He might have behaved differently had he known his Kismet Connection would change if he is delayed in pursuit for Ridhima! How would he know that this girl is ready to hop-step-jump into a marriage and then onto feeling new love!!Poor guy still thinks she is angry at him and that is why behaving like this!

^^lol......who said for communication Arman had to come to Sanjeevani.......for that.... just a letter or telephone conversation would do😛......but he didnt even bother 😉

this is sooooooooooooooooooo true......
i really agree wid each and every word of both the analysis!!!!
riddhima did not ever love arman...and she truly does not deserve armaan!!!!!!!!!
her fake love...more of infatuation is showing colours now....!!!!
lets see wat the creatives do wid the character riddhima....
well.....to make this story excellent they should unite armaan and riddhima...or else it would b an ordinary one...
well....how can a girl can fall in luv wid a boy only by means of gratitude???
this is sooooooooooooo lame!!!!!!!!!

Originally posted by: zainab25

All I got to say is that When K-Jo couldn't convey and direct KANK in a successful manner, tab yeh toh CMG hai mere dost.😎 And K-Jo, the man is intellectual...well he's pseudo - intellectual most of the times, and still couldn't pull off extra marital affairs. Tsk. Tsk.

I do feel for the A-R fans, truly I do. Trust me, I also had no inkling that someone so measley such as S-R generated mostly for filler space would create suchha ruckus around the nation, forums, abroad, and give a head to head c-a-a-m-p-a-t-e-s-h-u-n to the eternal Armaa - Riddhima. *shock and horror* I'd be pissed too if my favorites were left chaste after 2 years of wait.

Ohmagawd. Clearly the underdawgs are not the underdawgs anymore. I love KSG at times (I really do), no need to explicate why any futher. 😊