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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aish_punk

well written nitzie di!..u described it perfectly..

its good Riddhima is on the other side now, she needs to realize how it feels!
i feel bad for poor Sid, who did nothing, but got such a bad treat on his wedding day!



Oh My God! Aish?😲

You will think that am high on tequila but today in the evening , i saw your post in the creations gallery or somewhere and i wondered where you were.I hadn't seen you in my threads for quite a long time now.

Thank you so much for replying and sharing the view. It was good to see Riddhima in Sid's shoes and Sid in Riddhima's shoes. But equally disturbing.I mean as much as i empathize with Riddhima , one can well understand how deeply the wound of having his wife Riddhima try and commit suicide the very day she married him. It is a horrible feeling.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05

O my i liked the way he was hitting the punching bag!! Becharay ki haalat The incedents which took place wih him taunt him a lot!!!


Hey Shanty! 😳

You are right. Sid is HAUNTED right now. The disturbing image of Riddhima collapsing due to the poison in front of him refuses to leave him. The hurt has trickled into his veins since the shock is over.


Ridz I guess now will be determined to mend a relationship of friendship with him!!
I just hope he gains csome confidence in what she wants to do

You bet. Riddhima will try what she can to mend fences with Sid but he is going to hurt her - I can see it coming. He wants her to feel what he felt. Human instincts and a very basic human reaction. But I don't think Sid will be able to handle a crumbling Riddhima.


nice post Nitz!!!😊



Thanks for replying , baby.🤗
Posted: 15 years ago
#13
hey poco ji another awesome post, thank u, as always!!
i am so glad that siddy widdy did not melt on seeing Ridhz tears like always!! The suicide issue peirced through his heart like a lethal dagger, wounding his self respect, selflessness, his new found "trust" in ms chudail
He went through hell for her & because of her, he emptied himself and was ready to even marriage her, scarificing his life just to undo the mistake he did - to save Ridhimma and her family's honour! He was readily accepting ridhimma with her past, a past which will always remain with her. He was willingly ready to cross mountains make the marriage work, was fully prepared for the endless wait, wait for her to cover the distance b/w them, to accept their union and him as her husband in her life!!
When he discovers how selfish and coward Ridhimma was in ending her life, that too, just before the marriage, he was shattered!!! He came to know this girl will never ever understand his feelings, never even bother to acknowledge his scarifice and pain he is going through just to keep her happy!! She is so lost on herself that she doesn't even seem to care about her parents - wht will she care for him??
In choosing death over marrying Sid, Ridhimma humiliated him by questioning his worthiness!!!
Sid thinks that the whole wedding was just a drama, to keep her parents happy and to show the world she is married to the guy she was once linked up with, restoring her lost honour!
Sid has been proving himself in the past and now it's ridhimma's turn!!
Fuming prince is too hot to handle!!! but i do hope he kools before the wkend, or else i wud be vaporized...!😆
cheers
Kai
p.s hope my rambling made some sense!!!🤔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes dear Kai....Your pati is hard and hot to handle....😉
Posted: 15 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: princessuma

well it was obvious that he was going to pick up the pillow...but the way they filmed it was really good!! the expressions on both their faces told the story of the turmoil going on in their hearts and brains. Sid is a wounded man...a boy who was forced to grow up...while Ridzy is a wounded woman....whose love gave her a chance to live her life with a man that she was responsible for wounding.

I loved Ridzy attempt to talk to Sid...and his silence spoke a lot! His dialouges at the bb court...made you want to give the hug to a man...not a boy! They both have a long way to go before they fall in love...both of them are dealing with a marriage that one of them might have consented to happily but now thinks of it as fake.

i just loved the underlined bit!!! ....well written sumi, short and sweet!😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lennie

Lovely post - everything right now, yes Sid is hurt and let down, he doesnt see brightness anymore in a way


Yep. He feels let down by Riddhima and he thinks all the efforts he did to bring sunshine into her life were futile. He feels like a failure and it is terrible.
Imagine , looking forward to getting married to someone , only to find that person on the verge of willing death by suicide only because he/she did not want to be with you. It feels 10 times worse than it sounds. It fills you up with a terrible feeling of uselessness , hollowness and above all the worst human fear - OF BEING UNWANTED.
I agree - imagine yourself in that situation esp feeling unwanted, nobody wants to feel that.
Sid was looking forward to marriage, he made his commitment beforehand and then Ridz goes and does this when he promised to respect her and give her space, she still goes and does that - she's damn lucky he was there at the right time, but we all know he is her lifeline 😳


Yeah. That horrible feeling of being abandoned , given up on and being unwanted. It kills you and Sid cannot tell anyone anything. It is all inside him and he doesn't know how to handle his temper with Riddhima either. He needs to be healed now and am sure Riddhima will try her best , provided Sid gives her that chance.


Very true, about Ridz right on asking him questions - she has that right now to ask and i like that she wants to
I was wondering why she didnt go to Sid when he was punching his bag, but i think she thought he needs to cool down and tomorrow's things might be better esp Sid's mood but it wasnt, what a lovely image of Ridz as a beautiful bride/wife and Sid still cant bear to look at her and talk to her etc
And there went an angry basketball into a basket and off went Sid. A sad but moved Riddhima , tears swimming in her eyes wished that Sid believes her ..... I know this marriage is a compromise Sid. But I want to make it work - I want to walk ahead and I don't want to run from life anymore. Help me. For Mom-Dad, I want this marriage to work and be a good wife to you... I don't know if i will be able to accept you with all my heart ever.... but help me try.
Ridz needs him now more then ever - like you say to help her to try and also see the future, by one step at a time, both together beside each other can make it.
Sid so believes that this whole marriages doesnt mean anything to her but it does once your married things itself changes and modes you into that role that you have as a wife - and i think this is how Ridz is and doing

Absolutely. Riddhima has taken her first step and if she has it in her to bear Sid's hostility and see through his pain , she will win back the friend and confidante that she has lost. And love will come softly and quietly.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I wish there was a 'LOVE' button! lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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same here Niki...I would say Poco deserves Oscar Award ....and IF dev team please include love button ....so we can give poco lots of love and hugs...for marvellous writing !!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Love Comes Softly definately ❤️
I just download that movie yesterday, as i found it on a site, what a movie 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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lol thanks Kai...I guess I am changing ships now...lol

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