how selfish of riddhima - Page 2

just saw todays episode
and i must say this tth ridhima is not behaving properly
i mean come on she should help armaan
i know she is hurt
i feel bad for her lekin somewhere she needs to understand tht they all r still unknown to armaan
if a unknown person comes and tells me ok u lost ur memory and this this hapepend u were getting married u loved someone then ofcourse even i will take time to accept it
if someone known like ur parens tell u then atleast u believe them

armaan doesnt have his family by his side also
ofcourse he will react this way
i understand she is sad i am sad for both of them lekin she needs to support armaan now
he told her sorry he is accepting it all now lekin still it will take time
and she should now support him help him
show him how much she loves him

the friends so lets say the so called friends
they need to support armaan and help him
atleast atul
ridhima has her father her sis her mother and her friends with her
whom does armaan have
no one
all pointing fingers on him when he is no where in fault
he lost his memory then how is it his mistake

i seriously feel they need to support him
his friends and ridhima should help him so tht professionally and personally he can be strong

Ridz wants to Stay away from Armaan becaz she noes this Armaan DOES NOT LOVE HER...So she doesnt want to get hurt more and more...and Armaan is unkowningly hurting her..which has him at no fault as well...and I dont think RIDZ IS SELFISH!!!

she is heartbroken, she is going through sum tough times so you really cant blame her!

Originally posted by: dua_44ever

I understand that Armaan made fun of ridz yesterday...but why do we keep forgetting that this is not the same Armaan...This is the Armaan on Aug 20th 2007...remember him?? He made fun of Ridz left and right! that's what he was doing...Plus when he realized his mistake he went to Ridz to say sorry na? She should be more understanding at the moment...she should tell her dad..Yes! I am your daughter...so TRUST ME...I Loved this guy and I won't leave him in his time of need...plus I am a DOCTOR!!! He needs me in both ways...That's teh kind of attitude I want to see from Ridz...and I have a feeling that attitude is coming along soon...but I don't want to see the Ridz saying 'Papa ye mera Armaan nahin hai...Mujhe Mera Armaan la do Papa' Halwa hai kya? Yaad karo Armaan ne tumhein kaise jeeta tha?? usne to jaake kisi se nahin kaha tha..'Mujhe meri Ridhimma La Do?'
I know you are hurting...and we all feel really bad for her...God! that shouldn't happen to anyone...lekin being this way is not going to help you or Armaan...or anyone...Stand up and fight Girl!!! Face the Situation!!!

Sorry..no offence intended!!

otherwise i completely agree with you but armaan didn't come out and try and make fun of riddhima. He was trying to get stuff clear in his head when he was being told so much information. He said "par tum teacher ho.....tum hamesha mujhse ladti rehti ho.....i mean hum dono bohot alag hain" trying to say that they are different people and trying to make sense of it. he didn't say it to make fun of riddhima that is why when he looks up he sees the hurt look he says damn ....that is not how i meant......but riddhima got mad and hurt then left. He felt even worse about it after knowing the truth......he went to her house and apologized to her so many times. He hurt her with the way he said something but it was no fault of his........he hurt her unintentionally......he wasn't trying to annoy or make her mad. He was trying to make sense of all the stuff.
I know ridz is hurt but she is the one who needs to help him through this tough state......she needs to stand up and confront the reality instead of still crying about the past and what is lost.
And i totally agree with you about the part of her standing up to shashank ........i confused by shashank.......he tells them both to stay away from eachother he also tells her that there is hardly not even a 0.1% chance that his memory will come back. So is he just telling her to leave him and get over it. He keep bringing up his izzat being in riddhima's hand. On top of that gives armaan an exam the next day. Riddhima was the closest person to him.....and she is suppose to be the best intern doctor.......so ideally she should be the one to help armaan deal with this situation give him support and make him come out of it.
Muskaan i don't know what she was complaining about......yeh wohi armaan hai 2007 wala........by the time muskaan rahul entered dmg ......armaan was already in love with riddhima he didn't bother riddhima or have fights then.......till the time they broke up.....so what was she complaining about.
Atul, Nikki, Muskaan (need to be helping both their friends armaan and riddhima in this emotional time of need not just riddhima and ignoring armaan) Anjali (atleast that is a little more understandable that she was a little mad because ridzi is her sister but still they all know HE LOST HIS MEMORY .....he is not doing anything on purpose to hurt someone...... he needs everyone's help the most.

I disagree. I think Ridz is not being selfish but staying away from armaan as she knows her emotions will make it impossible for her to be a 'teacher' Armaan, even though he doesn't admit it, wants to be with Ridz because it makes him feel better. If they are together, wo padhai nahin, sirf ek doosre ki aankhon mein khoye rahenge- Ridz trying to find her lost love and Armaan trying to find his lost memory.

Originally posted by: firefly99

@dua_44ever: I think at that time Ridz was broken as the person whom she loves the most didn't even recognize her that's why in that intensely emotional state she requested her father to get back her love without whom itsdifficult for her to evensurvive.For being selfish and not helping Arman there might be any reason they will show in the coming episodes.

I totally agree with you....
She might have said that b/c she is broken hearted..I completely understand Ridhimma's pain...but I am also thinking that Armaan is left alone..and she could be her biggest support right now. Maybe right now..even she is confused as to where their relationship stand...and it's hurting her but at the same time she is a Doctor. When shashank tells her to understand Armaan's condition from a medical point of view..she should do that and realize what Armaan's condition is. Whenever something happens to ridz..she has her sister, her family, her friends always with her to support..and Armaan was also always there for her. When she found out about being adopted..Armaan was her biggest support even after she found out that Armaan hid the truth from her...he was there with her in any way possible.
My thing is only that Armaan needs her the most right now and she should be there for him..both wrt to their relationship and also Professionally. 😊

Originally posted by: srkbest

otherwise i completely agree with you but armaan didn't come out and try and make fun of riddhima. He was trying to get stuff clear in his head when he was being told so much information. He said "par tum teacher ho.....tum hamesha mujhse ladti rehti ho.....i mean hum dono bohot alag hain" trying to say that they are different people and trying to make sense of it. he didn't say it to make fun of riddhima that is why when he looks up he sees the hurt look he says damn ....that is not how i meant......but riddhima got mad and hurt then left. He felt even worse about it after knowing the truth......he went to her house and apologized to her so many times. He hurt her with the way he said something but it was no fault of his........he hurt her unintentionally......he wasn't trying to annoy or make her mad. He was trying to make sense of all the stuff.
I know ridz is hurt but she is the one who needs to help him through this tough state......she needs to stand up and confront the reality instead of still crying about the past and what is lost.
And i totally agree with you about the part of her standing up to shashank ........i confused by shashank.......he tells them both to stay away from eachother he also tells her that there is hardly not even a 0.1% chance that his memory will come back. So is he just telling her to leave him and get over it. He keep bringing up his izzat being in riddhima's hand. On top of that gives armaan an exam the next day. Riddhima was the closest person to him.....and she is suppose to be the best intern doctor.......so ideally she should be the one to help armaan deal with this situation give him support and make him come out of it.
Muskaan i don't know what she was complaining about......yeh wohi armaan hai 2007 wala........by the time muskaan rahul entered dmg ......armaan was already in love with riddhima he didn't bother riddhima or have fights then.......till the time they broke up.....so what was she complaining about.
Atul, Nikki, Muskaan (need to be helping both their friends armaan and riddhima in this emotional time of need not just riddhima and ignoring armaan) Anjali (atleast that is a little more understandable that she was a little mad because ridzi is her sister but still they all know HE LOST HIS MEMORY .....he is not doing anything on purpose to hurt someone...... he needs everyone's help the most.

I completely agree with you...When I said he was making fun of Ridhimma I was saying it for the people who thought he was making fun of her...I didn't think he was making fun of her either...When he actually used to make fun of her, Anjie used to enjoy it...oh...she used to be the one always hurting Ridz feelings in the start...lekin ab sab bhool gaye aur sara blame Armaan pe. He should be the one given the utmost care...not Ridhimma...again..I say this that I know ridhimma is hurt...and it's a horrible horrible thing that happened to her...an dshe is confused too...but She really needs to stand up for Armaan!
On top of that...a guy who has lost his memory and just found out about it...is trying to understand his life...is going thru so much confusion..instead of handling him with care...you tell him that he has to take a medical? board exam in one day and pass it otherwise he will have to do the two years of internship again...all this in ONE DAY??? yeah! isse to uske dimaagh pe koi asar nahin padega na? ridhimaa ke paas jaane se usse baat karne se uspe asar padega..Shanky u r a doc for God's sake! 😆

I don't blame Ridz for refusing. She knows that he needs to focus and concentrate on the exam. If she is around, both wont get anything done. She is hurt but knows this is best for him. More Armaan is around her, he keeps wondering what did he love in her and that hurts her more each time... and he does not do any work (nor did he in past either when she was around !! 😆).... there will b e very few scenes when armaan and ridhz 'worked' when together :) without one eye lock or armaan trying to pull her in arms etc.. 😆😆😆 So.. Armaan is justified... and naturally his friends are trying to protect both by saying chill.. if you felt you didnt love Ridhz.. so be it.. carry on in life.... dont bother her more.. and dont upset your head either .. They also know exam is important and he should focus on that first rather than focussing on Ridhz.

Originally posted by: musiclover7

if the story were the other way around, and riddhima had lost her memory, does anybody think that armaan would have flat out refused to help her? um...no. that was so low of riddhima today to not help him. i completely understand that she's upset she's lost her love and her dad is telling them to stay away from each other, but he has one of the most important exams of his life tomorrow which he is doomed to fail, and if she really loved him, she would help him in a heartbeat.