I just don't understand Riddhima! - Page 10

Originally posted by: liza93

First of all, don't be sorry. This is pretty much how I feel too.

I was about to open a new topic called "Ridhima has really changed"....but then I dropped the idea, because I knew I would end up getting bashed left & right.

It's good to trust your boyfriend and have faith in your love, but to have Faith ONLY in your love is not right. From what I have observed, Ridhima's world revolves around Armaan. It does not go beyond that. Whereas Armaan's world, although centered around Ridhima, is not LIMITED to Ridhima. He has Niks as his best friend and he openly hugs her and kisses her head, Imagine what would happen if Ridhima would do that? Armaan would be fuming red with jealousy....and it might lead to their break up too. This pattern only shows that once you remove Armaan from Ridhima's life, she is nothing. She has no character. She has no indivisual presence. Her character is so badly woven into Armaan's, that it is nearly impossible to look at her as an indivisual. Someone who knows how to live life on her own terms.

Thanks for the wonderful post. I guess I stop stop here Lol... :)

Originally posted by: ramsha247

Pagloo i agree! I don't watch AR scenes but if she said that, then it is really stupid lol and i would have been like, what? Anyways don't care about her character no more because you all know why!

A girl needs to be strong even though she really trust her BF but trusting him more then her sister?

Remember before, ridz used to share her feelings for Armaan with angie but angie falled asleep once and she even did after that! Also it was justified of her to not tell anyone so early that time because they just hooked up and she needed time!

I can see how mature she is lol! Seriously if she hooks up with Abhi, abhi can teach her how to be mature lol but not only her, each intern needs to learn that!

Originally posted by: Lucky_charm413

Liza, how do you find the right words to describe the right things?? What you just wrote is absolutely true... Armaan has a life and a character.... But Riddhima...her world is only Armaan... and the only things she can do for other is to cry for their sadnesses.....😕...She hurt Abhi, she cried for that.....Rahul is going to leave, she cried for him...that's it...

I was sure that my topic would be closed by now but I tried my best to keep the thread only about Riddhima's character...and I used polite words to describe what I think... so everything is fine....

Originally posted by: ramsha247

Liza i agree! You are such a awesome writer yaar!

Originally posted by: liza93

Thanks Hun :) ......Really appreciate your wonderful words. 😊

I'm glad your topic is intact. I hope it stays this way 😊.......And yes, I agree with you when you say that all Ridhima does is cry. "Crying" is one of the few traits of her character that is visible to us. Baaki ka character Ghaas charne gaya hai 😆

Originally posted by: P_Shal

why should nikki dance with abhi to help AR..she doesn't like abhi either..so its ok if ridz makes a hue and cry over dancing with abhi but not nikki?...why?.. cos ridz has a bf den she's justified but cos nikki is single den she can dance with sumone she doesn't want to?..and dat too to prove dat she's such a good friend? lolz...is she a martryr or wat?..

nikki didn't want to dance with abhi and she said it rite away ..all ridz could have done was say a firm no..to get out of the situation which she didn't...dat is not nikki's fault..to nikki's credit she did try to get ridz out of the situation when she said ridz won't be comfortable with him..but dat didn't work..btw even rahul knows abt AR and even he could have helped armaan out but he didn;t either..cos frankly dat is sumthing ridz should have done..by saying no..others can't do it for her

Edited by calista - 16 years ago