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Posted: 13 years ago
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And guys I watched the episode now. And sorry to say but I am hating komal more. yes she was in truma. yes she was right from her pov but she was wrong to sia. Her outburst would have made much more sense if it held viraj responsible for it and if it was as Domestic violence women point of you! but it didnt made sense for her to blame sia.

Sia is no where responsible for whats happening. Sia in her night mare didnt imagine that, she will be beated like hell, that she will BE rape, that she will have a misscarriage, that she will have to run away, that she have to face viraj again, and now that she will stab! She never imagine that she will almost loose her life. No girl can ever imagine this happening! I dont know whats behind komal past. but I can say she has not even have pinch of what sia/jhanvi had and having!

She is blaming sia but why cant the hell she blame viraj because he is the only one responsible for whats happening!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I actually LOVED Komal's reaction, for several reasons. My only fear is that the CVs might overdo it and make it an all-out jethani-devrani war, and ruin Komal's character completely. At this juncture I can't help but think of how they might damage the serial anyway.

1. The other two women had their issues with Sia and the danger she posed for the family out before Viraaj's secret became public. They had their chance to vent. Tashu's assault occurred at a point where she was in a position just like Sia's, and because she'd mistrusted her earlier, Tashu was able to see Sia as an ally. Gayathri almost threw Sia out of the house for keeping things from her, along with Raghav. Komal's detachment so far allowed her to distance herself from the situation and sympathise with Sia at a time when she'd just found out what Krish had been through, but then again she wasn't a hostage in her own home or seeing her son at gunpoint at that point

2. It's clearly breaking-point at this stage: Komal knows there is no point in raging at Viraaj...remember he is clearly at the peak of his power at this point. They've not just been victimized, they've been placed in a position where they can't raise a voice against him or vent in front of him. She's not just angry -- she's frustrated, she's stressed, she's in fear of her life and her family's. That's something she can't express to the actual cause for all this because she knows he has the upper hand here. Her tirade towards Sia is really her frustration speaking. It's misplaced, but it springs out for her own trauma. Just as Jhanvi's pointless self-blame at the Dobriyal house did. Just as probably Sundar's temporary alliance with Viraaj did.

3. Like Ana said, the Singh women were as much victims as Sia herself was. The women faced having their own loved ones being assaulted and abused before their very eyes, were not allowed to speak or even breathe through their mouths, weren't allowed to defend themselves even once, spent hours being hostages in their own house and not being able to do a thing about it. Imagine spending an entire night or two in that state. Imagine the thoughts they'd have been forced to think. Imagine the kind of stress they must have been undergoing. Gayathri and Tashu can rationalize because they've allowed themselves space to be angry with Sia and to give vent to how they felt about what she didn't do. Komal hadn't. Just as she was beginning to realise the danger Krish had been in, she'd learnt of Jhanvi's situation. Does she have the chance to do anything other than sympathize? She doesn't.

Situations like these are not nice and easy and people are not going to be their normal selves in that kind of a situation. By stating that she had no right to do it just because Sia is, in principle, innocent...is delegitimizing their own suffering IMO.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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What i would love to see in future is Komal make a comparison of her situation with Dev and then think about Sia ... once she comes out of trauma ... and decides to stand by Sia instead of abandoning her ... I hope CVs explore that angle it would be awesome and true to the concept of the show but i highly doubt they will and may be even imagine how it would be like if Dev did not die ... for how long she would have been able to bear it herself
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Posted: 13 years ago
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its natural thats all..even i didnt see episode but hearing the statement i was like wat..bt then thinking...its jayaz yaar..yes sia has suffered hell..but komal and all did wat to deserve this..they tried their best to make sia stay but she and her ethics also...so here am not blamin sia or komal...but one and one V!!!!!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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A women can take pain on herself ...but when it comes to her child...even if she is not a fighter..she fights with whtever she has... Wht komal said was absolutely justified from her point of view...she didnt once even thought of raghav or anyone else all she was talking about was Krish...a mother would always choose her children over anyone and anything else...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Saraella

I dont wanna see the scene. no matter what reason is. I will still hate her because she blame sia for everything. she can be right from her pov lekin shes not right




Komal was simply stating the truth..

She simply said if she has to pick between her child and Sia she would pick her child and her family over Sia, and to be honest every mother would probably say the same thing.

And she is kind of right in blaming Sia, as if Sia had revealed Viraj's truth to everyone to begin with, they probably wouldn't be in this mess.

Also if you see the scene it's clear that her main concern out of everything wasn't even herself, Sia or the other family members, just Krish, as he is just a child, and she doesn't want him to go through another tragic event in his life and she's scared he won't recover from it. I personally thought this scene was perfect, and heart-wrenching.

As a woman she understood Sia's pain, but as a mother she has to think about her child first. And every mother would.



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Komal blaming Sia for the whole mess??If it was Tashu who hurled the accusation i would understand. Sia was silent about Viraj but Komal was no better she kept quiet while Raghav took the blame on the Dev fiasco.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sara, komal dint mean sia 2 go back 2 V..sia herself always thinks dat goin back 2 V is d only solution, whereas oders surrounding her always explained her dat no matter what she shudnt bow down 2 V...
but see once again sia will go 2 V, nw don defend her by saying she did 4 RAGHAV, agreeing 2 go wid Viraaj is nothing less dan insulting RAGHAV's luv and all d sacrifices he did 4 her, nd hw he taught her 2 fight wid V nd not constantly aghree wid V ..👎🏼
On d oder hand, i thot komal was actually very much right, becos 4 her sia is still only a girl whom her devar luved nd risked his own life nd family, so why will komal not think dat sia was responsible??..
sia was shut about Viraj for 3 long months nd endangered krrish several times ( saved him but dat doesnt rub off her mistake)..


But one thing dat dissapointed me was dat i felt she completely 4got RAGHAV's sacrifice, nd as per i know komal she luved RAGHAV nd understood him more dan oders in d family...

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