Viraj janvi raghav love triangle ? Note on page 17 - Page 14

Originally posted by: MsLuscious

Hi friends 1st of all i would like to thank all of you for commenting on this post i never thought this topic wil have so many views i know many of you didnt understand what i was actualy trying to say or wot i literaly meant! I have said this before that i m not on viraj side nor i want janvi to cho0se him in da end i said i THINK i didnt said i WANT her to choose him i wont ever want anygal to choose a guy like viraj is right now he is not mentaly well...
I personaly like harshad chopra n started watching da show like crazy for him so many people who think m a viraj supporter m N0T
and before posting topic i didnt knew it wil turn into a WAR ZONE people have their own POV n have right to share it if u dont like anyones comment avoid it! And about the lead i wud say let cvs decide it Guys im not being rude or pointing towards anyone. . . Its just i got so many pms from people some said y u r supporting viraj n sum were against raghav i make this note coz i wanted to make people understand that its just a SHOW y u people r taking it so seriously i hope now no one wil question me:) i love this forum and want its environment to b friendly! No offence to anyone have a great day:)

Originally posted by: RoyalLEO_Krrish

it varies ppl to ppl..justifying his acts by his illness is NOT what i have been trying to do...but u can not ignore the Facts...there is a huge difference between a Stable person who does things willingly and unstable person who does things without being able to differentiate..and as far as Jhanvi is concern..why are WE ALL deciding whom she should end up with!?? Makers of the show are commercialising everything it seems. oh what should JHanvi do now??? will she able to forget her past?? will she able to stay away from Viraaj?? i am like WT*

yes some excuses can't be forgiven...but some can..and who is gona decide that...we?? or her?? i mean srsly..how many women move on with their lives? not very many...how many can bruice easily?? not very many ...u think after starting new life she is going to be able to forget whatever happend with her...for example New SR with new person..whenever he touches her..wouldn't that remind of Viraaj??

it's makers fault for not being able to differentiate MCPs and OCPD/bipolar disordered ppl..u can NOT blame ppl for liking him and taking his side.. if it was not any disorder than picture was clear cut.

Originally posted by: pyar-ishk

OMG I can't believe this topic is still and with compelling arguments.

When I watch this show from the beginning I thought it was just about domestic violence and with OK using Madhuri to promote social awareness. Then later when cv left introduce mental illness it left me confuse. It made me realized Madhuri was just a marketing person to promote the channel. CV shows Viraj illness and Madhuri talks about women rights and against domestic violence and it got too contradicting so I stop listening to Madhuri.

Raghav, Jahnvi & Viraj, I always stay from commenting on this topic cause its never ending. The truth is Jahnvi will be with whom CV feel will the trp. It could either and regardless whom Raghav or Viraj am okay with it cause at the end of the day these people are about entertaining you and making there money.

I don't get why others have issues if Jahnvi end up with Raghav, then is extra marital affair or is that. The same applies to those that want Jahnvi with Viraj then you these questions on your morality.

@ Lik

I completely agree about some shows that have the male lead be verbally abusive and man handling. We the audiences don't stop watching the show we root for the couple to be together. That doesn't mean I would want to date Arnav who I find to be a narcissists jack a$$, or Ahem. The same with a mentally disable like Alek, our parents won't accept marriage proposal from a family like that but still fans watch and root cause it entertaining.

I'm not saying this to hurt fan group but to accept DSD is here to entertain, cause if the show didn't add some masala no one will watch. People say they want different with realistic values but when these shows come no one watches cause is too depressing.

Originally posted by: shazna123

We're not deciding who she should end up with, but quite clearly the title of this thread, shows that it's about who we think she should be with..

Most people on here have tried to see things from Viraj's side of things, and we have said that we understand he has an illness, but your posts never seem to see things from Jhanvi's point of view, it's always defending Viraj so it just seemed like you were trying to justify his acts. Sorry just the way I saw it, and I think many others see it like that too.

And I didn't say that Jhanvi would forget everything if she leaves Viraj. Of course she will be reminded of the horrible things he did to her. But still a life away from him will be safer and happier, than a life where she is beaten all the time. As for someone else touching her, yes she probably will think of Viraj and be scaredd, but over time like people forget old loves, she too will think about the man in her present rather than her past. But if she stays with Viraj she will be reminded of all the horrible things he did to her.

Plus I never said you can't like him or take his side, I just gave my point of view. But of course I was shocked like many others that any person would want a fellow human being to be with a man who abused her, who treated her worse than you would treat an animal.

I for one do not think any woman should go back to a man if he caused her months of pain, was the reason for the death of her child, blackmailed her, dragged along the floor, whipped her all night long, beat her over and over again, burnt her, watched her scream in pain and smiled hearing it, forced her to even eat petals because he didn't like them, threatened to cut her fingers, threatened to kill her family, emotionally blackmailed her, and the list goes on and on..

If you still think that Jhanvi should go back to Viraj once he becomes better and if you think those actions are forgiveable and you could once again continue a relationship with such a man, then honestly i'm lost for words. But hey that's your opinion.

I have nothing against it, but I will never agree with it.

Originally posted by: anita-92

I for one do not think any woman should go back to a man if he caused her months of pain, was the reason for the death of her child, blackmailed her, dragged along the floor, whipped her all night long, beat her over and over again, burnt her, watched her scream in pain and smiled hearing it, forced her to even eat petals because he didn't like them, threatened to cut her fingers, threatened to kill her family, emotionally blackmailed her, and the list goes on and on..

If you still think that Jhanvi should go back to Viraj once he becomes better and if you think those actions are forgiveable and you could once again continue a relationship with such a man, then honestly i'm lost for words. But hey that's your opinion.



Have been following yours and Krrish's posts... It's a very interesting debate..

@RoyalLEO_Krrish Just wanted to know what your reply is to the bold bit?

@Shazna123 Just wanted to say your posts are some of the best I've read. Very logical and well balanced.👏

Originally posted by: RoyalLEO_Krrish

I agree i liked her takes...very nutral..but i agree to disagree with her..due to my different views..

as far as her second paragraph i have to say that she is PINNING on me...but that is OK..cause i have been bashed many times...so it doesn't even matter anymore..

yes my take on it...what to say??? i agree on forgive and forget part..i blv that she is the person who has that capability of forgiving..that is part of her being Jhanvi...(Siya) or any woman for that sake has the capability of forgiving...that is if she loves him...(well even if she doesn't love him!) i think she can forgive him...unless they sketch her to extreme that i can see may be they will..because of the transformation part of the story...i am not sure...but she is asking me...i would say YES...cause i have witnessed ppl living a better life..and i agree on that..as i see everyone is capable of giving another chance and change is necessity...he has to change..and if he can why not give him chance??? there is NOTHING wrong in it...as per my view..

Originally posted by: RoyalLEO_Krrish

@ shazna123: u don't have to agree with me..i never say that to anyone..i only defend and said what i felt like..again only replying to u because i saw ur reply nutral without any bias..so yes..that is the reason of talk. and yes I agree to disagree with u..because i see picture from his eye..and ur obv.looking from her pov.. everyone has different way of analyzing things..and yes u can say that i am taking his side..but i never "Glorified" his violent acts..i always took his side because of his illness..and i have mentioned that many times..