CV's? Sibling Rivalry? SO LAME - Page 2

Originally posted by: Manipadma

Plz elaborate..

P.S. - i havn't seen kck..

Originally posted by: Krrish87_sweet

karthik calling karthik (Farhan Akhtar's movie) Creating situations which are not actually happening..Karthik imgined having a sibling who was much better, confident, winner, a guy who was more cared, looked after by his parents. He complained his parents about his brother hitting him...actually there was no one doing that..it was in his subconcious mind.. he was calling himself and recorded mesgs in the answering machines, and then freaked out when ph calls comes and Person who called him started talking to him...MUST watch movie... u will get the idea... but Deepika did convinced him to get cured😃 I hope if that's the theme or similar on the idea than Jhanvi should be able to cure Viraj!& a Happy Ending!😃😃

Originally posted by: ritzbitz786

I like your take on things krissh. Let me say that first and foremost. I guess we will slowly find out why viraj is the way he is and sibling rivalry prob. added fuel to a fire that was already there, etc..

However, in my personal opinion, i dont think, (well only the cv's know) that DSDD is meant to be a "happy ending all iz well picture abhi bakee hai mere dost" type serial. What it seems is that its supposed to be a voice out there for everyone (Life Ok's theme). For women who may been in similar situations as Jhanvi, to show them how to handle the situation and not be scared to escape. Because yes, we have this hot actor karanvir Bohra, and we love him so much we want a happy ending for such an amazing on screen couple, but in real life, would we really encourage someone we love or know to put up with the behavior or wait for the person to change? Because from personal experience thats what happens (sometimes not all the time) in our culture. we due our farz as dharampatni and dont leave our husbands side no matter how he treats us. Yes, some cases are cureable, and viraj may be. But i dont know if the focus is on viraj getting cured and showing a happy ending, or perhaps showing the opposite of all the other channels, showing a real story about someone who eventually, does have to leave or excape from their husband.

Just my two cents. Lets see what happens. I just hope whatever does, it doesnt fall on deaf ears to any of the public who watches this serial. because sometimes people like viraj dont change, and sometimes you shouldnt have to wait for them too.

*writing this post NOT as a DSDD fan, or karanvir bohra fan or RajVi fan, but with a more realistc view as I have interned at a Battered womens shelter for south asian women.⭐️⭐️

Originally posted by: Krrish87_sweet

It's Krish😛 humm...agreeing...slightly... @BI: yes almost all indian women are trained that way to put on with stuff...and if giving in makes things work out why not?? if we can bring out the good in Evil/Bad why not?? the show has meaningful name: "Saubhagya vati bhava" *and obv a ? but ignore the question mark for now* but yes it indeed indicates the transition phase that a lady goes through and become woman. If u have remember or seen bhaskar bharti show where Lord Krishna says about "aurat ke naun gun" where "Kshma" - Forgivenss, giving in is one of the quality that a woman has..and that is what makes us who we are. and all those 9 qualities makes us successful girl, daugther, wife, & finally mother😃 @ UD: yes it's becoz Kv is portraying the character that is the main reason m willing to see positive ending but more over m willing to see happy ending because I am willing to see the Good Change, the women power and the power of marriage which makes the wildest person better..*ok wildest is not the correct word, but u get my point?* i am willing to see how true love of a woman and a wife and also true love between two ppl can make such miracles..*may be u will think that i live in fairy tale world 🥱 hahah that is ok but that is what i want to blv* @ UD: from what i can see the focus is to POINT OUT the hidden truths behind arranged, and unclarified marriages. Domestic violence, showing what causing it, reasons behind it. V getting cure would be the best solution and that too by Jhanvi's love and doctor's help that would be the idealistic end of the show. It's definately not complete fake story. I bet the Creatives have worked, researched a LOT on this show and developing the characters.. sply the main leads... @ BB: yes agreed. situation varies by case to case. & yes it should definately provide a mesg and effect ppl's life. *provided they see it openly!* which is mostly not the case..the reason of falling TRPs.

Originally posted by: sangini.mitr

A woman is more than just a daughter or wife of mother.These are the roles that she plays in her life exactly like a man playing the role of son/husband/father.But before all this a woman is an individual of her own.For a moment forget that the male lead is a hottie,imagine someone else in his place.Would you still want jahnvi to put up with the man and give in to him,and thus slowly kill her identity.This show is not about lovey dovey couple or true love.Its about the domestic violence that some woman actually face and if this show goes the way you described above by making jahnvi put up with the violence and swallow down the humiliation and expect her hubby to change,then the show would lose its very meaning.Life is not a fairy tale and this show is one of those rare programs in TV which should keep up with the reality and create a hope for women who face domestic abuse.Women facing domestic abuse often end up putting the blame and responsibility of the abuse on themselves and keep on praying that someday their hubby magically becomes a better person and in this process they lose themselves and end up being emotionally and physically broken and children from such households often become unstable.That is exactly what dadi is trying to help jahnvi understand.Women should never put up with anytype of abuse.Its just my opinion.But I strongly feel that the CVs should keep the storyline realistic as it might actually show some hope to those thousands of victims of domestic abuse.

Originally posted by: Krrish87_sweet

@ Sangini: Different way of looking at situation again. I am optimistic and willing to see how marriage and commitment changes someone's life. how Jhanvi gets to know the Real Viraj and how she actually take this situation and make it convinient for her the way she wanted.."Normal Life" is what i want to see..I don't want to see some OCPD guy hitting a wife and wife suffers for the rest of the life, or kills his husband becoz "Guess what he is a Physco!" huh...that is not the mesg..mesg should always be the way that changes ppl'z life bring out the good in bad should be the mesg..i actually wants to see more development in Jhanvi's character, instead of her being tooo much Against Viraj *anjam* and ended up killing him or Running away *agnisakhshi* situation..no no..if this is real life that they want to show why not changing the real life by means of curing the patient, convincing him to get cured, favouring the situation by love, working out those broken marriages. As far as i sound fairy talish...i blv in strong relations. I blv in true love and I blv that things can work..and atleast One should try to make it work before putting off. ur only looking at the things that he did to her *mainly the bad ones* but u can't see the Love he has for her...the care that he has for her...and as Dr. Rana mentioned..."patients are unpredictable", hitting jhanvi with the belt *anger and couldn't control the anger* and then appologies...sharing the same pain by hitting himself... he doesn't even realise the things that happend few moments ago...even if he realises he can't fix it..so what he does is to make situations so that he doesn't loose her. Running away from him for the rest of his life is to take away his love, the only hope to cure him..I would not do that to MY WORST enemy either...and Viraj is after all Jhanvi's husband. Edit: Quote: "The best way out is always through" - Robert Frost

Originally posted by: ritzbitz786

Um Sangini, will you be my best friend? Lol. No seriously, when I read your message, i was so happy to find someone who sees eye to eye with me. My sister and I are the ONLY TWO girl cousins who grew up in America, and we over and over give this message to our married girl cousins back home in pak. That a women has her own identity (also that abuse isnt always physical! it can be emotional as well) some of my family girls have constantly tired to change their husbands with love, to be more caring and understanding, some of the men have just not changed, and the wives have lost themselves, their personality their "wajood" in all of this. its so sad.

I was just happy to read your msg, like i said ive interned at a battered womens shelter for south asians, and my sister is a phD in psych. thats why sometimes when i watch this show, (no offense to anyone), i cant help but think "what is going on, is this realistic, is this idealistic, what will happen next?" and i think honestly, thats why the trp's are falling.

Viraj, i guess, is a more complicated and different case, as he does love jhanvi and does show his love, and has psych issues,

but I feel in the real world, some guys dont have psych issues, they just want to be more powerful and more dominant, no matter what their wife does, its not good enough, she can perfectly execute all her duties and if they arent happy, and mistreat her, then she starts blaming herself (as you mentioned) when the fact of the matter is, its not you, its HIM.

anyways, good disc. here for sure! so happy everyone respects each others opinions, its a respectful forum.

keep rocking guys.