What ever Mamta does .. goes down the drain

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Posted: 6 years ago
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The father son duo.. doesn't seem to let go of the fact that one lady betrayed them..
What ever she's done for the family.. how much love she seems to give the son..
What a wonderful wife she turned out to be..for VP.. he's still bent on the betrayal of first wife. Learn to move on man..

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Posted: 6 years ago
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His braincells are rusted due to excess intake of Rum Chicken 😵
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Posted: 6 years ago
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They jus seem to be dragging this plot.. creating stupidity ..
Wasn't Reeva there she could have told Reeva to go with Naagin to the hospital & she would come there later on 🤔 Reeva toh waise bhi kuch kaam nahi karti & was anyways not going to the party..🥱
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Rishabh is right about one thing. Rithvik is just a like a spoilt child. Because, someone had hurt him in the past he had to be nurtured and somehow everybody has to understand him and pampered him and take extra care for him. That's really tiring in a relationship.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rogna

Rishabh is right about one thing. Rithvik is just a like a spoilt child. Because, someone had hurt him in the past he had to be nurtured and somehow everybody has to understand him and pampered him and take extra care for him. That's really tiring in a relationship.


No I am with Ritwick on this .. it is very easy to say someone has hurt him in the past .😭. Specially when a child is left by the Mother the child's life turns upside down , father too .. but a mom not being in life is the worst situation for anyone .. if the mom was dead the situation would have been why still hurt etc etc .. but the Mom left & seemingly is alive .. so the effects of a parent leaving the child the things the child undergoes instantly is highly physiological .. & he /she needs extra effort from the one who loves them.
so all this kid gloves treatment by his loved one specially his mom-mamta is some thing that has build Ricky , else he would have not had his basic great character & strength . & would have turned up to extremely weakling or extremely aggressive banda ...😉 i know of single parent child of the same situation as Ricky , the word orphan or abandoned itself triggers depression & agitation .. such children need extreme care even when they are grown up 😊
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Child abandonment is a huge issue and it's not easy. To get over this trauma in fact most people don't get over it
Even with therapist and all ..Ricky is very vocal about if..that's good a lot of people are unable to have any kind of relationships with Sister , Aunty and Wife because their primary woman mother betrayed them


We have seen Daughter Father relationship troubles in tv series Beyhadd an example even those are similar to this



You don't replace your mom with somebody else just because she gave u love


Mother child is the only unconditional love in the world

That is why Ricky is very giving in all his relationships

With palak he's hardly a demanding hubby
He's an excellent Son in law

He has been an exemplary son and brother too

Always giving

Because the one unconditional love in his life has been betrayed.

Even though mAmta tried Ricky fears losing her just as he fears losing palak
And his dad


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Posted: 6 years ago
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I blame his dad for this - losing a mother whether to death or abandonment is very hard to get over, specially at an age when a child understands the situation and in part blames himself and thinks if he would have been a good kid the mom would have stayed. His father instead of instilling this irrational belief that all women eventually will be like his real mom, should have instead given him the values that yes people do betray- man or woman, but he is worthy and although one woman left them, another provided them with the stability and love.

I think more than Ritwik it's his dad who is carrying this stupid insecurities within him. I feel bad for Mamta that even though she has been with VP through think and thin he keeps harping on about the one that left him. Imagine living with a man who time and time again keeps bringing how his ex left him? Mamta's ex left her too but I don't hear her going on and on. VP needs help more than anyone else.

Also I don't understand how Palak can be money hungry when she left her marriage with a much more wealthier person Naman? If she wanted money Naman had heaps - why can't they get that?

Right now I am loving the love and comfortableness of Ritwik and Palak and I don't think that will be jeopardise just because daddy and step brother have gone cookout.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mumoos

The father son duo.. doesn't seem to let go of the fact that one lady betrayed them..

What ever she's done for the family.. how much love she seems to give the son..
What a wonderful wife she turned out to be..for VP.. he's still bent on the betrayal of first wife. Learn to move on man..


In the process of rightly or wrongly hating his own first wife, VP has created severe abandonment issues for not one but two sons. We align with Rithwik's issues because he is the hero. But we choose to turn a blind eye on Rishabh's abandonment issues which are equally severe, perhaps more...only we look the other way cause he is the villain

And much as VP calls Mamta "lady of the house", if he has not been able to cure himself with Mamta's love and affection, then he has also been a very thankless and selfish person for good measure
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rogna

Rishabh is right about one thing. Rithvik is just a like a spoilt child. Because, someone had hurt him in the past he had to be nurtured and somehow everybody has to understand him and pampered him and take extra care for him. That's really tiring in a relationship.


Actually in a twisted way, I agree. Palak was the very first person ever in his life to tell him "Grow up, life happens". Its true that people around Rithwik became over sensitive and mollycoddled him too much. Recall what he had become before Palak entered his life.

And in the process Rishabh too faced severe abandonment issues. He too had lost a father (either divorce or death), lost his mother's attention to someone else's son , and the new father that he acquired was very kind and nice, but he was always Rithwik's dad first.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: mysterygirl123



Actually in a twisted way, I agree. Palak was the very first person ever in his life to tell him "Grow up, life happens". Its true that people around Rithwik became over sensitive and mollycoddled him too much. Recall what he had become before Palak entered his life.

And in the process Rishabh too faced severe abandonment issues. He too had lost a father (either divorce or death), lost his mother's attention to someone else's son , and the new father that he acquired was very kind and nice, but he was always Rithwik's dad first.



Good points. I have always been of the view that Rishabh was not completely wrong when he was seeking all the attention to himself. After all, he had been an abandoned kid too. So, I was actually able to understand what and why he was doing in the initial phases. But, I totally lost all the pity I had for him when he started harassing Palak and made her roam outside till late in the night.

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