even I had the same issue with Lana comparison... Haan agar Uske return ke baad bolta mere ko as animals se samjha a jata but when it was presaid I gave a thought n understood one thing his mind has a tape with gauri negative puraan which starts playing in his mind when someone else takes gauris side... It's to stop penetration of good talks about gauri to his brain😆
His mind and heart is not in one place right now slowly the fight will also start..
But one thing I noticed today is how he was sitting on the mandap..like a statue..and started thinking that Gouri will not come back..when Buamaa pulled him ff ofrom his sitting position he came into senses..he was in deep thought about Gouris leaving..I like that part..