okay before anyone gets offended let me tell you its just my POV you dont have to agree with it i am just curious to get answers! đ
Alright so everyone here (myself) felt very bad for Omkara turning into all OSO and not believing Gauri when she continuously pleaded that its her majbori to whatever she is doing and even he said he had sympathy for KT rather than hating him just like Tej.
so the question is why is he not feeling disgusted by KT for being all Tejy and kept throwing hate balls only in gauri's court thinking her as swetlana?
well here's what i think!
we all dont know about Tej like how he used to be when he was young? was he a Manther (opposite of cougar: A middle-aged man who seeks sexual or romantic relationships with much younger women.) (yeah i will call him that) before marriage or became after it? but we do know a bit about Om's childhood.
Remember The TejVi convo in the episode after Om committed suicide. Jhanvi said Om was in 3rd standard and wanted to complete his education so he can grow up quickly and marry to have a happy married life like his parents but then she said everything started to fall between TeJvi that it effected Om badly and he started failing his standards because he didnt want to grow up and be like his father when he gets married so that means thats when Tej might have started getting into affairs? and it created problems between TejVi' relation.
At that time Om was somewhat 8-9 year old so he has seen the romantically perfect relationship of his parents but then something happened and he saw his parents fights and his mother crying and maybe he may even have saw a mistress of his father too who knows?
so a basic child psychology says what parents do and how they do effects the child's development and this is what happened with omkara here he may have made a picture in his young mind that before the unknown lady who came between my parents, My father was a good man but when that lady came he became a bad man and then he grew up with this in his mind and who know maybe svetlana is Tej's 4rth or 5th? as in one of the TejKara convo Tej said i never saw you three grow up specially Rudra and Priyanka because most of the time he was out for his work. So that's why Om never got the chance to get more close to his father and all the fights between his parents may have frightened his young mind that he was too scared to go near his father because remember Shivaay used to take away the frightened Rudra in his room and Om started isolating himself in his' during their parents' fight?
so Basically Om grew up with this image unconsciously stuck in his mind that when he saw gauri he immediately considered her as a girl who phasofy rich people for money and destroy other women's house. and sone pe suhagga ye k jo usko k sath phele hua jiski waja se he FINALLY changed it all made him blind to even look at the second side of the story. Remember IshKara clash? Ishaana said "wakt ane par ap bhi apne baap ki tarha nikle gae" and thats what is happening. He has become a cold hearted insensitive OSO with a coward Omkara breathing inside him because it was high time for him to change.
Omkara was always this intense but he taught himself to stay calm and cool. whenever we got a TejKara scenes or ShivKara scenes (where rudy always came between them) We literally lost our shits because of the intensity of his anger and we were all like "OMG jab vanwas track ayega tab kia hoga abhi se Om has so much takkar with shivaay!!!!!" so why does it make a difference now when there's Gauri? phele hi do larkia usko ullu bana chukki hai. Riddhima by her dekhawa of social work for poor and needy and Ishaana as how life is giving her pain and she had to choose the wrong way to defeat it ( which was true but omkara k liye to wo sab jhoot hi reh gaya na kio k he never got the chance to know THE ACTUAL TRUTH đĄ)
and after that Ishkara clash he even said k "Mera pora trust system hi hil gaya hai" to it was expected of him to behave like he is behaving with Gauri or any other person who was bound to come in his life. Then svetlana happened.
so what i am saying is k hamara Om is there sure Gul didnt have any ideas left to show the first encounter of RiKara so she went the Shivika way but I am sure there will come a time when he will question himself looking in the mirror k ye mai nahi hoon. Ye kon hai mai itna insensitive kese hoskta ho? and then he will see the reflection of his father in him and throw the mirror lol i wish we will get a Omkara VS OSO confrontation one day but i know Gulwa she wont let it happen anytime soon. đ„±
so thats my opinion! am i making any sense ?? please do let me know what you guys think? đ