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Posted: 14 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: ankit_nyc

๐Ÿ˜ƒ Mihir Bhai I mean Mihir Da I don't know if you knew this but Asha Bhosle was married to R D Burman and refers to him as Pancham Da in every interview.....she touched his feets etc as well.........so you see Da doesn't just mean brother, unless we are to believe that Asha Bhosle is referring to her ex husband Pancham as Pancham brother when she calls him Pancham Da in every single interview.......๐Ÿ˜ƒ


๐Ÿ˜› Ankit u have a debate for every single reply don't you ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

Anyway so going by your reply, a woman can call a man "Da" in two situations:
1. When the man is her brother.
2. when she is married to him.

Now #2 is certainly not the case here, is it? (I hope not)

So its obvious(at least for me) that she calls him "Dada" or "Da" with sisterly feelings and not wifely...and even if we assume its scripted, they seem to be enjoying it without any hesitation, almost seeming natural and not made up, which is what I find immoral and disgusting.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: desigirl123


A reality show can also be a competition.
What does being fashionable have to do with being an actor? Only actors can be fashionable?

Tongue If it's a competition, why do we need to see the judges at all? just let the contestants perform and let the judges give their ratings on the screen........why so much emphasis on judges? do we see judges in the olympics all the time?Tongue
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankit_nyc

๐Ÿ˜• ummm she was married to pancham da........as a wife she never touched his feet? don't accuse others of making things up if you don't know what they are talking about........go check your facts first.......๐Ÿ˜• ummm so it's okay if a wife refers to her husband as Da because others do but it's not okay if Geeta ma refers to Mithun as Mithun Da.......๐Ÿ˜• so Asha bhosle can refer to pancham as Pancham Da and sleep with him on the same bed but Geeta calling MIthun, Mithun Da and flirting with him for the sake of camera is disgusting......sahi logic hein.......๐Ÿ˜•


Well, not all married woman touch their husband's feet. ๐Ÿ˜Š Geeta calls Mitun da "da" out of a brotherly respect, so I guess according you brother and sister flirting is okay, but a wife referring to her husband as "da" because an interviewer addressed him like that is disgusting. ๐Ÿ˜•
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tulipbaby53


Well, not all married woman touch their husband's feet. ๐Ÿ˜Š Geeta calls Mitun da "da" out of a brotherly respect, so I guess according you brother and sister flirting is okay, but a wife referring to her husband as "da" because an interviewer addressed him like that is disgusting. ๐Ÿ˜•

๐Ÿ˜ƒ seems like you didn't even know Asha was married to Pancham "da".........and this didn't happen one time.....go pull up any interview of Asha wherein she talks about her ex husband....she'll refer to him as "panchamda"..........๐Ÿ˜ƒ I don't think it's disgusting at all actually, just like I don't think Geeta's and Mithun's playful behavior is not disgusting...........๐Ÿ˜ƒ Amazing how some people don't mind half clad men wearing only pants, half clad women dancing around in skimpy clothes, but a little playful banter between an actor and a choreographer, well that's against family values.........๐Ÿ˜ƒ So kids listen up it's okay to walk around with your shirt off, and girls it's okay to flaunt your body to the world in skimpy clothes, but don't engage in flirting while in front of the camera on a tv show..........๐Ÿ˜ƒ
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mihirism


๐Ÿ˜› Ankit u have a debate for every single reply don't you ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

Anyway so going by your reply, a woman can call a man "Da" in two situations:
1. When the man is her brother.
2. when she is married to him.

Now #2 is certainly not the case here, is it? (I hope not)

So its obvious(at least for me) that she calls him "Dada" or "Da" with sisterly feelings and not wifely...and even if we assume its scripted, they seem to be enjoying it without any hesitation, almost seeming natural and not made up, which is what I find immoral and disgusting.

๐Ÿ˜ƒ really immoral and disgusting? well let me ask you this then since you have a problem with the age issue and flirting........๐Ÿ˜ƒ what were you thoughts when Terrence repeatedly complimented Shakti throughout DID 2 by saying she looked hot etc after several of her performances? same with kruti, and vandana.......in fact it was Terrence who made Vandana (maybe Kruti's parents) come on stage and basically told them that their daughter would have to learn to dress in skimpy clothing eventhough the parents were conservative and against it........See I didn't think any of those things were immoral either but judging by the high standards people have for geeta then why not for previous incidents in DID as well...........๐Ÿ˜ƒ
PS === here's the link for the above mentioned incident.....http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6UnAoW_wc1Y&playnext=1&list=PL1368927344D209D0
so basically it seems like girls dressing skimpily is fine but a little playful flirting between an actor and a choreographer is disgusting and morally wrong............๐Ÿ˜Š
Edited by ankit_nyc - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankit_nyc

๐Ÿ˜ƒ seems like you didn't even know Asha was married to Pancham "da".........and this didn't happen one time.....go pull up any interview of Asha wherein she talks about her ex husband....she'll refer to him as "panchamda"..........๐Ÿ˜ƒ I don't think it's disgusting at all actually, just like I don't think Geeta's and Mithun's playful behavior is not disgusting...........๐Ÿ˜ƒ Amazing how some people don't mind half clad men wearing only pants, half clad women dancing around in skimpy clothes, but a little playful banter between an actor and a choreographer, well that's against family values.........๐Ÿ˜ƒ So kids listen up it's okay to walk around with your shirt off, and girls it's okay to flaunt your body to the world in skimpy clothes, but don't engage in flirting while in front of the camera on a tv show..........๐Ÿ˜ƒ


Seems like your reading problem has not improved. Where did I state anything that gave the indication that I did not know that Asha Bhonsle was married to Pancham da? I knew this way before I ever knew you even or even before I came onto IF. Oh and where did I state that I approve of such clothing? I have listened it many times how I feel DID Double designers are suffering through the recession because of all the skimpy clothes worn by both the men and women. Perhaps, someone needs to come back and do a little more research before they decide start a debate. ๐Ÿ˜Š
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Posted: 14 years ago
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NONE of the married actress and actors call each other "dada" or "behen" before flirting ๐Ÿ˜†
.. It's pretty misleading you know, flirting with someone you call your brother ๐Ÿ˜†
But anyways, it doesn't bother me much nowadays.. ๐Ÿ˜• I'm just ignoring the cheap drama that's going about in the show..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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is this the petition ?

i sign
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sweetu.Baby

Okay um i have never seen Geeta bend down so where did touch feet come from? ๐Ÿ˜†


He he he ๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankit_nyc

๐Ÿ˜› Since many people find it offensive that Geeta and Dada are flirting for the camera being that Dada is married etc.......I thought it would be nice to start a petition wherein we would encourage all married Bollywood actors to stop flirting for the camera.............Akshay, Shahrukh, Aamir, Amitabh, Abhishek etc should all be advised to stop flirting on the camera being that they too are married.............๐Ÿ˜› They are all following a script like Dada and Geeta are following and since many people don't like married actors flirting on camera we should demand that all of them stop the flirting for the camera at once.............๐Ÿ˜ƒ Please sign this petition if you find it morally offensive that married actors flirt on a TV Show, Movie etc.............๐Ÿ˜›

PS --- It is amazing though how people think DID and all other dance shows are not scripted and that the judges, mentors etc just speak without scripts.........๐Ÿ˜ƒ According to these people Dada and Geeta flirting sends a wrong message to kids, but Aamir, Shahrukh etc flirting in movies doesn't send the wrong message.......๐Ÿ˜ƒ

How ridiculous! The aforementioned people are actors and while portraying these roles, they sign contract that they will perform with utmost convinction...maybe that's why you find it so realistic๐Ÿ˜› But that has to do with your simplemindedness and doesn't change the fact that all they are doing is just playing a character in a movie they have to play. Well, as for me, I feel I am equally responsible if I do something wrong as the person who told me to commit that act. There is something called logic and conscience(of course, seems like unfamiliar words to you), that apparently didn't knock Mithun Da's brains. Well, I wouldn't say that it does not portray the right family values as much as it is ridiculous and utterly boring. Like I have said umpteen times, too much of a thing goes a long way. That is what is happening, it is so dragged and boring after a while. And yes, in a way, it does indeed promote the wrong family values. A 60 year old man flirting with a woman 20 years younger to her? And it doesn't stop there, the way he stares at some of the female participants and comments(overwhelmingly, mind you) on their beauty is total reflective of a perverted mind! Now you will say that Aamir etc do it...well first of all, there is a disclaimer at the beginning of each movie that implicitly states that there might be some uncomfortable scenes that asks for the viewer's discretion. Also, it has a rating by the Censor Board to go along with it. DID also has a disclaimer but it doesn't state it, and then, the marquee goes by so fast that people can barely read it.

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