...Pain of Losing and Grieving.
Hey, any of you ever thought, what if , something or someone you like and loved is lost for forever, no , we don't even want to think such things in our worst dream. Because losing can be dreadful and horrifying. It's frightening also. Any loss can cause grief, A relationship breakup, losing a job and financial stability, Loss of safety after accident, Death of loved one and this type of loss does often cause the most intense grief.
Such feeling is overwhelming, sometimes we feel that this sadness will never let up and we may experience emotions, such as shock, anger, and guilt. Our heart is filled with grief. It's the emotional suffering and very painful, and we can't express it in writing.
We are witnessing such in DLMH , Alka has been passing through this stage, she is in a mental shock, though she was feared this, the person she loved most would might get separated from her, yet she is not accepting the fact that chander is not with her anymore, even she tries to commit suicide. Here rises a question of discounted fears, she knew, this could happen, yet she is not able to collect herself. It seems that pain in personal loss neither follow the principle of discounting fears nor indemnity.
Well, no one can actually compensate your loss. But there are certain things we can do to heal. Healing happens gradually, as grieving process takes time. It depends on many factors, including personality, life experience, faith, and the nature of the loss, and above all that person's capability to cope with the situation. It's a matter of time as with the passing moments, you'll learn to live with it. Your initial grief soon or later replaced with emptiness, and this emptiness slowly fills with the activities, routine, you follow. It is said 'Time is The Best Medicine'.
We all know Alka will come out of this trauma and be strong. What is needed is to accept the fact. And to do the needful, scream, cry, get angry, and let her grief out.
What you people think?
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