A mockery in the name of DHARM! - Page 4

Aisha if she had told him she is upset and does not want to have physical relation because of that it would be different but she did it a condition so that he does not get distracted from his studies, which is where the problem is. She in a way declared that mohan is a desperado who won't be able to keep himself off her even when he has work, the thought itself is disgusting ... she did not say that i am upset hence we cant have physical relation, she said we can't because you will be distracted which is where the problem is

Originally posted by: adipihu

everybody is correct. first i want to tell about myself. i am new to this forum. hi everybody i am prem and heer fan.in DP serial i dont like harshad at all bcz he is dumb in this serial. i am not hurting anybody. he is a one of the best actors in television. how they spoiled the mohan aka harshad character. and i am happy this serial is going off air soon. so he can come back with good character. all the best harshad.<div></div>

Hi...You are entitled to your opinion. Mohan is very true-to-life character in my opinion; he has a depth & dimension you won't find in most male protagonists on desi tv...Furthermore, Harshad has understood and done complete justice to this character. Nobody else could have played him so convincingly. I think I speak for everyone here that we only want the best for him and all the other cast members in the future! God bless them in all their endeavors! 😊

Originally posted by: thornewood9

I'm confused. Maybe I missed this part. Kastur tells Mohan he has to pay for his crime ie lying about his degree and that punishment is to complete his degree. So... where's the problem...?😕

I understand she was hurt because he had lied about quite a big issue. He shared his body but not his secrets?

It kind of makes sense that she would question his feelings after that.

And ok in hindu marriage a wife has to keep her husband happy whatever the issues but this isn't exactly a basic hindu marriage now is it?

These two love each other. When one person lies to another when they share love together then it does hurt the other.

And education is a big issue.

There have been loads of situations where two people have gotten married and only after marriage it has been realised that one lied about their qualifications.

It's not something you can't get past but if you're going to share your life with someone and then lie about one aspect of your life it does make the other person think maybe they were lying about everything, where does the lie stop?

Aisha xxx😊

I'm confused. Maybe I missed this part. Kastur tells Mohan he has to pay for his crime ie lying about his degree and that punishment is to complete his degree. So... where's the problem...?[/QUOT

May I add that Kastur's lie was telling an old man that he had not consumed non-veg, when in fact he had?

Originally posted by: likarsh

May I add that Kastur's lie was telling an old man that he had not consumed non-veg, when in fact he had?

Originally posted by: likarsh

I don't believe it's a wife's duty to keep her husband happy no matter what. I don't believe it's a wife's duty to give it to the husband. Both have duties to each other, but both are also individuals.

My problem is the way it was presented in Wednesday's episode. Had it been shown the way it was shown in Thursday's episode with Mohan asking "is there any time for romance" and Kastur shaking her head, that's fine.

I don't have a problem with the "distraction" part so much. I've seen it used in a more light manner in various shows before. But here it was much more serious.

I'll just copy and past a post I had written in the EDT two nights ago

It really depends on the context. If it's more in a light manner, I've seen it done plenty of times and not just in Indian serials. But here it was completely serious. It's not just a matter concentrating on his studies. It's so much more. It's denying him the emotional support he needs, because he was begging for her to understand him and support him. He has so much more issues, so much to worry about. And to say she won't be close to him and "feelings" are enough. W*F? It's not even the sex, it's the lack of physical intimacy in general.

And it also seemed like it was part of his penance. Almost as if because of this lie, it is not "right" for them to share any such relations. That's the feeling I got from it. That the wrong has to be corrected, or else their relationship cannot be pure.

It's just... ugh.

If this show had developed the story correctly, and she found about his reason for marrying her, and they had problems, she moved backed away from physical relations, that's more than understandable. But that wouldn't be under the pretense that it's all okay. That would be under the knowledge that their are some issues (and rightly so) in their relationship that need to be worked on.

It's just the way this show portrayed this whole thing, over what, why, and how. Such a disgrace!

Originally posted by: thornewood9

I'm confused. Maybe I missed this part. Kastur tells Mohan he has to pay for his crime ie lying about his degree and that punishment is to complete his degree. So... where's the problem...?😕

I understand she was hurt because he had lied about quite a big issue. He shared his body but not his secrets?

It kind of makes sense that she would question his feelings after that.

And ok in hindu marriage a wife has to keep her husband happy whatever the issues but this isn't exactly a basic hindu marriage now is it?

These two love each other. When one person lies to another when they share love together then it does hurt the other.

And education is a big issue.

There have been loads of situations where two people have gotten married and only after marriage it has been realised that one lied about their qualifications.

It's not something you can't get past but if you're going to share your life with someone and then lie about one aspect of your life it does make the other person think maybe they were lying about everything, where does the lie stop?

Aisha xxx😊

ditto LIK...u hv told everything i wanted 2 burst out🤢...

Kastur just does not react aptly any where ... I mean am ok if she chose to understand why Mohan lied about degree and wanted to help him, its not beyond human specially when you love someone and Mohan finally shared with her why he had to ... BUT my problem is does she want to support him or punish him? If she had chosen not to forgive him i will still understand but once she forgives then what was she trying to imply by saying if we have physical relation you would be distracted? If she had said since you lied and i can't live with a lie, i won't have physical relation with you till that lie is corrected, it would have been different but she said no such thing, what her condition implies instead is she think her husband is a desperate fool and can't keep himself off of her and hence won't study, the thought itself is i don't know what