Why is it love? - Page 2

Well, Anjali, now I'm getting hell outta confused 😆 Like Mohan, I don't understand love 😆 Jokes apart, I don't know why but still I feel that the love thingy is still not there. I don't know why but I'm not getting convinced. 🤔

For them, they are maintaining their friendship, which has gone far beyond than friendship .. Kastur has become an inseparable part in Mohan's life but Mohan doesn't realize that! He's just going with the flow of his marital life, but with this flow, some feelings may have developed, the feeling of being connected or something else!

Well, I'm getting more baffled 😆 So I'd conclude saying that probably Mohan might have the initial feelings, not fully in love, but just the beginning! Maybe! 😳

But whatever Mohan did for Kastur in the last two episodes, like defending her and thanking her in privacy, can't anyone do that just as a close friend with whom you are very much comfortable? Ugh my head is spinning around now!

BTW I myself can't define love. 😆 Ugh CVs, what situation have you put us into? 😆

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Originally posted by: Soaps1

Him saying "she would have to learn to handle his mother" is not the same as him having confidence that she can deal with her and the case was later. As for drinking scene he was drunk and I feel he only left after a reassurance from kastur not before that. And if he had not cares for kastur's emotions why would he apologize to her after she came into the room? The fact that he apologized even in that state again proves that he did care for her feelings even then. I feel he could not or did not want to argue with her mother in that state but even then he left only after reassurance from kastur ... that hand shot was pretty symbolic to me.

And i don't disagree with the fact that the process has begun, he probably feels something more for her now but is that more love or something else, i just can't be sure but this is what will lead to love eventually thats for sure ... but mohan wanting to defend kastur or get her out of fix is not something new ... when baapji scolded her over lunch thing, even though he did not stand up or defend her ... he did try and bring her out of the situation, to me he has never liked Kastur being scolded or blamed since day one.

👏@Anjali: You did a fantastic job.

Oho he did feel the need to rectify with his mother even before too when he went to explain to her for her ... i am not saying its not significant but just that its not something new

And i am not arguing he is falling for her either ... i do agree the process has started but what stage it has reached is what we disagree on 😆 And to be honest the process for me started on the day he agreed to marry her (for whatever non sense reasons) and it started even more when she gave him her jewelery

Mohan has always wanted to protect as well as defend Kastur and this thing is not something new in my opinion however i don't disagree he the process of falling in love has started and realization would probably come only when she is no longer around. And no i don't like it when they say i love you, too artificial for me 😆

That's what I'm trying to say, that is, their relationship hasn't reached the deep love yet .. it's just the beginning! Thanks for explaining it beautifully and which makes perfect sense 😊

BTW "I love you" is too artificial for me as well, but not always! 😆

I'm too winded down, so I haven't read everything yet. I will get back to it.

Lik no disagreement on the fact that relationship has progressed but what level it has reached is what i am confused about.

Him pacing back and forth for her now could be for many reasons because she has made a place in his life now, because he is in love, because he considers her a friend? where as earlier she was just a wife, towards whom he had certain obligations. There is no doubt or argument that relationship had progressed now but what direction or what stage is what some of us are confused about ... i would say he is probably subconsciously falling in love with her.