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sam123_0

@sam123_0

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Posted: 14 years ago

After watching yesterday's episode.. I think the CVs gave out a very clear message to the society...

Not all good intentions of parents ends up being the best for their kids!!!😃

Some might say that it was wrong of Jitu to call Bhanu or Bhanu to confront Mohan and not let him talk... but this is where the point is.. when two individuals get married it is not just those 2 who need to adjust but the whole family... Everyone needs to realise that their kids need to be given this space!!

What I liked best was both Jitu and Bhanu have thier own daughter-in-law and yet both didnt think how this would affect their kids...

Also thank you CVs for keeping Mohan and Kastur ever so innocent...

Mohan... who is in a mess and took help from Kastur... but doesnt give a thought as to how important that help has been... all he is thinking right now is... "maa ko pata chala tho" And from what little they have shown.. Mohan usually tends to think only for the current situation.. not long run... and thats purely bcoz of his innocence... he might not like anything at home... not want to follow rules... drink, smoke etc.. but still he is innocent...

Kastur... who is only thinking of Mohan being upset without bothering to think why Mohan needed all that money and if he needed it.. why does he not want to tell his family... it is her blind love and trust and her innocence which is not letting her see the bigger picture...

So not only Mohan and Kastur need growing.. it is also the parents who need to grow...

Oh I just loved the message given out yesterday!👏

Edited by sam123_0 - 14 years ago

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Soaps1

@Soaps1

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Posted: 14 years ago

Not Jitu but bhanu's char is so 🤢 that even his right intentions appear wrong 😆 And the way he confronted Mohan was so totally wrong
but yea nice post i agree with the message

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_SilentSoul_

@_SilentSoul_

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Posted: 14 years ago

Jitu and Bhanu .. its better not to talk about them 🤢 Really its pure ridiculous to interfere between a married couple 👎🏼 Strange fathers 🤔

Coming to Mohur, aww they are too innocent .. Aise hi dono "childish" couple nahi bane hai 🤣 Truly Mohur rock 😍

Sam, the title of your post didn't let me realize that the msg wud b abt Jitu and Bhanu 😆

Edited by Bidz_cutegal - 14 years ago

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sam123_0

@sam123_0

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Bidz_cutegal
Jitu and Bhanu .. its better not to talk about them 🤢 Really its pure ridiculous to interfere between a married couple 👎🏼 Strange fathers 🤔

Coming to Mohur, aww they are too innocent .. Aise hi dono "childish" couple nahi bane hai 🤣 Truly Mohur rock 😍

Sam, the title of your post didn't let me realize that the msg wud b abt Jitu and Bhanu 😆

@bold.. this is exactly what I did this post for.. they are just fathers.. not strange fathers 😆 .. do you think if Sonal's father had called Jitu he would have liked it.. or Saroj's brother had called and confronted Bhanu.. would bhanu like it... It is No for both of them.. Both Bhanu and Jitu did not think of the depth of what they were doing... Jitu just thought of Bhanu as his friend not as his son-in-law's father... did not even give it a second thought (inspite of being warned by Sonal) that Bhanu would go confront Mohan...

Bhanu on the other thought of Kastur only as his friend's daughter not as his son's wife... and that he needed to give both of them time and space...

And this is where both Jitu and Bhanu need to grow up!!

My post is not about msg about Jitu and Bhanu 😡 it is msg the CVs gave the society 🤣

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_SilentSoul_

@_SilentSoul_

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sam123_0

@bold.. this is exactly what I did this post for.. they are just fathers.. not strange fathers 😆 .. do you think if Sonal's father had called Jitu he would have liked it.. or Saroj's brother had called and confronted Bhanu.. would bhanu like it... It is No for both of them.. Both Bhanu and Jitu did not think of the depth of what they were doing... Jitu just thought of Bhanu as his friend not as his son-in-law's father... did not even give it a second thought (inspite of being warned by Sonal) that Bhanu would go confront Mohan...

Bhanu on the other thought of Kastur only as his friend's daughter not as his son's wife... and that he needed to give both of them time and space...

And this is where both Jitu and Bhanu need to grow up!!

My post is not about msg about Jitu and Bhanu 😡 it is msg the CVs gave the society 🤣

@bold- that's what I have exactly asked myself and yeah you are absolutely right .. I agree with you totally! True, they need to grow up! As I said in EDT, agar arguments nahi honge toh marriage ka matlab kya hain? Come on yaar, these fathers need to understand 🥱 Jaise unn dono ne interfere kia, I found it total ridiculous 👎🏼

Haha thanks to CVs for giving us such a "cute" message 🤣

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Anu Elizabeth Antony

@Elizabeth Darcy

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Posted: 14 years ago

I think I can cut some slack for Jitu because he didn't know that Bhanu would put it across in such a way...it's still something he could have asked Kastur himself before jumping onto Bhanu; but Bhanu's act of talking to Mohan like that makes ME cringe not just because of how it was said and how it made Mohan feel, but ALSO because if there's any woman who has faced enough disrespect to last several lifetimes, it's his wife Saroj!! 🤢

Bhanu's timing AND the way he said things to Mohan...all out of whack, I'm afraid.

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sam123_0

@sam123_0

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Elizabeth Darcy
I think I can cut some slack for Jitu because he didn't know that Bhanu would put it across in such a way...it's still something he could have asked Kastur himself before jumping onto Bhanu; but Bhanu's act of talking to Mohan like that makes ME cringe not just because of how it was said and how it made Mohan feel, but ALSO because if there's any woman who has faced enough disrespect to last several lifetimes, it's his wife Saroj!! 🤢

I agree... but again i am repeating myself here ... he did not think of Kastur as his son's wife.. just as his friend's daughter.. whom Mohan is supposed to take care of...

Now how he treats Saroj is a totally different book all together 🤣 and I dont want to talk about it😳😆...

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Soaps1

@Soaps1

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sam123_0

I agree... but again i am repeating myself here ... he did not think of Kastur as his son's wife.. just as his friend's daughter.. whom Mohan is supposed to take care of...

Isn't that approach wrong in itself? I mean Mohan is his son and he is supposed to think about him and his feelings too ... his whole approach was wrong in my opinion ... two days after the marriage you go and tell all these things to your son, in the way he did and you expect anyone to loose it, though Mohan was still better, he did not blast her but rather complained

One question i have ... don't you all feel even though Mohan did not marry Kastur for right reasons, he does have certain amount of trust in her and expects certain level of secrecy from her? What I am trying to ask is what is that based on? What makes Mohan feel he can trust Kastur to a certain level, just the fact that she loves him so much and he knows it?

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sam123_0

@sam123_0

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Soaps1

Isn't that approach wrong in itself? I mean Mohan is his son and he is supposed to think about him and his feelings too ... his whole approach was wrong in my opinion ... two days after the marriage you go and tell all these things to your son, in the way he did and you expect anyone to loose it, though Mohan was still better, he did not blast her but rather complained

One question i have ... don't you all feel even though Mohan did not marry Kastur for right reasons, he does have certain amount of trust in her and expects certain level of secrecy from her? What I am trying to ask is what is that based on? What makes Mohan feel he can trust Kastur to a certain level, just the fact that she loves him so much and he knows it?

Yes this is what has been bugging me as well.. When Mohan told Kastur on their wedding day not tell anyone.. how did he know she would not...

Even now... he complained to her.. how does he know she wont go right back to her father and tell him that Mohan complained (bcoz mohan thinks she went to her house and complained about him... so wont she go again now)

Why, how and where is Mohan having this confidence in Kastur!