Thanks to you ALL...I Quit!

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Posted: 17 years ago
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All...I am not sure how many of you know me here but what I am about to post...will surely anger/upset/disappoint 80% (if not more) of the forum members. But I have to do this as this is my very last post in IF.

I joined IF last year only for the sake of DV and of course RM jodi which indeed swept me off my feet during the PRC days. After QSQT with Aamir-Juhi, I have never felt so strongly about any other couple the way I did for Prithvi & Sanyo...partly because I knew that the love story was real and some time in the past, a King did fall in love with a princess and although we may not know the nitty gritty details of their saga but watching the drama serial I wanted to believe that this is exactly what happened between the two...a sweet, innocent, selfless love story that lives within our hearts after hundreds of years. Might I add that this was only possible because Rajat and Mugdha portrayed the chemistry so well that ppl like myself who have probably never even heard of Prithviraj Chauhan are now a subject matter expert on this.

Would I claim myself to be a hard core fan of RM jodi?? I would proudly do so...the things I have done to see them onscreen is unimaginable !!! I can remember those days when I was assigned abroad on project work and how I would drop my packing and catch up with the serial immediately or how I had to get myself connected to internet in a new country (paying extreme hotel prices for the internet) just to watch them...sighs !! Those were the days! I even learnt the whole video editing process, bought a new laptop just for RM. Back in those days I was not a member of any forum! I didn't even have the time to think abt forums, therefore always was completely oblivious of the bloopers and gossips and latest news. I can remember how shocked I was when I was watching an episode of PRC only to find out that Anas has stepped in to the role !! It was like...whatttttt!!! Here I was waiting for Rajat and Mugdha to be together again but alas !!!! All ruined!!!!!! But one thing I can proudly say that I managed to enjoy their chemistry till the very last minute as I was not aware of the role swap... I guess it is true that sometimes ignorance is a bliss !!!

Then I joined IF where everyone, just like myself were counting the days to see RM together. Oh how excited I was to see I wasn't the only one...the imagination, the creativity, the unique thoughts of the members of IF always used to drag me from the hustle-bustle of real life and place me in a divine world! DV forum became my addiction, my hobby, my prime leisure activity.

But the recent events in the forum has taken all this away from me 😔 I can understand the unpredictable ending of DV has hurt many including myself. I was one of the many who tried to communicate with the channel and convey our plea to save the show. Unfortunately, we couldn't make it
😔 With the ending of the show, I guess we have also lost hopes of seeing RM together. But what has personally hurt me most is the constant bickering of DV ending; the cursing, the mud-slinging, the swearing, the non-stop threats to unsubscribe, disrespect towards the channel and the production house, the rumours and then back-rumours, the blame game and hate to say it but the hatred and vindictive attitude towards any entity who may be anyhow involved with DV!!! I could not believe it!! So much hatred, so much of revengeful thoughts and bitter words from a generation who are supposed to be the future of a nation !!! Guys...let me put this into perspective for you...in the past 5 days after DV has been confirmed to be ending, there has been:
20 such posts which only revolves round cursing and spreading hatred and frustration, plans and encouragement to bash channel or production house, criticizing the new show that replaces DV…..overall there were 275 replies and 3745 views to these posts. So congratulations you guys, in a world of war and blood shed, you managed to spread more anger and frustration amongst each other literally by few words. Personally I am so hurt because of the recent events in this forum, I don't even want to watch DV anymore..haven't been watching it since last week!!

So here it goes…I do not want to be part of this anymore. If the moderators have yet not decided to close this post and ban me from the forum already, then this is my resignation from a world that I once adored. I came in to enjoy and share my thoughts of RM onscreen chemistry and their affection towards each other which I will always treasure as golden memories. But I ended up with such bitterness that I'd rather not watch them together again- Thanks to you guys!

Last of all, wish you ALL a very happy and successful life. I sincerely hope that someday we'll all be mature enough to look around us and instead of spreading hatred and disappointment, we will bring peace and happiness for all...something that this world needs most and I believe it should begin from this forum.

Regards and Best Wishes
-Neeli


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lemoncola thumbnail
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Posted: 17 years ago
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wat happen dear
i dont know this tell me😛..ka hua ye sab
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Posted: 17 years ago
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come on.don't be disappointed.........
rajat will come with new show very soon....
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Posted: 17 years ago
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hun, even here u arent alone, i think the same...
those posts were just too much.. i was expecting the crying and anger emoticons for a couple of days, and then we wud enjoy whole heartily the last days of one of our favourites shows, wich has the best tv actors working in it.
I expected fun and laughs as farewell, but im so shocked knowing that there wont be any farewell at any way; all had gone to other page... well, im not blaming anyone, its just natural, actually i knew it wud happen, but still i didnt know about this big lack of activity here; i expected sum pity atleast for the less days that are left...
but... we cant get wat we want always..
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Therez no need for u to quit coz of those hatred posts,Neel !....lyk u we too are RM fans & were very disappointed on hearing news of dv's end....But don't u think that our anger is justified? I mean....how can a channel ignore the pleas of sooo many fans....all d mails,phone calls and d petition...they r actually loosing out on their viewers....They could have made DV a weekend slot but it seems dat they were just not interested....
Abt d reason u're quitting...i dn't understand....there were such hatred posts even when RM had left PRC....its natural for fans to be heart-broken....especially when a prestigious channel lyk NDTV completely ignores its viewers....and plz , don't ever let all dis affect ur memories of D Brilliant RM chemistry in PRC...and hopefully RM may cum together in a new show....forget ndtv for now...!!And plz don't quit !!😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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ya neeli,
i also decided to do so but not so much so & will try 2 come once a week coz i have really caring frnds here.Wat u have decided its entirely ur perspective & wish not 2 bother. But see frnd. wat all have happened we cant simply keep our eyes closed as a die hard fan of this pair.
Its clearly seen dat the chamnnel have not left a single chance to sabotage DV in watsoever ways possible.
wheras other daily soaps are running
frm d inception only no promotion nothing!!
wish u all d success in life & welcome ur practical approach
& regarding joining 4um truly we could prepare ourselves for yhe D day which i couldnt a year ago.
& regarding the posts,,, everybody is not as calculative as d channel, we d fans of DV, rather RM understand our feelings not money or business.
but surely to try to shape up our mentality according to d practical world' calculations
& wat all d reasons have been given frm our side is based on hard core data, replies from the channel & the treatment of the viewers by d channel!!!
we were just trying to shw the real face of media
if hurt den xtremly sory coz cant garb our feelings to b good to d media!!!
hope u understand!!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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after reading your post even i have realised how much of hatred was stored inside me. eve like you i had never joined a forum during prc times and was obliviously of rajat's exit till the very end. but even i enjoyed it because i didnt know what was going to happen ahead. i have become so angry because i cant beleive that they are doing this again to rajat and mugdha. i feel that it is so unfair. but i feel now that i might have gone a bit extreme and i sincerely apologise for that.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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After reading ur post...I'm ashamed of myself...
I can't believe there was so much hatred in me...
u are right....
there has been too much hatred in this forum lately...
But we will have a farewell...with laughs, and a lot of fun.
I promise!
Because after reading ur post...everyone will realise that u r right...
But please, please, please don't quit....because every DVian is precious and important to me...and I'm sure the same goes for everyone else.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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well neel ..!
thanks for bringing up this topic....😕
this is really shocking....
i had always felt this fourum to b my second family
but look at it now d condition of this forum...😭
itz really sad....we started off as a sweet loving family...😛evergrowing n everincreasing
but now when dv is abt to end...and not just end...after darar in DV friendship..
i donno what happened ..
after all seperate fan threads all fans got divided..🤢😭
i tried hard to b present in all. stil...well even i was a it partial 😕 i suppose
but i had always wanted this family to b together.....forever....
but look at d condition..
this forum rocked n it is rocking...😕 but in different manner..
all r showing their ownselves 😕
we join ed here just to share our views with all who share same feeling 😕
but now i don't feel like loging in at all.... 😕
look tonight i just logged in to reply to ur post..
n don't feel like loging in..
i'll just visit here for FF's
coz i love them....😳
any ways...
i love u all.......
n yes plzzz do remember..
"United we stand 😳 divided we fall "
so atleast for few days until forum is locked plzzzzzzzz do...b like a family 😃
i love u all guys here...😛
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Edited by Rash2cool - 17 years ago
CutieA thumbnail
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Posted: 17 years ago
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i havent been online for a week and i find dis...although im not suprised u did dis...i would have done the same! people are so angry its unbelievable....n it disheartens mee to see and red al this...instead of being grateful to the DV team for bring bak RM once again on the screen after PRC...they r hurlin abuse that them...veri disappointing indeed...

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