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HOOLA look who is here??
SURPRISEits me , your wendy, same girl who is venting out her frustrations in DEK frustration thread these days. shama, i know these days i don't get time to comment on your thread but i read it daily without fail and like it.So, now except it shama, show is inconsistent and going in circles, now just accept rather then being DEK bhakt. Manyata's character has been butchered but they can prevent further damage.hoping best from next week otherwise SA is on my dark board
I am upset with you. I remember who you are...GRRR...yes you vent to the whole world but you don't vent to your sister. Makes me want to take out my Steve Madden sandals and be evil 😈. You have many explanations to make dear sis otherwise I start my punishment
While I am upset with you, I shall respond to your post because I am your sister. Sigh. LOL dear, you are asking Ms. Optimist to be COMMIT SUICIDE???? HOW COULD YOU??? To your own SISTER??? Don't tell me DEK has influenced you to define sisterhood like JN does??? GASP!!!! Now I know why I am DEAD to you on this forum!! I shall go cry in a corner...later, because I still have bhashan to give 😆
NOPE still think show is doing what it was set out to do...STOP right there. Don't give me those exasperated looks, yea I happen to be a 🤓, I know what you are thinking!! LOL. M is not being butchered dear, she is as she always was, stubborn to the core, as I have told Prerna and Kat in previous posts (you should really read them, lol, must say I have done some beyond the awesome analyses, and I NEVER praise myself, so can't believe I made interesting insights that I wish were part of my actual analysis, SIGH). ANYWAY will try to sum up, but like I said those posts are better in detail =) Yes as I was saying. M is who she is, but changed, yes she will always be STUBBORN to the core, but there have been changes. For example, we all didn't think too much of M asking UV for help, but I thought about it and was LIKE OMG, SHE ASKED FOR HELP from UV??!!! W*F????? I mean few weeks ago she was saying how she will NEVER ask for his help, yes she made the decision to get engaged to him and what not, but this is the FIRST time M has asked for help FROM UDAY. I mean before it would seem like she would rather drown her riyasat rather than ask for his help, that's how stubborn she was about her personal issues with Uday, She refuse to do the sensible thing for her riyasat because she had personal issues with UV. and then look what she did on Thursday. I mean those two just had an intense fight, and they set aside their personal issues LIKE FAMILY and became a unit, a team! I mean I still remember when Komal said that family comes together in times of difficulty, even if they have personal issues with each other, they set them aside and become united when facing problems. So I think UV-M did that exactly. Those two are more family to each other, as each day passes. And as for M's A jaap, well what did we expect, that was bound to happen. And hopefully it will become all twisted and what not because she will be facing heartbreak on Monday when she finds out about Akash and Tara's engagement. And I thnk this is when Nizza's spoiler about how M will be confused about A and UV will come into play because perhaps this week will be about ManVeer, but I think A revealing that he is Akash is only a ploy, to make UV-M separate, to mess with M's head, and what not. He is after all the resident DEK villain. And I think M will continue to make her mistakes, but she is not being butchered, I think everyone is overreacting, if anything M is making her mistakes because that guy was her love, she cried for him for SO long, I mean how can we expect her to give up on him and become perfect Yuvrani who is sacrificing everything for her family. I mean it was not easy for her to do before, but it was still easier because A was not alive to her, but now that A is alive and back on the day of her engagement nonetheless, I mean she is bound to get a little crazy. I can't blame her. All of a sudden she is doing all this grown up stuff and then the one person she fought for, shows up at the mall and then her doorstep. I would go crazy if I was in her place. And M will continue to make her mistakes, but they only seem like a big deal because everyone seems to overemphasize her mistakes on the forum, but everyone seems to forget that a LOT of things have changed, and she is no longer that girl on that bus with Akash in the first episode. Things have changed since then, A LOT, LOL. I mean I remember how innocent and naive and unaware she was of the real world. Sigh makes me nostalgic about my childhood days...but I digress LOL. back to the point, so M I don't think will be perfect in future weeks, but I don't think she is being butchered either. In fact think SA has stuck to her concept since the beginning, this show continues to be about a girl growing up, facing her inner conflicts, her struggles, her coming to terms with her reality. In fact I think I was talking about that in my post to Prerna, or Shal?? I don't remember OH GOD...anyway, one of the posts, I was replying how A's dream of becming rich came true, but he became rich because of difficult circumstances, because of M actually and this whole revenge factor. So sometimes dreams come true, but at what price??? M's dream came true about becoming Princess, but then again she had to lose her world for another world, she saw a dream, it came true, but now she has to face the consequences of that dream coming true. Meaning she has to overcome her own insecurities, her own fears, open her mind because she has a mind set that was narrow and is becoming more open because of her interaction with UV. Speaking of UV, that reminds me of how easy it was her for her to fall in love with A, because he was basically perfect in nature (which I have doubts about what with A being evil now, but that's another theory for another day, lOL), so falling for A was easy because he was "perfect", but now that has changed, and UV well she has had to deal with UV and she knows his bad and his good. SHe has accepted it and perhaps will continue to learn and fall more for Uday in upcoming weeks, but even I don't expect perfection there, because they are a realistic relationship in that it has its flaws, but it has its overall goodness too. And with these two, I have always told you that their love is very much unspoken, they are not like Monash, they don't claim their love for each other in 90s bollywood style LOL. They are complicated, they have their pride, they have their flaws, they have their good moments, they have their bad moments, but overall together they make a perfect team, without having to say anything to each other, they set aside their personal issues/egos and resolved an issue together. I hope you read my explanation on M's character that I had mentioned in this post or previous post that I had provided a link, I think that was pretty thorough too, LOL. I feel like I have missed a lot of points, but yes those posts covered it. LOL. Anyway these days, I am in DEK Nirvana LOL. I was mentioning this to Kat just now, LOL. But yes I am now above such things as TRPs, IF ranking, and DEK ending stuff, I don't care anymore, I just want to watch the show, because the show is not ending tomorrow, so I shall just enjoy this show as I always have and always will, shows come and go, that is life, and right now I will only appreciate this show, because my week long hiatus from this forum has given me peace, ironic, na?? LOL. I was dying of withdrawal, but at the same time, I was at peace too...because I could enjoy the show like I use to before my actie status on forum, I forgot how that felt like...it was very nice, although I am VERY happy to be back, I think I will stick to that detached sense of peace I got last week and enjoy the show for what it is and always will be. At least SA didn't step away from concept of show, and made into a saas bahu serial or a typical youth show, she really could have done that, and then she would have butchered the characters, UGH...I mean butchering is what I call what Ekta did when her K serials were going on, I mean that was slaughtering, butchering, and other forms of corporal punishment to the characters. I mean none of those shows resembled the original concept of the show by the end, i mean they tried to, but I was like nope, I am not buying it, this is a bunch of crap. LOL.
Hmmm so think twice Wendy sis, before you go and provoke your sister into round three of DEK bhashan. Because I shall write back with vengeance! LOL... 😉
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