UV says ILY: May 2nd Analysis - Page 4

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Originally posted by: yaherd15

Yea, but I feel like that would ruin the show if they did post-marriage stuff, na? Because M's character is too young to be married right now. I think we would need a good year or two before that happened or to be ready for that. Plus I feel like I would want the end to be their marriage so they really do have happily ever after and don't mess with their character after marriage. As so many shows do with characters, they ruin everything sometimes when main leads get married. It's interesting initially and then storyline gets dull fast and it's never as good as it was in beginning. 😭

I saw the tweets, thanks for posting. 😃You know what, I really can't blame her for being frustrated, she is a producer with other jobs too, not only that but she has a personal life as well. I KNOW I KNOW, I am not suppose to take her side, but my life experience has taught me otherwise so I can't HELP it. I have to look at the other side too!! 😕Her job doesn't define her and if she takes out her frustration on tweets, thats her issue not ours. I honestly don't know how she handles that, because her job must be SUPER stressful, believe me, I have done two years worth of leadership position for extra curricular organization and it's a thankless job to be leader. you are stressed all the time, people are demanding from you at every angle, you feel twisted and pulled at and you feel like you are doing the best you can and its not enough.😭 I am not saying that her venting like that is correct, but I am also saying that I can't very much blame her either for it because thats actually her job and DEK is not her only job, she is also producing movies as well, as well as being a mom/wife. 😲That is a hell of a lot of stress, to be honest I don't know how she hasn't gone insane yet🤢. I mean the lady is known to do different storylines, like I didn't know she was the one who produced Lipstick on Zee TV (which I didn't watch), but I knew of it, too young to remember actually, but that show was very different for its time especially for the shows going on at that time which were mostly family saas bahu dramas. So can't really blame her entirely but I can't side with her either. I am actually on the fence with SA😕. I just choose to ignore because I really do think as fans we all have learned our lesson that DEK is going to be an unpredictable show and we should just sit back and relax and watch the show and be entertained instead of stressing ourselves over a tv show. I HONESTLY think that if I had never done that leadership position, I wouldn't have this understanding, I would completely side with you there, but since I have had that experience it has given me wisdom, patience, understanding of what it means to be a leader (which is another reason why I love Dekha Ek Khwab, LOL, I can completely relate to DS at times😆). I think we should cut the lady some slack and leave her alone, she obviously needs to chill out and we as fans need to chill out from stressing over a TV show. I am sure everything will work out the way we want, SA is not an idiot, and I think you should read this OLD article that interviews her, I think it gives interesting insight on her as a producer. It's from 9 years ago actually, but it is still interesting. Let me know what you think, I am very curious!!! 😃

http://www.indiantelevision.com/interviews/y2k3/producer/shristi_arya.htm

Just read the interview. Thanks for sharing 😊
I liked it, but then again, I never rely on such interviews because mostly celebrities are always supposed to act nice and all and be diplomatic when coming to such things so we can never know if they are being fully honest. Wow Jeet was her show 😲 . I didn't know that.

I have done two years worth of leadership position for extra curricular organization. Shama dear, been there, done that. I too have worked along the same lines for a couple of years and trut me, I know how hard it can get. I used to have students hovering up my head 24x7. From juniors to seniors. With infinite demands. And I know exactly how it feels when you have to go through all that pressure and stress and criticism. But you know what my mother always taught me?? She says "Remember one thing, you can not satisfy everyone in this world. People will always want more from you. So never feel stressed out or frustrated when going through this phase of your life. It'll only help you in the future. Because that's how you will learn to deal with your problems in a proper and dignified way. And if you feel that things are getting too out of control, just smile and ignore the rants and do the best that you can do"

Every time I lose hope over something, I always remember what my mother said. And I remember every word of it. And then I just go and give her a big hug for teaching me that 😳 . Now why I told you this was that that's exactly what SA needs to learn. I have no personal problems with her, but it's just that I feel her job requires a lot of patience and positivity. The field that she is in, she has to face such things every single day of her life. From criticism to appreciation, she needs to learn to take things positively. It'll help her. And it's quite true that you cannot satisfy everyone, not even her. So instead of naming people's requests as "complains" and "whining" she should just smile and ignore them rather than bursting out on her fans. Because then that will only damage her reputation, It wouldn't effect anyone else.

I have people related to politics and the entertainment fraternity in my family and they all just tell me one thing. "Learn to take criticism positively. Because that will help you improve yourself and move on in life" . They told me that have to face so much things in their everyday lives that they can't even begin to tell. They receive hate mails if the audience doesn't get their demands fulfilled but they never get angry on them. Instead they try to work better and improve themselves. And I don't think SA is being treated that way by the fans of DEK. Not yet atleast. So all I would say is that SA needs to handle such things with patience and positivity because her job requires it. Everything comes with a price. So does fame. If she doesn't like people requesting her for things, she should just simply say it instead of blasting on them. Or better, she should just ignore it.

Having myself gone through some of these incidents, I can totally relate to her. But not completely. Because it's the way one handles a situation that matters and reflects what kind of a person you are. Problems come in everyone's life. It's just the way you handle them. And I agree with her on one thing, production really is a thankless job 😕 . But people do thank her and appreciate her for her work all the time on twitter. So she should appreciate the attachment of the people to her show too instead of blasting on them. I know it get's hard and there is only so much one can handle, but what can I say, I mean it's a part of her job. It'll happen on a daily basis. And she has been in this fraternity for so long, I'm amazed that she still hasn't learned the tactics of handling such things yet. If it pisses her off, I would seriously request her to just ignore them and not take it to heart. I mean the audience is not her enemy after all 😊

I'm loving the way the show is going and I have never felt the need to go on Twitter and tweet her about anything at all related to the show. We're all attached to it, BADLY. Addicted would be the best word actually. Man I have never in my entire life gotten addicted to a show so badly the way I have with DEK. It's toxic. So I would request everyone to just sit back, relax and enjoy the way things are headed. She knows what she's doing. And we all are finally getting what we want. ManVeer. I know some people still have their doubts. I do too sometimes, But now I am sure, more than ever, that ManVeer is the end game. And I'm sure if they made us wait that long for them, they would have something good in store for us. We'll just have to wait and be patient because there are obviously going to be a few bumps along the road. So all I would say is fasten your seat belts, and enjoy this ride" 😊

Originally posted by: Shals9

Thanks Shama. Originally I was a silent reader too. but lately have been too much involved in this. As soon as the show ends, I m on this forum to read comments/analysis and share my views.

UV is too good. Going bonkers over Ashish. He is such a amazing actor.. what a range of emotions in such short time.

Agreed with you. Although we Manveer fans dont want Akash jaap or his return, but that is something which is inevitable. That hurdle has to be passed before Manveer can progress. It was more like a sword hanging over our heads (and UV's head too) since last 2 months and now finally time has come for our prince charming (and us) to face the music.

Let's see what happens tomorrow. I m actually dreading tomorrow's epi. Dont want M to fight or say harsh words to UV.. that too after his confession in today's episode. That will be heartbreaking for me.

Thanks again for the analysis. 😊

Originally posted by: fia21

Just read the interview. Thanks for sharing 😊
I liked it, but then again, I never rely on such interviews because mostly celebrities are always supposed to act nice and all and be diplomatic when coming to such things so we can never know if they are being fully honest. Wow Jeet was her show 😲 . I didn't know that.

I have done two years worth of leadership position for extra curricular organization. Shama dear, been there, done that. I too have worked along the same lines for a couple of years and trut me, I know how hard it can get. I used to have students hovering up my head 24x7. From juniors to seniors. With infinite demands. And I know exactly how it feels when you have to go through all that pressure and stress and criticism. But you know what my mother always taught me?? She says "Remember one thing, you can not satisfy everyone in this world. People will always want more from you. So never feel stressed out or frustrated when going through this phase of your life. It'll only help you in the future. Because that's how you will learn to deal with your problems in a proper and dignified way. And if you feel that things are getting too out of control, just smile and ignore the rants and do the best that you can do"

Every time I lose hope over something, I always remember what my mother said. And I remember every word of it. And then I just go and give her a big hug for teaching me that 😳 . Now why I told you this was that that's exactly what SA needs to learn. I have no personal problems with her, but it's just that I feel her job requires a lot of patience and positivity. The field that she is in, she has to face such things every single day of her life. From criticism to appreciation, she needs to learn to take things positively. It'll help her. And it's quite true that you cannot satisfy everyone, not even her. So instead of naming people's requests as "complains" and "whining" she should just smile and ignore them rather than bursting out on her fans. Because then that will only damage her reputation, It wouldn't effect anyone else.

I have people related to politics and the entertainment fraternity in my family and they all just tell me one thing. "Learn to take criticism positively. Because that will help you improve yourself and move on in life" . They told me that have to face so much things in their everyday lives that they can't even begin to tell. They receive hate mails if the audience doesn't get their demands fulfilled but they never get angry on them. Instead they try to work better and improve themselves. And I don't think SA is being treated that way by the fans of DEK. Not yet atleast. So all I would say is that SA needs to handle such things with patience and positivity because her job requires it. Everything comes with a price. So does fame. If she doesn't like people requesting her for things, she should just simply say it instead of blasting on them. Or better, she should just ignore it.

Having myself gone through some of these incidents, I can totally relate to her. But not completely. Because it's the way one handles a situation that matters and reflects what kind of a person you are. Problems come in everyone's life. It's just the way you handle them. And I agree with her on one thing, production really is a thankless job 😕 . But people do thank her and appreciate her for her work all the time on twitter. So she should appreciate the attachment of the people to her show too instead of blasting on them. I know it get's hard and there is only so much one can handle, but what can I say, I mean it's a part of her job. It'll happen on a daily basis. And she has been in this fraternity for so long, I'm amazed that she still hasn't learned the tactics of handling such things yet. If it pisses her off, I would seriously request her to just ignore them and not take it to heart. I mean the audience is not her enemy after all 😊

I'm loving the way the show is going and I have never felt the need to go on Twitter and tweet her about anything at all related to the show. We're all attached to it, BADLY. Addicted would be the best word actually. Man I have never in my entire life gotten addicted to a show so badly the way I have with DEK. It's toxic. So I would request everyone to just sit back, relax and enjoy the way things are headed. She knows what she's doing. And we all are finally getting what we want. ManVeer. I know some people still have their doubts. I do too sometimes, But now I am sure, more than ever, that ManVeer is the end game. And I'm sure if they made us wait that long for them, they would have something good in store for us. We'll just have to wait and be patient because there are obviously going to be a few bumps along the road. So all I would say is fasten your seat belts, and enjoy this ride" 😊

Originally posted by: yaherd15

Agreed with you Fia on SA, because like I said I am on the fence with SA. I don't agree with her actions, but I can not blame her either. I think we have small level leadership experience in comparison to her...so her stress is not something she can escape since its her job, but on the other hand I don't believe in treating people in such a manner either. BUT I do understand she must be getting frustrated that fans don't understand what they are trying to do in DEK, which is tell a story in a unique manner without messing up creatively the story/characters by doing typical route drama stuff. Fans are probably hitting her where it hurts, plus i don't think she is very diplomatic, she tends to tell it like it is (even though I think it's funny that she advised Priyal needs to be more diplomatic). I truly understand where you are coming from, AND even though I don't agree with SA's methods of venting frustration, I do understand it. THerefore I can't blame her for being completely human and flawed. Plus I don't think she understands twitter and world of twitter very well if she is reacting in such a manner, she is probably treating it as informally as possible. That doesn't make her right, but I have worked with people of similar nature and usually they are stressed beyond belief when they make such comments so I don't agree with her, but I don't necessarily disagree either. She just probably had a bad day if she is reacting in such a manner. She just needs a chill pill.

Like I said, I feel that she needs to chill out and we as fans need to chill out too because we don't let the track unfold, we must be patient and remember DS's words when she quoted the Geeta saying if the ending is good, than everything that happens before that is good.😃 CVs are really good at throwing hints through quotes they have their characters reference and I think that with this show, that is what is going to happen. Like SA confirmed with ManVeer...there is going to be a lot of conflicts, because come on, we all know what's raising TRPs and she does too, so if we got our love story to be completed, the show wouldn't be as dramatic or suspenseful to watch. I must agree with SA on the fact that dramas become less interesting when love story is done and finished, I ALWAYS lose interest in the show after love story has been done because by then the show has lost its original concept/that original unique factor it once had because of TRPs race to make it typical all over again. So I just hope Fia, that fans have patience when it comes DEK because debates like Manveer vs Monash is trivial, I think what we should be more curious is about what sort of things will happen that will keep Manveer in conflict and develop their love amongst the conflicts. NOW that's more exciting to focus on than Monash vs Manveer, who is the endgame couple debate, UGH.

Indeed completely agree Fia, all we can do is just let this storyline let itself play out because even if UV and M were to be separated, they will always come back to each other because hello, they are the endgame! Their love story is the unique, hatke kahani!! 😃 (NOT Monash UGH)...

Yes exactly. Everybody needs to CHILL 😆
I don't even get into the Monash vs Manveer debates. They're pointless and one never reaches a conclusion. But we all know now that ManVeer is the end game so we should all just relax and watch the two find their way back to each other 😊 . Yea that's true. Even I lose interest in a show the moment a love story starts getting dragged. I mean how much romance can you show in one show? It gets boring after a while.
You chose the perfect words. It indeed is a hatke kahani. So hatke, that it made me make an account on IF, which I never thought I will 😉
I am eagerly waiting for tonight's episode. Especially after the new scroll promo. Oh DEK what have you done to me!!! *Sigh*

Originally posted by: fia21

Yes exactly. Everybody needs to CHILL 😆
I don't even get into the Monash vs Manveer debates. They're pointless and one never reaches a conclusion. But we all know now that ManVeer is the end game so we should all just relax and watch the two find their way back to each other 😊 . Yea that's true. Even I lose interest in a show the moment a love story starts getting dragged. I mean how much romance can you show in one show? It gets boring after a while.
You chose the perfect words. It indeed is a hatke kahani. So hatke, that it made me make an account on IF, which I never thought I will 😉
I am eagerly waiting for tonight's episode. Especially after the new scroll promo. Oh DEK what have you done to me!!! *Sigh*

Hahahaha. Exactly Shama. Kia haal bana dia hai DEK ne hamara. LOL.

Here's the link http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=2960191