i agree! J has had her share of evilness and rudeness towards manyata, but that is only because she has ALWAAYSS felt second to her. As a human, we all want to be loved and J is loved, but to her Manyata is loved more and this was literally showed to her throughout her life and what makes it more iritating to her is the fact that EVEN THOUGH M WAS KIDNAPPED AND WASN'T THERE/ SHE WAS ALWAYS THERE IN HER LIFE. to her, her mother only loves M, which i think isn't true, komal does love her but it overshadow because of all her worries for M. in last episode when Komal gave j her blessing, you could see the genuine happiness and a smile on her face, not the one she ha when she has conquered something or has won over M, but the one when she felt she finally has her mother back, a mother who DOES CARE for her. Moreover no matter how much J hate Manyata, she loves her family to the core. throughout the show, never have i seen an episode where she has backstabbed or betrayed anyone in her family. she does realises the importance of a family. but when she discovers DS's hidden plans, she'll be a wounded tiger, broken hearted. It'll be interesting to see who will actually stick by her through this, VB surely wont! secondly J has never exactly said that she wants the throne or uday. It was something she desired very badly but she knew and understood the fact that it could never be hers. it's not her fault her family bring out that desire and actually made her feel that she could have them both. first with uday, gave it to her and took it away and it'll be the same story with the throne. sometimes because of these things, her actions are so bad that people see the hatred in her eyes but not the pain simply because her hatred takes over the pain. with the entire throne story and the games ds has played with her, it is only going to get worse!
Yes, J is a conniving, manipulative bitch, selfish, self centred BUT she is LOYAL! to her family to her friends. you can see the genuine love and respect for her father and ds in the earlier episodes and also VB.
anyways hope CV's do not turn her into an total negative character because she has so much potential. if she just let go of her past and try to move on, it'll be dead hard yes! but it'll benefit her. :) BTW thanks for making this post, i have been reading so much stuff but i could really relate to yours!