The Answer to your question Akash.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hi DEK Diehards!🤗

I have yet to watch the episode (the sad fact of my life that I'm always the last to watch it from all of us😭) BUT that never stops me from throwing in a couple of dimes 😆

I've read a lot of reactions towards todays epi: positive, negative, or simply confused. This is what I'm taking away from this all:

Akash asked a very respectable, and strong question/statement/challange... or whatever you want to call it: "Tum mujhe monia kii zindagii se to nikaal sakte ho par uske zehen se nahin..."

The answer is simple Akash:

Monia, will always love you. She'll have you forever in her heart. You'll stay there, till her last breath. You're her first love, and one always remembers their first love, however juvinele and young it may have been/is.

BUT you forget: She won't be "Monia" forever.

This girl was BORN Manyata. And RAISED Monia but she will DIE as MANYATA.

She will change, she will grow, she will learn, she will fall, and she will do this with the family that she never got a chance to know: she is MORE than the girl you simply "love" and the fact that you fail to see this, shows that you are NOT WILLING to grow with her.

Yes Akash, no one, no one can take you out of Monia's zehen:

But what will there be to take out once she is Manyata?

That is the difference: You see one girl and one girl only- you don't see that she is destined to change into another girl.

Rajkumari Manyata:

...and she was never yours to begin with.

"The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end"

- Disraeli

Please to tell me what you think!😉

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sourmisery

@sourmisery

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Posted: 13 years ago

Summed it up nicely Reeha!

DS was right, Aakash simply pulls back Monia and refuses to let her explore the world as Manyata. Aakash was the biggest hindrance in the transformation, now he's gone. Slowly and gradually, Manyata has to accept her fate. She has no other option.

Regarding her throwing him out of her mind? Well, thoughts and minds change. In a blink of eye, in a swirl of a moment. Manyata only needs that moment. When it arrives, she'll put him off her mind. Permanently.

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Nivina Dek

@nivi.divi

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Posted: 13 years ago

Akash doesn't want to lose his love.

Akash doesn't want Moniya to distance herself from her new/real family/identity. I don't think he cares whether she changes her name or wears different clothes.

Akash just wants his 'Moniya'.

Its not his fault he fell in love with Moniya. She is who she was when they met. He doesn't want to change her.

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180506

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: nivi.divi
Akash doesn't want to lose his love.

Akash doesn't want Moniya to distance herself from her new/real family/identity. I don't think he cares whether she changes her name or wears different clothes.

Akash just wants his 'Moniya'.

Its not his fault he fell in love with Moniya. She is who she was when they met. He doesn't want to change her.

The change isn't just physical Nivi: It isn't just about her cloths- its about her power: what she can do to better the world with the leniage that is hers- how she can be a better person, better because she understands the people- she is part of the people- she is born a princess and raised a commoner: She has more preseance than both Her family and Akash understand. Love isn't about "not wanting to change someone" but rather, understanding that they will change, and that they should change, and you can change with them- infact that's just how life works, how progress works- and we ALL go through it.

"Change is the only constant. Hanging on is the only sin"

-McCluggage

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Ziva01

@Ziva01

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Posted: 13 years ago

Reeha🤗🤗 love u meri jaan what a lovely post 👏👏

Awesome answer to majnu question love it

I 'll add first love does not matter in life which matters is true love.

Right Akash is Moniya's first love but UV will be Manyata's true love and soulmate. Akash has fallen for Moniya and that why he wanted her to remain her oldself but once Moniya will be transformed into Princess Manyata neither Akash nor Manyata will be able to connect themselves with each other as Manyata's destiny will be UV😉.

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tannvi

@Badtameez_Dil

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Posted: 13 years ago

reeha u said it & summed up everything in one word

yes that is the answer to every question she is PRINCESS MANYATA

maybe name doesn't hold importance but fact is monia is a simple next door girl but princess manyata is royal is not some normal rich girl...
monia can be combined into manyata but manyata can't be get into monia.
manyata is bigger part & monia is just a small phase...when time will come as M is trying to accept the family she will accept her future also.

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sourmisery

@sourmisery

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: nivi.divi
Akash doesn't want to lose his love.

Akash doesn't want Moniya to distance herself from her new/real family/identity. I don't think he cares whether she changes her name or wears different clothes.

Akash just wants his 'Moniya'.

Its not his fault he fell in love with Moniya. She is who she was when they met. He doesn't want to change her.

But she has to change. He wants her to remain that childish, loud mouthed, carefree brat that he met without ever thinking that she can't remain like that. He doesn't want her to grow up. It's equivalent to saying he doesn't want her to accept her identity. He wants her universe to revolve around him. Since when did love become so selfish?

Even today, while leaving he said that she shouldn't worry and let these people hurt her? Is her family that evil? He was instigating her against her own family! If this is love then I'm glad Uday isn't actually in love with her.

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Purva

@-Purva-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Every growth rite is associated with pain. When a girl becomes a teenager, when she matures, when she steps out in the world, when she gets married, when she has her first baby - at every stage there's immense pain at leaving behind the familiar and the safety net. Sometimes emotional and sometimes physical, but pain nevertheless.

When Monya discovered that she was the long lost princess, she suffered the pain of losing her father and the only person she had known all her life. Now when she's on the threshold of accepting her family and finding her new self, she has to let go of the relationship she formed in her immaturity and innocence.

Aakash as you rightly said was keeping M from being Manyata. It was his selfish interest that was trapping her in Monya. But there was something to Aakash that made even Murari question him. Murari was the first person to point a finger at Aakash - why is a stranger buying expensive gifts for a young girl? What does he mean by taking her around the town? What are his intentions to come to her house? Isn't the royal family asking the same questions today?

When Monya grows up and leaves her childishness behind, she'll also ask the same questions. True love is that which helps you evolve constantly. It takes you on a higher plane than at which you are at the present. A person in love is considerate of others' feelings - because he/she lives at an emotional level and not the practical level. Neither Monya or Aakash ever showed that. There was no softness, no warmth, nothing there. So I don't think Aakash is Monya's first love. He can at best be her first crush. Monya/Manyata is yet to fall in love.

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Nityah

@-StarlitFire-

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

An awesome post...
just a perfect answer for Akash's question...
totally with you...that what will be there to take out ..once she turn back to Manyata...
because there is cent percent chance that Moniya can change into Manyata but there is no back to Moniya once she became Manyata..
and thats the reason also i think Akash doesn't want to encourage her to accept her being the princess..because once she will turn into that..she will definitely give the thought about the relationship which they hold...and one that she holds with her faimly...
nd i really love the sayings in your posts.. they are just perfect and accurate for the situations...

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Nivina Dek

@nivi.divi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#10

I'm talking more about heart as opposed to all other external factors (name, clothes, mannerisms, language can be changed). Akash loves Moniya for her heart - and who she is.

Beneath the loudness, there is a Moniya who cried her heart out when she found out that Murari was not her father, or when she got kicked out of her job for the shoes incident etc. He's seen her deep side too. But is giving her freedom to be whoever she wants to be.

Edited by nivi.divi - 13 years ago

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