manaya being insensitive towards family?

She's very immature, so the insensitivity goes hand in hand.

Originally posted by: reeha...k

Manyata is every bit as competitive, manipulative and selfish as J: but at least is Upfront about it- Manyata has this whole "sweet innocent, don't know anything" facade up top. 😡

Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada

yaar, ok first she used the family, their love, for meeting akash 😕

but i am watching the episode now, and i feel that manyata is being way too insensitive towards her blood family yaar...😕 i mean, i liked that "maa' just came out of her mouth yesterday.. per today when DS emotionally said that she is waiting for the day M calls her dadisa, and then komal kinda places a consolation hand on her, i felt like manyata could be a bit more sensitive and understanding - no? like, kya jayega if in this scene, just for DS's happiness, she had called her daadisa. 😕 i mean, DS has been VERY NICE to manyata these past few days, she has showered so much love on her... manyata can see clearly that they had no other motive in bringing her here than just wanting her back in their family.. so, if she can't be a loving family "member", she can atleast just be a caring person na... i understood when manyata told the family she needs time to understand and accept these "new" relations... but today i felt much time has elapsed, and she is in a very different position now than she was when she just arrived. before she was very angry towards everyone for bringing her. but now she understands and is actually seeming to like it here, and everoyone around her. so then, today when DS was being emotional, why couldn't manyata just be a bit sensitive and just give DS what she asked for?? 😕 it would've just made DS happy. anywayz manyata keeps lying to them and playing around with their emotions, so what would another small lie (as she doesn't seem to "see" DS as daadi yet..) have mattered ? 😕😛

it's like, all of madam manyata's affections, care, and understanding are for that one guy she left in chawl, whom she'd just met like a few months ago. beyond him, she does not seem to think twice about anyone else. all her planning and deep thinking are for pakash. why?? i think enough time has passed as for her to start giving SERIOUS thinking and consideration to this family she is living in now. 😕 guest banne ka time frame khatam ho chuka hai ab, and at this point even a guest starts to feel like a family member. 😕

Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada

hmm...

yeah i guess ur right.. the main reason for all of this is that she is very immature, and childish. doesn't look, or infact refuses to look, at the big picture.

but the conflict here though is that on one hand we want to see her actions as the result of her hurt, that she got from being separated from her baba.. and that she sees the family as enemies becuz they separated her from murali... but then - we hardly EVER see her reminiscing her life with murali :S i thought she'd have all these flashbacks about murali for a long time, be involved in thoughtful scenes where she wonders why murali did what he did, was he right or wrong in doing what he did... basically pondering over all of what happened... but instead, all we got was her crying over and constantly thinking about AKASH????

this particular thing about manyata's character just did not sit well with me. i fail to understand how the cv's only made her think and cry and ponder about akash ever since she came here, and hardly once or twice mention murali.. when she had been captured the first time and brought to the mahal by uday, and when she had found out murali's truth from his own mouth, i had expected DAYS and DAYS of manyata being emotionless and just thinking about murali... life with murali... thinking about what murali did... pondering over whether it was right or wrong.. thinking about these new people, that they are her family...

but what we got was her transform into a full juliet mode. if anyone sees this drama now, without watching the first few episodes, would they ever be able to tell that this girl has been snatched away from the man she adored as her father her whole life..?? :S if someone was to watch this show now, all they'd be able to tell is that this girl is originally from some chawl, where she apparantly left her majnu, and cries 24/7 about her. nobody looking at her post-murali's confession would know that she actually had a baba who had turned out to be a fake kidnapper. :|