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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't feel bad for J. I can't understand what all her whine and fuss is about? Manyata IS her older sister and there is no reason J should had ever had eyes for UV. He should have always been her brother in law rather than harbor feelings for him. This entire jealousy thing is a little immature. She has everything in her life, if she just lets her insecurity go she will truly enjoy it rather than destroy it. And the way she treats her own mother, that's just sad!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think J's anger is justified. She got the short end of the deal. Her own family is treating her like an adopted kid. Everyone pampers M and tells her to b the sane one. No one really consoled her for a broken relastionship. in that case i really feel for her

Sometimes she just annoys me when she turns into a snob. its her materalistic views sometimes that tick me off...i dont really hate J as whenever she does something it backfires for her and brings UV n M together. she is thier cupid and doesnt even know it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well I have never hated J coz I understand the pain of being the second child/middle child. And for her its 50 times worse. All the things which she should have gotten like manayata were taken from her. Her mother, grandmum and last of all her love Udayveer by someone she just met.

I guess if I was in her position I would probably not do the same but do something foolish like she is to get the same rights my sister was getting especially because she doesnt know the so called sister of hers.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Don't worry, even I am with u😆. I don't know why I felt so bad for J today.Today she seemed like a child who was ignored by her family.Her pain was really visible.No wonder J plots against Manyata.Infact I so hated Manyata today and liked J😳.Well..that was all ruined the next minute,she turned snobbish by taking her frustration on Komal😡.But still, I don't think J is completely negative.She just seems like a child who demands attention from her family.
Posted: 13 years ago
#15
I don't feel bad for J. I can't understand what all her whine and fuss is about?
the way i see it, Jay has always be given a step child treatment, even though M wasn't around they always made her feel that she is the second best. Her mother was in grave shock when Manyata was kidnapped and because of this she wasn't able to given proper attention & love to Jay. She is a girl who craves for attention and love...she wanted to be the apple of every1 one's eye in her family but that place was taken over by M! So unkownly she has developed hatred & jealousy towards Manyata and is the root cause for her insecurities!!
As a member wisely pointed out even though M was always present in thoughts & minds of her family she didn't actually get to experience any of it!
Manyata IS her older sister and there is no reason J should had ever had eyes for UV. Yeap but she was very little when her sister was kidnapped hence she doesn't have any memories or doesn't feel the sibling bond!
He should have always been her brother in law rather than harbor feelings for him. she grew up with him, in the absence of her sister and lack of any sisterly bond for M why would she consider Uday her brother in law when she doesn't even know or seen her sister except in pictures!!
This entire jealousy thing is a little immature. She has everything in her life, if she just lets her insecurity go she will truly enjoy it rather than destroy it. And the way she treats her own mother, that's just sad![
however, i agree with part in bold! Jai fails to see the larger picture, she completely ignores her role, her atitude and misbehaviour in all of this!! Her rude behaviour towards her mom was uncalled for, to be loved one has to give love first!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#16

This time im with J😕...she is telling the truth...M deserves some thing big from J or UV..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pooja05

I am with you in a same boat...one minute when she was trying to tell Uday that manyata went to meet Akash and uday not believing J...I felt so bad for her because she is always conspiring against Manyata, but now when she is speaking the truth then Uday is not believing her...But i think J should have known better that manyata is not a fool and uday does not love J...he cares for Manyata...so how will he trust J...J is jealous and to any extend she will create problems for manyata...she is the one who pushed manyata to meet akash, got her new phone...so basically her plan backfired...

But seeing J in pain, you can tell that first all family members gave up on manyata and told her to marry Uday...she also liked him...she thought that she would be queen to his kingdom and again manyata came back and snatched away the guy she likes...I am not sure if J truly loves uday like the way manyata loves uday...J is selfish and her gettin uday is to show her cousin and manyata that she got the prince...



J's biggest problem is that she is overconfident and underestimates Manyata which is why all her plans have either failed or backfired! 😆

I for one can't get myself to completely hate J because her anger and resentment are justified to an extent... she has always been the second child despite Manyata not being present... the family especially Komal neglected her and lets not forget the whole roka with UV fiasco - that was just so cruel even if it was unintentional... how could the family not think about J's feelings, the hurt and pain she must have felt at being rejected and neglected in such a way...😭

but despite this all her rude behavior towards Komal was too harsh - such disrespect to your mother is not accepted!😡


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Posted: 13 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: utopia88

I felt bad for Jai when she was crying but revenge is not the right answer to her emotional issues. 😊


She needs to have an open and honest conversation with her mother and anyone else whom she feels has wronged her.

I hope UV finds out about Manyata's lies soon and apologizes to Jai for berating her.



I don't think a conversation can solve anything... the family has to make up for 16 years of neglect J suffered!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: padma_17

i am absolutely with u angelkiss...

J was really good in the epi she was desperately trying to make UV believe her and she was broken when he didnt and blasting moniya. i am going to support J in this part coz every1 shuld know abt moniya's doings and i really feel sorry for all as they r happy and expecting to get back their manyata and she is still moniya.
If they realize this then there will be hell to pay by moniya not only to family but even to UV separately.
J really well enacted the scenes in today epi as heart broken women who longs for love even only for her being selfish on her part and the revenge mode to bring down manyata...
J is really a imp factor in all of this...



Thank you for agreeing with me!😳

I am really looking forward to family and UV learning about Manyata's lies...
The actress enacting J's character is doing a fab acting... the desperation, longing, hurt and resenting all the emotions were conveyed perfectly! 👏



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Posted: 13 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: aavshi

I have always loved J's character cause it hasn't always been extreme... it has always been mild...even with manyatha and her fights...it was never that extreme that i would hate her for...


Right now i just don't like manyatha because she's bloody playing with her family who love her... and it is a big thing...for 16 years they loved her without seeing what she has become... a selfish, stupid, childish LoVer... who doesn't understand whats right for her!!



I could never truly hate J's character because like you stated J has never really done anything extreme... all the fights and revenge games between the siblings can be labeled as harmless pranks rather then brutal.

as for Manyata - I am currently feeling a strong dislike towards her 😡


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