For all her talk of freedom...

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we have all seen monaya's shouting, screaming and glass breaking protests that she is a free person, a person that cannot be caged, a person that can think for herself, and knows what is best for herself. despite this, i think its become clear that she is actually not free, not independent at all. her thoughts and actions are constantly being dictated by those around her from day one. she is gullible and repeatedly manipulated by clever wordplay. just to give you 1 or 2 examples:
1. it took a few words from chiki, and soni and she started to believe she was in love with akash
2. yesterday (12th jan) it took a phonecall from akash, and she was all set to repay udhay in kind,,,prove that she is MONYA
3. today...she's fallen into vijays and jay's trap.
the real problem arises is when monya becomes so swayed that she reacts in full force without thinking of consequences, without thinking of who shes running over in the process. she was all set to battle with murrari for a guy she has just met,. next week she will be bringing down the house by sending the servants on strike.
for monya to become manyata she needs to learn to think truly independently. that means to think things through...look at the bigger picture and weigh up the appropriate response. it may also mean to really listen to her heart,,, rather then what others tell her should be in her heart. these steps are even more important then changing her surface appearance, getting her manicures and pedicures. these are the things that will play a significant role in making her a princess and an ideal future queen. right now she has positive traits,,,she genuinely cares about the people around her like the maali and the other naukar. on the other hand she has not yet even learned to truly repect her family. still a looong way to go for the princess.

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.lostinthought. thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey i totally agree with u, she needs to think, how can she love a guy (akash) for like only two days like seriously, grow up!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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She is way too easy to manipulate..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi. Am truly impressed with your post. You are so right, Monya gets swayed way too easily. Also, i think she has extreme emotions. As in she either Loves ( or believes that she does) with full force or hates (well again she thinks that she does) with equal passion. And etremism of any kind is bad.
Even in love when you tend to become too blind you only end up getting duped, realizing your folly rather late or forming wrong opinions, when in the first place you yourself were the one who went wrong!
Agree with you she has to first learn to take control of her own emotions. Keep a balanced heart and mind and act accordingly, not just jump into doing whatever others manipulate her into.
From where she stands now, becoming an able queen is a far fetched prospect, she first has to learn to become a sensible person.
Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree with Hessa85 & Dots!!!

Moniya i will still refer to her as Moniya cause nothing has changed in her after coming to the palace, she calls her mom Aunty ji!! her dad Coat per B likne wale Uncleji and her grandma Mataji!! weird!!

You have rightly said there is a long way for Moniya to become Manyata! She is still very childish, immature, spontaneous and gullible. All her decisions and conclusions are made from her heart she never tries to weighs situation before reacting or responding. It's only when things go bad she realizes her mistakes:

*locker incident!! - soni did warn her that whether one takes a piece of paper or envelope both are considered stealing! But she didn't listen and only because of DS she got saved!!

*Lose motion medicine for Jai - just because she wanted to get back at Jai & have the freedom to leave the palace she made her younger sis sick!😵 But the idea of venting out on ur younger sis was given by Chiki!!

What surprises me is Moniya is very mature and sensible when it small happiness that one gets in doing little things! How she finds the luxury & comfort of the palace boring and enjoys her simple life in the chawl!

She definitely knows what is right and wrong, she has the guts to admit her mistakes but she needs guidance in decision making.
She needs to learn to use her head along with her heart to be a wise people's princess! 😉 something she should learn from DS & UV!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bang on! You hit the bulls eye with your post. Before changing her outer appearance, she needs to work on her ownself. She needs to take decisions independently, rather than on the influence of others. However, i see a hurdle in this with J & Vijay constantly plotting against her. I really hope that UV sees through their games & fixes them, so that Manyata will have a clearer mind to be able to distinguish between right & wrong, & understand the consequences of her actions.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ConnectTheDots.

Agree with you she has to first learn to take control of her own emotions. Keep a balanced heart and mind and act accordingly, not just jump into doing whatever others manipulate her into.
From where she stands now, becoming an able queen is a far fetched prospect, she first has to learn to become a sensible person.

thanks dots. nice reply⭐️ on you last line...great point, that is the key thing here. my only hope is we dont have to see her doing all these irritating things repeatedly for ages before she even begins to show a sign of maturing.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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They really have to bring a better track...enough of same crap!!!
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Originally posted by: Kai.

i agree with Hessa85 & Dots!!!


Moniya i will still refer to her as Moniya cause nothing has changed in her after coming to the palace, she calls her mom Aunty ji!! her dad Coat per B likne wale Uncleji and her grandma Mataji!! weird!!

You have rightly said there is a long way for Moniya to become Manyata! She is still very childish, immature, spontaneous and gullible. All her decisions and conclusions are made from her heart she never tries to weighs situation before reacting or responding. It's only when things go bad she realizes her mistakes:

*locker incident!! - soni did warn her that whether one takes a piece of paper or envelope both are considered stealing! But she didn't listen and only because of DS she got saved!!

*Lose motion medicine for Jai - just because she wanted to get back at Jai & have the freedom to leave the palace she made her younger sis sick!😵 But the idea of venting out on ur younger sis was given by Chiki!!

What surprises me is Moniya is very mature and sensible when it small happiness that one gets in doing little things! How she finds the luxury & comfort of the palace boring and enjoys her simple life in the chawl!

She definitely knows what is right and wrong, she has the guts to admit her mistakes but she needs guidance in decision making.
She needs to learn to use her head along with her heart to be a wise people's princess! 😉 something she should learn from DS & UV!


yep even more examples showing how easily shes swayed easily,, its her ongoing problem. also she might find the luxury of the palace boring...but she certainly enjoyed her manicure and pedicure! u know the other to be noted is that shes never even had a normal chawl life, shes always moved from town to town. so would she really find day to simple life of the chawl enjoyable? not sure.. also i think part of her rebellion and so called boredom in the palace is because she cant go off to see akash when she wants. but even murrari did NOT let her do that. if she made an effort in building a relationship with her family, in learning about her family...she would not be so bored. right now however,,shes just not interested. her only interest is how she can rebel.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: prc_fan1

Bang on! You hit the bulls eye with your post. Before changing her outer appearance, she needs to work on her ownself. She needs to take decisions independently, rather than on the influence of others. However, i see a hurdle in this with J & Vijay constantly plotting against her. I really hope that UV sees through their games & fixes them, so that Manyata will have a clearer mind to be able to distinguish between right & wrong, & understand the consequences of her actions.

right now the only light at the end of the tunnel appears to be udhay. but he also needs to be aware of what jai and vijay are up to. gosh its a sad state for manyata when she needs to be protected from herself so she doesnt make herselflookl like an a$$😆

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