Where did Manyata go wrong today..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I just saw yesterday's episode and few things which I feel should not hv happened from Manyata's side are ..
1)Manyata openly using words like chudail and dayan for J in front of everyone 👎🏼..Yes I know J deserves all the name calling by Manyata 😆 but somewhere as an adult Manyata shuld hv maintained the decorrum to some extent especially when Uday's family too were sitting there 🤔
2)Dadisa and Komal always stood in Manyata's support ;So for their sake at least Manyata should hv kept her tone a bit mild in front of Brijraj because somewhere its DS and Komal who felt more humiliated after what Manyata did in the last scene ;Manyata actually allowed J to hv the upper hand just because of her crass language
3)When Manyata can accept costly gift from Akash ,then why cant she accept at least one dress from someone like Unnati who has been so good to her so far ?? 🤔 ;Unnati brought those dresses for Manyata not as any favour but just as a friend na ?? 🤔 ;I feel she could hv accepted at least one dress from her ...
I agree Manyata is feeling prisoned in that Rajmahal and so want to do everything her way but at least those who r nice to her like DS,Komal and Unnati , for their sake ,in return even Manyata can b a bit mild in her tone na ?? 🤔
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The third one you wrote, I never thought of that, but your absolutely right!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with all your points... Manyata can be litle mild now ... or at least show some other way of protest .. perhaps not talk or keep aloof .. etc which will all suddenly to attention ..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kavmuks

I agree with all your points... Manyata can be litle mild now ... or at least show some other way of protest .. perhaps not talk or keep aloof .. etc which will all suddenly to attention ..

She can b her usual self with the likes of J and Vijay since they dont understand any other language 😆 but in front of her elders ,she can be a bit mild ...she can reply back in her defence but mayb in a bit of mild tone and a more decent language 🤔..
Posted: 13 years ago
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Jyoti!! 🤗 firstly congrats on being a CM!🥳
i always wait for poco and u to open discussion topic on the episodes...something for a brain cells to screw on...dil is stuck in UV land!😆

Originally posted by: jyoti06

I just saw yesterday's episode and few things which I feel should not hv happened from Manyata's side are ..

1)Manyata openly using words like chudail and dayan for J in front of everyone 👎🏼..Yes I know J deserves all the name calling by Manyata 😆 but somewhere as an adult Manyata shuld hv maintained the decorrum to some extent especially when Uday's family too were sitting there 🤔

that was indeed shocking!i didn't expect her to literally say that..that too in front of the whole family! her chawl lingo is amusing at times like at the breakfast table but she needs to keep a control over her tongue and think before she speaks!!! Surprising she wasn't this crass when she was living in the chawl. She was very polite and respectful to her baba and elderly ppl now why this sudden change in attitude!😕
2)Dadisa and Komal always stood in Manyata's support ;So for their sake at least Manyata should hv kept her tone a bit mild in front of Brijraj because somewhere its DS and Komal who felt more humiliated after what Manyata did in the last scene ;Manyata actually allowed J to hv the upper hand just because of her crass language

M shd have known by now J is one smart cunning princess she will manipulate things her way to gain sympathy. why didn't she indirectly reveal that her personal belongings were destroyed by Jai. She can't expected DS to figure out things on her own if she keeps mum on J's behavior (locker case incident)
3)When Manyata can accept costly gift from Akash ,then why cant she accept at least one dress from someone like Unnati who has been so good to her so far ?? 🤔 ;Unnati brought those dresses for Manyata not as any favour but just as a friend na ?? 🤔 ;I feel she could hv accepted at least one dress from her ...

a very valid point!! i failed to see M reason for not accepting unnati's newly purchased clothes! Was it self pride??? 😕 if it is self pride then why humiliate urself with curtain clothes!😕
i expected unnati to correct M and make her understand no1 wears clothes made of out curtains..but i guess she was too mused by M's tailoring skills! 🤣
I agree Manyata is feeling prisoned in that Rajmahal and so want to do everything her way but at least those who r nice to her like DS,Komal and Unnati , for their sake ,in return even Manyata can b a bit mild in her tone na ?? 🤔

The CVs never bothered to show the emotional side of M ever since she came to the Mahal..the only time she was crying was when her belongings were destroyed. Never once did she think of murari or want to see him again?? When living in the chawl she was making bonds with random elderly ppl why is it so hard for to accept Komal & DS. After the locker incident i expected a bit more of maturity from her side towards DS but she is still the same.
The ppl u live with are openly disapproving ur crass language rude ill mannered behavior kiddish antics yet she doesn't feel embarrassed enough to stop them!






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Posted: 13 years ago
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1. Hmm..about this point, i agree. But remember, we're talking about Manyata? She is who she is & does not believe in maintaining a facade. Having seen Dadi saheb taking J's side, when Manyata knew that J was lying, she just felt angry. And all those words came out in anger. She realised her mistake much later, when Brijraj scolded her for not behaving infront of the guests.

2. She spoke to Brijraj in that tone because she was hurt by the way Brijraj spoke to Komal. She has a soft corner for Komal. Even when J spoke rudely to Komal the other day, Manyata tried to comfort her. So, she cleared the misunderstanding so that no one would blame Komal. And, i personally feel that what she did was right.

3.Accepting the gift from Akash was a different thing altogether. Like Manyata explained to Unnati, now, all those things that Unnati bought did not matter anymore to her. They did, once, that is why she accepted the shoes from Akash, But now she's had to leave behind everything to start afresh, which is why she wants to retain her lifestyle. She does not want to wear the clothes Unnati bought & change who she is. She likes herself the way she is & is happy about that.

nice post, btw😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kai_Hiwatari

Jyoti!! 🤗 firstly congrats on being a CM!🥳
i always wait for poco and u to open discussion topic on the episodes...something for a brain cells to screw on...dil is stuck in UV land!😆
I wont blame u since after watching the epi ,for a second even I went to UV land 😆 ...he was looking hot on two consecutive days ..first in white and then in blue ☺️😆😳

1)Manyata openly using words like chudail and dayan for J in front of everyone 👎🏼..Yes I know J deserves all the name calling by Manyata 😆 but somewhere as an adult Manyata shuld hv maintained the decorrum to some extent especially when Uday's family too were sitting there 🤔

that was indeed shocking!i didn't expect her to literally say that..that too in front of the whole family! her chawl lingo is amusing at times like at the breakfast table but she needs to keep a control over her tongue and think before she speaks!!! Surprising she wasn't this crass when she was living in the chawl. She was very polite and respectful to her baba and elderly ppl now why this sudden change in attitude!😕
Exactly my point ..she never used such crass language even in chawl ...So then why CVs r hell bent to ruin her basic character sketch 😡...She can reply back to everyone who is questioning her but mayb in a more respectful manner to her elders
2)Dadisa and Komal always stood in Manyata's support ;So for their sake at least Manyata should hv kept her tone a bit mild in front of Brijraj because somewhere its DS and Komal who felt more humiliated after what Manyata did in the last scene Ouch ;Manyata actually allowed J to hv the upper hand just because of her crass language Ouch

M shd have known by now J is one smart cunning princess she will manipulate things her way to gain sympathy. why didn't she indirectly reveal that her personal belongings were destroyed by Jai. She can't expected DS to figure out things on her own if she keeps mum on J's behavior (locker case incident)
I guess here Manyata reacted when Brijraj blamed Komal for Manyata's behaviour which I can understand from Manyata's viewpoint but here I feel she could hv replied back in a more mild tone rather than giving further opportunity to J to put her down in front of all
3)When Manyata can accept costly gift from Akash ,then why cant she accept at least one dress from someone like Unnati who has been so good to her so far ?? 🤔 ;Unnati brought those dresses for Manyata not as any favour but just as a friend na ?? 🤔 ;I feel she could hv accepted at least one dress from her ...

a very valid point!! i failed to see M reason for not accepting unnati's newly purchased clothes! Was it self pride??? 😕 if it is self pride then why humiliate urself with curtain clothes!😕
i expected unnati to correct M and make her understand no1 wears clothes made of out curtains..but i guess she was too mused by M's tailoring skills! 🤣
Exactly ...if she had rejected Unaati's dress for self-pride ,then why make a joke of yourself by coming out in those curtain clothes when those curtains too belong to the same rajmahal from where she is refusing to take any help ?? Confused..I will say its a fault of the screenplay here as it actually does not make any sense ...
I agree Manyata is feeling prisoned in that Rajmahal and so want to do everything her way but at least those who r nice to her like DS,Komal and Unnati , for their sake ,in return even Manyata can b a bit mild in her tone na ?? 🤔

The CVs never bothered to show the emotional side of M ever since she came to the Mahal..the only time she was crying was when her belongings were destroyed. Never once did she think of murari or want to see him again?? When living in the chawl she was making bonds with random elderly ppl why is it so hard for to accept Komal & DS. After the locker incident i expected a bit more of maturity from her side towards DS but she is still the same.
The ppl u live with are openly disapproving ur crass language rude ill mannered behavior kiddish antics yet she doesn't feel embarrassed enough to stop them!
Exactly ..I always wondered why isn't Manyata missing her father ..why isn't she remembering her bonding with him ..the emotional side of Manyata was never shown in any of the epis after she came to Mahal because CVs r busy to create comic moments by making Manyata look like a spoilt kid with no manners or self-respect ...I just hope after yesterday's dress fiasco at least we get to see a bit of matured side of Manyata where she tries to understand DS or Komal or Unnati's POV at least ...


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Posted: 13 years ago
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agree.i felt very sad seeing Maanyata like this.hw can she behave so immature?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: prc_fan1

1. Hmm..about this point, i agree. But remember, we're talking about Manyata? She is who she is & does not believe in maintaining a facade. Having seen Dadi saheb taking J's side, when Manyata knew that J was lying, she just felt angry. And all those words came out in anger. She realised her mistake much later, when Brijraj scolded her for not behaving infront of the guests.
But Manyata hv seen Dadisa taking her side as well during the locker fiasco ,so somewhere I feel she should hv given a bit of respect to dadisa here and mayb kept a bit of check in her language and tone ...I mean she could hv used sarcastic comments for J mayb but using words like churail and dayan in such harsh tone in front of all is more like making a mockery of her own self ..and in all this J got the emotional sympathy from all which she wanted

2. She spoke to Brijraj in that tone because she was hurt by the way Brijraj spoke to Komal. She has a soft corner for Komal. Even when J spoke rudely to Komal the other day, Manyata tried to comfort her. So, she cleared the misunderstanding so that no one would blame Komal. And, i personally feel that what she did was right.
Yes this point I even mentioned in my previous post that she raised her voice only after Brijraj accused Komal in front of all ...I m not saying Manyata was wrong in replying back to all ...she should do that but mayb in a bit of mild tone and avoiding the use of such crass language so that J or Vijay and his mom does not use this weakness of Manyata as their advantage everytime 🤔

3.Accepting the gift from Akash was a different thing altogether. Like Manyata explained to Unnati, now, all those things that Unnati bought did not matter anymore to her. They did, once, that is why she accepted the shoes from Akash, But now she's had to leave behind everything to start afresh, which is why she wants to retain her lifestyle. She does not want to wear the clothes Unnati bought & change who she is. She likes herself the way she is & is happy about that.

But the curtains she used also belongs to the same Rajmahal na ...Unnati dint bring her princess outfits ..those were just simple dresses from a shop ...so Manyata could hv accepted at least one dress rather than taking out rajmahal's curtains and making a outfit from it na 🤔...At the end of the day she used Rajmahal's cloth only in making her dress ..so why reject Unnati's dress then ??


nice post, btw😊

Really interesting points u mentioned 👏👏..my reply in red 😳
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Posted: 13 years ago
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well this matter can b seen frm 2 sides. at first i was annoyed of manyatha's attitude...

but...


She must be given time to change. It is the duty of parents to accept the way she is and then slowly change her.
during the locker incident she asked a question to brijraj, that was it her fault that she was lost at the age of 3. It shows the pain in her mind😭.
It is not easy to just forget 16yrs of lyf. For any humanbeing the most memorable days is between age of 8-16 .she is being asked to 4get that...
Its not easy,it takes time
Edited by krishna1989 - 13 years ago

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