2nd Marriages without divorcing 1st one - Page 2

Originally posted by: Believe

Every man should get married some time; after all,happiness is not the only thing in life naaaa!!😉

Happiness kahin nahin jayegi - find the right woman with a good attitude 😉

Originally posted by: SholaJoBhadkey

Happiness kahin nahin jayegi - find the right woman with a good attitude 😉

Originally posted by: Anuradha

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What do I say for this... 😆 But I really have a question.. men and women have an arranged marriage and wat if they find that the others attitude is bad 😆 Wl they go in for 2nd marriage 😆

Why not? The more, the merrier 😆

Originally posted by: Believe

Every man should get married some time; after all,happiness is not the only thing in life naaaa!!😉

Hehehe good one vinu..😆

Originally posted by: SholaJoBhadkey

Why not? The more, the merrier 😆--realy!!

Originally posted by: SholaJoBhadkey

Anuradha, Islam permits up to 4 wives at a time. The permission to marry up to four woman was given at a stage when there had been heavy war casualties and there were large numbers of widows and orphans. However, there are some really stringent conditions attached to this permission including treating each wife exactly the same as the other emotionally, financially, and physically plus having the first wife's permission to marry again. If men were forced to fulfil them in the way they are supposed to be fulfilled, no man would go beyond one! Sadly, in the subcontinent religion and society are a man's domain, hence this blatant exploitation of women in the name of religion. Also, divorce is considered such a huge taboo in the subcontinent that the first wife generally gives permission instead of asking for a divorce even if she is unhappy with the arrangement. 😊

I agree with SJB. There was a context because of which this practice was started. Most important of them is that the country was at war and there were large no. of male casualties at that time and the second thing was to make strategic alliances among the tribes by entering into matrimonial relation so that it can lead to peace between the tribes. But in the modern scenario I think the religious head should categorically declare that the person can be polygamous only when the country is at war and at no other times. That might help solve the menace of people taking advantage of religion or changing religion just to take home a second or third wife.

But given the situation in Pakistan they might argue that it's in a state of war.😕

Originally posted by: cool_pooja

Pakistan is not any situation of war..😆 Its actually suffering from over-population of men!! 😆 Its just dat 1 bomb here killing 1 person is publized highly and everyone thinks omg..

Well, in that case, they should think about swapping the genders for these "society saving" polygamous marriages😉 After all someone has to think about the poor men too.😛 ..... j/k here😊

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

Well, in that case, they should think about swapping the genders for these "society saving" polygamous marriages😉 After all someone has to think about the poor men too.😛 ..... j/k here😊

You might be joking but I like the idea. It might just work in countries like India where they kill girl child and have shifted the male : female ratio to an ridiculous 1000 : 830 or so in some places. It should scare the guys enough to make the necessary correction to rectify the imbalance.