Expressing love is a must? - Page 2

Originally posted by: raj5000

Seeing that a guy is asking this, I'll give you a girl's perspective😉😆

Constantly displaying actions that shows love is mandatory to maintain contuinity of love relationship?

It depends on what type of girl you ask. Each girl has her own definition of "actions that show love"

Girl Type 1: diamond ring, expensive gifts

Girl Type 2: flowers and constant 'I love you' s

Girl Type 3: it could be listening to her attentively while she tells you about her day or washing the dishes when you know she had a hectic day at work.

I'm not saying any girl can only belong to one type of category, A girl type three will appreciate a loving word or gesture once in a while. Men should not take "seedi saadhi" wives for granted.

Isn't feeling of trust, affection caring within sufficient, why is there need to enforce them by constant actions?

If there is trust and understanding, actions will automatically display this😳

People who are expressing their feeling towards loved one necessarily implies their feeling are not real?

Well the words "I love you" are used too frequently I feel, people throw these words around all the time whether they really mean them or not...I personally hate it when I get an "I love you" for doing someone a favor, it's like did I need to do that for you for you to love me?

What is involved to maintain the continuity of love?

TRUST-mutual understanding that love is there no matter what, this means no insecurities, no "getting bored" of your significant other, realizing that there will be ups and downs but TRUSTING that everything will be okay as long as you are together...

Originally posted by: raj5000

😆😆 24/7 hindi movie *DEAD* 😆 ... All the three actually but we can one by one lolsss 1. Romantic expressions 24/7 required?

Let's first decide what constitutes romantic expression - "ILU, ILU" 😆, hugs, gifts, cards, emails, songs, a caring gesture (the previous post mention doing the dishes 😉, but I wouldn't term it a caring gesture. In my books, it's shared responsibility 😛)... the list is endless. Specifics Raj, specifics otherwise we will be going round in circles because everyone has a different interpretation😊

Originally posted by: SholaJoBhadkey

the previous post mention doing the dishes 😉, but I wouldn't term it a caring gesture. In my books, it's shared responsibility 😛)... the list is endless. Specifics Raj, specifics otherwise we will be going round in circles because everyone has a different interpretation😊

Sorry even I agree it's a shared responsibility, bad example on my part😆

Yes specifics please! I agree!😳

Originally posted by: sweetmagic4u

Sorry even I agree it's a shared responsibility, bad example on my part😆

Yes specifics please! I agree!😳

No need to apologise - happens occasionally! Now give a good example 😆

Originally posted by: sweetmagic4u

hmmm, a good example: a sacrifice, no matter how big or small, like cancelling something to help their loved one or spend more time with them...or perhaps do MORE than their half of the shared responsibility 😳 How's that for an example? 😆

That's a good one! 😆 How about getting breakfast in bed???😃

Originally posted by: SholaJoBhadkey

That's a good one! 😆 How about getting breakfast in bed???😃

well...that depends on their culinary skills!😉😆

and then there are those hopeless ones that bring some wildflowers in a vase on the breakfast tray forgetting that their significant other has pollen allergies!😆

Originally posted by: sweetmagic4u

Very nice response here... "getting bored" is something like taken for granted...great that you understood the depth of topic here....I agree trusting is everything here...

Originally posted by: SholaJoBhadkey

Let's first decide what constitutes romantic expression - "ILU, ILU" 😆, hugs, gifts, cards, emails, songs, a caring gesture (the previous post mention doing the dishes 😉, but I wouldn't term it a caring gesture. In my books, it's shared responsibility 😛)... the list is endless. Specifics Raj, specifics otherwise we will be going round in circles because everyone has a different interpretation😊

There are one to many, SJB, reason specifics are not spelled out..being .pretty generic ..NO I never go in circles and keep the topic open to get inputs...and for sure it's not personal like any other food for thought topics from me😃 ..it's generic...nothing in particular here...again very generic outlook here...😳

Originally posted by: sweetmagic4u

Ladies First ki zamana hey..........Let them give a chance to say 'I love you'😉

Yu hi peecha kyu kareee....mohobat hey tho idaar aakar ishaar karee....😳😉😃