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Posted: 20 years ago
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i think suicide is illegal and secondly we should face our problems we should not run away from them
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Posted: 20 years ago
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I am so sorry that your friend commited suicide. They took the easy way out. Do people actually think its easier once they are gone. Its much harder. How are the parents going to deal with this, knowing they were the cause of their child's death.

I think we as children need to stand up for what we want. I listen to what my parents and what they want me to do and then I tell them how I feel and what I want to do and we reach a decision together.

Parents and kids need to work together not against each other.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Oh I am sorry Misha, oh my God, really sad. But ur school must be having counselling centres, did no one detect any change in ur friends behaviour?
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: JK_5

I'm really sorry to hear that Misha 😭 But suicide is not the only way out from ur problems😡 Suicide is for those who don't have guts to fight with their problems Suicide is for those who r scared to face their problems 😡 Suicide is for those who r afraid of life and facing their problems😕 Suicide is the easy way out from ur problems but when somebody decides to commit suicide they don't realise they're taking the easy way out for themselves but they don't know wht they're doing to their loved ones😡 Their loved ones always get punished for their deeds

I don't agree with you. I have the guts to face my problems and have been doing so for as long as I can remember. I have the strength to do so. But I still tried twice.

I am not scared to face my problems. If i was, then I wouldn't have been where I am today. I have faced each problem and got through it. I even know how and when to ask for help.

I am not afraid of life or my problems. why would i be? Is that gonna make life any easier? No.

are you sure that suicide is the easy way? I don't think so. It's not easy to take away your own life. It might seem like that, but it's not.

Overall, you can't understand why people commit suicide unless you have been through what they have. It's easy to say that they are scared and stuff, but if you really look into their lives you will know why they want to die.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Suicide is not a easy way out!! Ity hurts and it is sooo painful!!!!

It kills you from the inside!! And it takes over mentally!!

I had a serious problem some years ago which wasn't coming to an end! I was confused and sad and I couldn't find a way to deal with it! For some reason no one would listen to me and often ignored me and criticized me brutally! I thought death could end all the pain! So then one day I locked myself in my bathroom and slit my wrists with a box cutter!

It is was not easy and I cried all the way through! My brother heard my crying and he started banging on the door! I did not open the door and my brother went banging on my best friends door who lived right next to me! She and her older brother broke open the bathroom door only to find me covered in blood and crying on thr floor! I was shaking and let me tell you, It was not easy and it was horrifying! I did need a blood transfusion and I had to go to therapy for a while! At this therapy I met a women, Catherine, who with her help and my parents turned my life around! She helped me get rid of negative people out of my life and gave me reason to go on! I did try to overdose on Tylenol later on but I just got into trouble and had my stomach pumped! That hurt!! When this happened Catherine told me I was hiding some facts from her and she wanted me to explain all my problems to her! She listened to my every word and she helped me a lot in getting myself together! She also explained that it doesn't take a coward to take such a drastic step, but someone who needs help! She told me a suicide attempt is a desperate call for help, which no one was getting for me because everyone ignored the hints that could have suggested I was going to go this! Thanks to Catherine, I know the meaning and the value of life now and I still talk to her time to time! She helped me when my parents couldn't understand me! She gave me a life and she helped me realize my dreams and goals! I am today not so far I hope from getting to my destination!

Sorry Misha about your loss! I am sure he was a great person and he would have had a great life!!!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: Princess

I don't agree with you. I have the guts to face my problems and have been doing so for as long as I can remember. I have the strength to do so. But I still tried twice.

I am not scared to face my problems. If i was, then I wouldn't have been where I am today. I have faced each problem and got through it. I even know how and when to ask for help.

I am not afraid of life or my problems. why would i be? Is that gonna make life any easier? No.

are you sure that suicide is the easy way? I don't think so. It's not easy to take away your own life. It might seem like that, but it's not.

Overall, you can't understand why people commit suicide unless you have been through what they have. It's easy to say that they are scared and stuff, but if you really look into their lives you will know why they want to die.

Sorry princess but I guess I never looked at suicide from that point of view😳 u know the reason why I worte all that is because my bestest friend commited suicide when she was only 12 and that really shook be badly So whenever the suicide topic comes up I just get out of control😕 I knew how my friend was and I knew wht was going in her life but wht she did was not wht she shud have done😡 She did not have the guts to face her problems and that's the reason why she commited suicide😭 She used to say suicide is an easy way out and she took that way😡 But when ppl commit suicide they only think abt themselves😡 they don't think abt those they're leaving behind and how it will affect them😭 I'm sorry if I've offended u in any way but I still think ppl only commit suicide cause they can't take anymore pressure and and they never stand up against it either

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Posted: 20 years ago
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man what a lot of sad stories!
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: ronit13

i think suicide is illegal and secondly we should face our problems we should not run away from them

it's not illegal😆 Your killing yourself........so how is that illegal.......I took Law, so I know this. Or atleast it's not illegal in Canada.......don't know about other countries.

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: Princess

it's not illegal😆 Your killing yourself........so how is that illegal.......I took Law, so I know this. Or atleast it's not illegal in Canada.......don't know about other countries.



you're right, Princi--i don't think it's illegal anywhere. When a suicide does occur, usually the police does get involved though and they conduct an investigation to determine what was behind it...but no...it can't be illegal b/c how would u be punished? 😆
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Originally posted by: Signora2

Oh I am sorry Misha, oh my God, really sad. But ur school must be having counselling centres, did no one detect any change in ur friends behaviour?
signora2

no noone noticed any change in his behaviour😭 not even his parents.

the last time i swa him, he was smiling as usua.

thanx guys for replying

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