Comparison in relationships fair? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

....we would have had one heck of an ugly lookin' good for nothin' hand😆

There you go - finally samajh aa gaya! Ab ek baat aur samajh lo - main eklauti Doll hoon 😃

@ DB - welcome! 🤗

Originally posted by: SholaJoBhadkey

There you go - finally samajh aa gaya! Ab ek baat aur samajh lo - main eklauti Doll hoon 😃

@ DB - welcome! 🤗

samajh aaya per hazam naheen hua😡......😆😆

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

filhaal yahan doh doh dolls hain. aap kis sey agree ker raheen hain😛😆

Waise ek DB doll another SJB doll se agree kar rahi hai 😉 par likha teesri doll GD ko 😆

To you both dolls 🤗

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Waise ek DB doll another SJB doll se agree kar rahi hai 😉 par likha teesri doll GD ko 😆

To you both dolls 🤗

😆😆 u sure know the height of diplomacy...eh VD😆🤗

Thanks for responses...especially all the Dholls 😳 oops these typos I meant Dolls 😆 kiddin...

Originally posted by: raj5000

- After being heart broken one gets into new love relationship.😆

- Having friends and getting into new friendship.😉

- Having existing family relationships...now getting into new family tied relationship.

Comparing ex OR exisitng friends OR new relatives with new relationships fair?

i think comparisons are essential for making good selections. same as when you're in a sabzi mandi picking good bhindi from that tokri of rotten bhindis. 😉 😆

ok, this assumes that one is free to make those selections in the first place. cant select one's relatives for example. or someone else's woman for that matter.😉 then later, if you have selected wisely, there'd be no need for further comparisons.😊

okay, i believe in saving the original relationship with all possible efforts, and no comparisons while in that relationship.
However, if it fails none the less, during the transition stage, it is GREAT and ESSENTIAL in fact to compare and contrast.
That way, you can pick a BETTER one :) may it be just a friend / a significant other..

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

....kyoon...khud kehtey darr lagata hai kya😛😆😆

😆 😆 i thought everyone will show up with unfair banners😉 magar yahan tho 😆

(actually samagh hee nahee araha tha ke fair hai nahee hai, kaunsa comparison.......kya friend kya relative😕 😆 tho thuka post mar kar dekha....ab kuch idea aayya...😉)

Originally posted by: raj5000

- After being heart broken one gets into new love relationship.😆

- Having friends and getting into new friendship.😉

- Having existing family relationships...now getting into new family tied relationship.

Comparing ex OR exisitng friends OR new relatives with new relationships fair?

ya now i get it😃, like for instance comparing relatives, with inlaws(who are new) is quite unfair....

like telling mom that sasuma cooks well and looks well.....(uff 😡 thats how moms will feel)

like telling old pals,new friends are more spend thrifts...and rocking

these kinds of comparisons, break peoples hearts, so it ain't a good thing....very unfair 😊

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

😆 😆 😆 one doesn't need to get in a new relationship to compare it to the old one 😆 apney friends key hubbies ko dekho...woh jo diamonds dilatey unn ka value dekho...phir jo tumharey hubby ney tumhey dilaya woh dekho aur agar naheen bhi deserve karta toh bhi compare karo aur taana maro 😛 ...as simple as that 😆

ya ya.....same like one joke....wife say 'dheko uski husband daily give kiss b4 he leave ofice.....' hubby--'main be chahata hu ofice jane se pahale,usse kis karke javoo par wo maanta hi nahe..'😕😉

seriuosly, i think in some instances, comparison is inevitable. for example, in most cases, pehlee bahoo ki waqat tabhi hoti hai jab doosri ghar mein aatee hai 😊 some people even compare their kids and their achievements. that to me is 🤢 life would be lot more simpler if one doesn't compare but it doesn't happen that way....human nature yaar...what to do 😊

ya i agree gauri ji😉😆

In relationship theres no comparison posible...each relationship is diff...but people try to compare with others....😳 aaj kal people compare things with bad...i dont know why...😳