running away from home - Page 3

Originally posted by: rutumodi915

Lol there are so many emoticons in the quoted text. 😆 😆

But aww aww aww, that is so so romantic 😳. Seriously, hats off to you and your guts 👏.

So, abhi humare jaise budding romantic hearts ke liye koi tips, QTji? 😛 😉

yah yah...tips tips tips Di ☺️

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

Guilty as charged! 😳.. fir dulhan ban na reh gaya 😆.. no bridal make up, fake up, sab drama miss ho gayaa.. 😭😉.

Awwww..QT!😳..Haha..agree with raunaq..hats of to youu atleast you had some guts.😛

Originally posted by: sohn

Oh baby...!!! You go Di! ☺️
And guess what, its better to marry the man you want to and skip the makeup fakeup than the other way round.

Sajna hain mujhe...sajna keliye 😛

😳 QT di!..Hehe..sajna hai mujhe sajna ke liye.😆

Imagine QT di running away from home..😍

Running away is not the solution. People cant' always run away from your problems, you have to face them. If you really loved someone, you would fight for them; not run away in some cucoon. Yes, it easier to do that but for how long? And people don't realize how many relationships they break just for a boy/girl. And Yes, of course parents should be more understanding.
And example of it would be when my cousin ran away with a girl, yes they are happily married now and their family accepted 'em b/c they had no choice. But he lost everyone's respect, including the girl he married. Because now to all the relatives she is the girl who 'ran away from home'.
So, it might be easier to run away but people should think in long-term b/c it is better to fight and earn respect for yourself.

But then again it always depends on the situation. Everyone has their own problems!!😊

Originally posted by: *guesswho*

Running away is not the solution. People cant' always run away from your problems, you have to face them. If you really loved someone, you would fight for them; not run away in some cucoon. Yes, it easier to do that but for how long? And people don't realize how many relationships they break just for a boy/girl. And Yes, of course parents should be more understanding.
And example of it would be when my cousin ran away with a girl, yes they are happily married now and their family accepted 'em b/c they had no choice. But he lost everyone's respect, including the girl he married. Because now to all the relatives she is the girl who 'ran away from home'.
So, it might be easier to run away but people should think in long-term b/c it is better to fight and earn respect for yourself.

But then again it always depends on the situation. Everyone has their own problems!!😊

Running away is not the first solution, its a solution drawn out after running out of all ways n means to reason out with the families. I dont think couples run away for fun or away from problems. Infact they run towards handling the entire problem themselves with no help!

Sometimes, family members close doors to logic ..either out of pressure from their own beliefs or prejudices or society. They probably get into a lock, where no more discussions debates are probable. Everyone loves their parens a lot, guess with very few exceptions, everyone would want a clean acceptance by families. As you said in the last line...yh, different people have different issues in life n we cant just make a general statement which says...they run away from problems instead of facing them. As much as it seems like a way out of problems, it does take a lot of courage to do that too IMO.

Originally posted by: sohn

As you said in the last line...yh, different people have different issues in life n we cant just make a general statement which says...they run away from problems instead of facing them. As much as it seems like a way out of problems, it does take a lot of courage to do that too IMO.

well said and exact thoughts

Runningaway from home and marrying our Sapnon ka Raj Kumar...... sounds interesting😳😆!!!!!

It matters with whom you run and what is the economic status, social status and character of the person we are running with!! We should ensure that the person we are running with is not a marathon expert(in the sense has any past experience of running away from home).... if the person is a marathon expert then there is no guarantee that the running partner stays as life partner for somany days,that person may start the marathon once again😛 on the pretext on "not matching of mindset 😉" or "finding a soul mate"😉😆!!!

However , Marriage is preferablly done once in a life time and we need to be very careful about the person we are marrying to! If parents donot agree us for the sake of some reasons like caste,language.. then runningaway is not a bad idea!!!!But we need to ensure that we join in the main family after gettting married!! After all, Parents of both people are important and its they who created an oppurtunity for that Run.. for Marriage😊!!!

Howeever Runningaway from home is not a mean thing as perceived in Indian Society and its not a heroic act as shown in films!!!😊

Wishes,

Mythili

Hello budding romantics!
I did not run away.. "Dilwalee dulha le gayee :)"

I do not recommend such behaviour, unless one or both the sets of parents are being extremely unreasonable, demanding dowry / similar..
Ab kripaya muze quote na karein! This kind of act does require guts, but more than that it requires immense strength to imagine every person you love and loves you back to be backing you, to be with you, to be blessing you.. All you have is their imaginary presence. That leaves a scar right there.. okay, this is my last post here since it has got fairly personal 😳 😳
HUGZ & MAY GOD BLESS YOU!
MAY YOU NEED NOT HAVE TO FIGHT FOR LOVE! 😳

Originally posted by: s.priya

Haila... humko woh shaadi ka laddo bhi nahi diya mqt ne.. 😆

I dont think I have the guts to do it. 😭 😭 😭

I am with you here Priya. I still don't have the guts to ever go against my parents advice....and I am a parent myself now!!!

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

QT ne khud bi nahee khaya !! 😆😆😆
tabhi to kehtee hoon.. bhago mat koi bhii.. gane bajaane ke saath shadee wadee karo, laddoo baato & call me to sing and dance in sangeet .. meri apnee shadee me reh gayaa .. par shouk bahut hai 😆.. haha

😆 served you right cutes😛😆 hamein nahi khaaney ko mila toh tumhey kyun miley bahla😆

I applaud your guts girl. wish i had the same guts!!! zindagee mein koi regrets nahin hote na phir😆

here, in the west, a lot of people elope to get married to save on weddings etc. I hope we can get some laddoos from all the money you saved your parents yaar😆

your story touched my heart. did not know this romantic streak of yours. to tell you frankly, kaayal ho gaye hum aap key👏👏👏