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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: anon

Whever i tease, i do it in a fun way, no intention to hurt the other. And when i do do it, it is only to my friends, who know me very well and we always pull each other's leg, so to speak.😛

And if we do tease in a joking way, from our actions and tone the other would know if it is teasing in a fun way or in a mallicious way. E.g i always teases guys, so funny. But for example when i tease my friend Jayan, i will call him DJ Whizzy, as he always calls me Se-ar-rah, and it is just friendly teasing/banter between us, and we both do it to each other, and wind the other up.

So thats teasing in a friendly way, but it is different if it is mallicious and i have never done this as i always treat people how i would like to be treated myself. And it is just best to avoid malliciousness.

Nice post👏

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweta01

Why do people tease other people?

I guess they might want to show highly of themselves by putting others down or maybe it's simply for time-pass.

Do people get statisfaction by teasing others?

Well they must. Otherwise i don't see why you would want to waste time teasing them..but also it depends on who you're teasing and how much you're teasing.

Have you ever teased anyone?

Yes I have..but just my friends and we only do it in a playful manner.😊

Have you been teased?

Yepp, lots of times..I think last year was the year i got teased the most...But nothing you can do..have to go on with the world.

How to counter teasing?

Well, i guess you should just ignore the person and don't take it to heart if it's anything serious. Also maybe try teasing the person back if it's a friend. If it's really serious then try dealing with it by talking to the person or telling someone that could make it stop maybe.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Why do people tease other people? People might do it for other reasons..like ragging somebody or harrasing them..but I mostly do it for fun..

Do people get satisfaction by teasing others? sometimes they do..but I dont..I only tease people to irritate them..

Have you ever teased anyone? yep..I tease one of my colleagues on a daily basis 😆 She is much older than me..atleast 10 years and is unmarried but shez all the time talking about her nephew..I call her a baby and she really gets annoyed and atleast stops it for a while..

Have you been teased? Yes..many a times..by my friends and my dad n sisters..

How to counter teasing? by teasing the person teasing you..never take it to heart..just joke around..

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: mythili_Kiran

Teasing is not a big issue unless and untill one teases on the Physical,mental,financial conditions of a person.

In real life,I do tease people but in a decent manner ,that too only people who don't misunderstand me!!

I think in IF I get teased by elders like Dr AS,Jatayu uncle ,MNMS ji,QT ji and all.I too mind teasing and getting teased but.... only to certain limit.Every thing depends on our perception!!

If people are really bugging you by unhealthy teasing then... we need to counter attack by own unique methods

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Cheers,

Mythili

Agreee with Mythili...............👏.😃

I feel Teasing is good for life...........,If you are sitting with group of friends its natural ,sometime a type of teasing happen, that make you think yourself and give the strangth to do more better things.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Wow this old thread was dug up, lols. Thanks mythili.😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: sweta01

Nice post Sweta😊

Why do people tease other people?

To satisfy their instict to dominate.....

Do people get statisfaction by teasing others?

yes it satisfy the ego of one whose brain work at very primitive level😊

Have you ever teased anyone?

I never tease on any disability

Have you been teased?

No

How to counter teasing?

if people are teasing over something about which nothing can be done than it is better to be confident and reply them politely never show anger (because that is what they want)but in such a way that they will remember it for life time 😉

Edited by Morning_Dew - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
#18
Great topic 👏
Why do people tease other people?
Makes them feel better about themselves, I guess. Especially with disabilities, mostly humans are ignorant, they freak out and don't know how to handle or react to that.so,they resort to teasing b/c it gives them a upperhand. What they don't realize is that it actually makes them a worse human being.

Do people get statisfaction by teasing others?
In a way that it makes them feel that they are safe. If they tease someone, they hope that no one will pick on their shortcomings. This kind of behavior is usually common in people who aren't self-confident.

Have you ever teased anyone?
No, I do not think so. Teasing my friends on silly stuff is fine but I wouldn't go out and tease someone that I don't know; that is just rude behavior.

Have you been teased?
Yes, I have. Mostly around the time when I moved from India. It is hard for people to adapt to a different nation itself and to top that off 8th graders can be cruel. 🤢

How to counter teasing?
Educate people. If you are capable of defending yourself, do it not by being aggressive or throwing nasty remarks at people but by educating them and showing how they are being ignorant. And if you are watching someone be teased, that is even worse. Help people who are not capable of helping themselves. and if not anything, don't join it so you feel in the loop. I think as people get mature; we are able to counter teasing a lot better. But it all depends on the person's mindset.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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A good topic bytheway..!😳These days ..balke not only these days...i think its been since...human birth on this face of earth??

Why do people tease other people?

Well..simple is that they find 'Pleasure' in doing so...By passing comments on others,by laughing at them etc,This all Satisfies them...In their own way..!! When they do tease others,they find pleasure in doing that which satisfies 'Them' only..!!!!😳😡The people who tease others think they are superior to them and that they hold no importance near them...! They basically,think of them as someone who is 'Weak' n cannot compete with them in any regard!! Sometimes due to few shortcomings ..which evryone has..,only those people are targetted most tih this teasing thingy who ,in other people's opnion dont have much courage to fight for themselves..!!

Do people get statisfaction by teasing others?

Yeah! as i mentioned above....people do get satisfied by doing this,by hurting others,by laughing at their short comings..>>it seems something Pleasurable to them..!! Everyone in this world want to be superior over others..n when people get a chance to porve this..they dont miss out on it..!!>>and it all turns out to be a negative thing!

Have you ever teased anyone?

hmmm....not really..!! maybe My sisters..yeah i guess...but never my friends..because when u are into some relationhsip with strangers..then u gotta be careful..!! ALSO I feel that what would i feel if anyone saay this very same thing to me..tou you see...realize krna is a big thing!

Have you been teased?

Hmm yeah..alottt..by my sisters only..!! my frends do not..!! 😳

How to counter teasing?

Well...just by Believing in Your self! really!! If u believe in urself....ur true self...if u love urself for who u reallly are..then You must and should not care about what othes may say..!!! this belief in urself must be firm enough to thro off others remarks on you and let it not effect you..!!!

1 very important thing...Must remember this..n all ur problems would simply be solved..!! <<<<<<

"Whenver anyone do any Bad to you..!! or say anything bad to you..or something which you do not like or say it teasing or anything else...<<< Just think this that U r not like them..!! and You are what God made U ..and God never do injustice to anyone..! So You are unique n special in your own way..!!! You are NO Less than anyone out there..!! N most importantly think that << God just did not put Good things in his heart/mind...that is why he is unable to think about doing good to others....remember God does not Forget anything...whatever he does...he does it wisely...so just think this ke Khuda ne uske dil mein acchai ka khayal dala he nai...but U r lucky that u can atleast think Good..!!"😊

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