Strive for Ambition OR circum. deviation?

Background : Vedana (fictional character – any reality references are purely coincidental ) as a teenager always had an ambition to become a actress. Had all confidence, incense to become an actress, even inputs from everyone that a tall young girl/expressive girl have a destiny in film industry. Circumstantially once finishes graduation, fairs well and has an exciting opportunity to become a finance officer in an MNC with great salary/perks to support her paternal folks.

Now due to circumstances at home she cannot pursue with her ambition to become an actress even though she was doing acting/dances side by side and have to take up a job.

Options

She had to study as part of growing up, fortunately or unfortunately she was too good and got this golden opportunity and wants to support her family, sacrificing her ambition.
1. She has met some ppl who really think she can be big name in b/h ollywood and they can't promise family support but struggle for few years and then its all fate anything concretely assertive.

Finally Vedana decides to take up the job instead of pursuing her ambition. Here we/IF come handy to guide her

What route or option should Vedana take? And why?

PS - Benefit of few who don't know me, am a guy. I Know - She can still strive for her ambition while taking option one but once in and loose some years she is no good for option two. Also this post is kinna of touches ppl who are lucky to not get hit by circumstances and should go for their ambitions, all the best – don't forget to thanks IF after they land on international satellite..Also marriage is no where in her book as of now.

Edit - typo benit = *benefit., topic name

Originally posted by: raj5000

Background : Vedana (fictional character – any reality references are purely coincidental ) as a teenager always had an ambition to become a actress. Had all confidence, incense to become an actress, even inputs from everyone that a tall young girl/expressive girl have a destiny in film industry. Circumstantially once finishes graduation, fairs well and has an exciting opportunity to become a finance officer in an MNC with great salary/perks to support her paternal folks.

Now due to circumstances at home she cannot pursue with her ambition to become an actress even though she was doing acting/dances side by side and have to take up a job.

Options

She had to study as part of growing up, fortunately or unfortunately she was too good and got this golden opportunity and wants to support her family, sacrificing her ambition.
1. She has met some ppl who really think she can be big name in b/h ollywood and they can't promise family support but struggle for few years and then its all fate anything concretely assertive.

Finally Vedana decides to take up the job instead of pursuing her ambition. Here we/IF come handy to guide her

What route or option should Vedana take? And why?

PS - Benefit of few who don't know me, am a guy. I Know - She can still strive for her ambition while taking option one but once in and loose some years she is no good for option two. Also this post is kinna of touches ppl who are lucky to not get hit by circumstances and should go for their ambitions, all the best – don't forget to thanks IF after they land on international satellite..Also marriage is no where in her book as of now.

Edit - typo benit = *benefit., topic name

This is really interesting subject.... thanks for bringing it on....

My views.... What is her first ambition

1. Supporting her family

2. Become famous herself in acting

If she chooses her first ambition as supporting the family, she can go for MNC.... if she selects for ambition 2 there is further question

1. Whether it can be fulfilled in near future while going for MNC job now and making family well off...

2. Do I have to struggle now to get in and become famous

here my views are MNC jobs in india are quite taxing and she wont be able to get time for dancing and all.... however she will be introduced to many people and if her destiny is acting then she will get into it through some contact.... only thing is she has to share her ambition with all.... without struggle you cant reach your destiny.....

From my personal experience.... I always wanted to play cricket at professional level... I never got a base for that because of family circustances but i kept trying and yes I am playing on professional leagues in thailand this year..... its only because i never left my ambitions even if they are not fulfilled earlier....... I have ambition to be a business man and i will one day... i know its my destiny and i know today or tomorrow the circumstances will favour me in that direction😃

So keep your positive thinking and take the decision.... best of luck to whosoever she is😃

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

This is really interesting subject.... thanks for bringing it on....

My views.... What is her first ambition

1. Supporting her family

2. Become famous herself in acting

If she chooses her first ambition as supporting the family, she can go for MNC.... if she selects for ambition 2 there is further question

1. Whether it can be fulfilled in near future while going for MNC job now and making family well off...

2. Do I have to struggle now to get in and become famous

here my views are MNC jobs in india are quite taxing and she wont be able to get time for dancing and all.... however she will be introduced to many people and if her destiny is acting then she will get into it through some contact.... only thing is she has to share her ambition with all.... without struggle you cant reach your destiny.....

From my personal experience.... I always wanted to play cricket at professional level... I never got a base for that because of family circustances but i kept trying and yes I am playing on professional leagues in thailand this year..... its only because i never left my ambitions even if they are not fulfilled earlier....... I have ambition to be a business man and i will one day... i know its my destiny and i know today or tomorrow the circumstances will favour me in that direction😃

So keep your positive thinking and take the decision.... best of luck to whosoever she is😃

Thanks! and very nice views👏👏 So, do u bowl or bat, have played in county? don't mind my questions.. subjected to if u wanna answer orelse no probs Bud - Wish you all the luck, its kinna of late I would respond more and share my views tomorrow, once again thanks for sharing..😊

Originally posted by: raj5000

Thanks! and very nice views👏👏 So, do u bowl or bat, have played in county? don't mind my questions.. subjected to if u wanna answer orelse no probs Bud - Wish you all the luck, its kinna of late I would respond more and share my views tomorrow, once again thanks for sharing..😊

I play in bangkok league in thailand.... though the level is not as high as we see in india.... its a professional match and we have some tough teams here.... also it helps as the players are mix of all asian coutries and some foreign countries too 😃 and thanks for wishes.... i just had a dream but cricket is not my purpose of life... its something different more materialistic and productive than cricket.... I am following that too😃

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

I play in bangkok league in thailand.... though the level is not as high as we see in india.... its a professional match and we have some tough teams here.... also it helps as the players are mix of all asian coutries and some foreign countries too 😃 and thanks for wishes.... i just had a dream but cricket is not my purpose of life... its something different more materialistic and productive than cricket.... I am following that too😃

Hear Yaa! My friend here is into leagues, yeah he also continues playing cric during weekends as its his passion.

😊 Best of Luck and Wishes! in geting to your current goals.😊