Moving in with prospective life patner ? - Page 3

Originally posted by: kabhi_21

there is a simple solution to this and that is development of trust.... rather than having liveinrelationships which may ruin future of either parties.... u should develop trust that the other person will support u to get out of bad traits and u can share them with the other person.... this will help them keep relations farther 😃

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

ruin future- how and why??

As per original post, you have a Live-in-relationship and then separate without marrying after knowing that you cant go along with the person.... so now u are stranded in the open world for which you never cared.... you dont have any takers to support you in this sudden loss of your love... if not all most of the cases in this will follow with a suicide under the pressure of society

develop trust- how?

You need to talk out with your partner as much as possible..... Truth is the greatest sword to bring in the initial trust and then maintain it.... talk out all the truths with your partner, even your shortcomings... also make the partner realise that you wont leave him/her even after knowing his/her shortcomings.... then only they will tell you about the shortcomings and two can mutually work towards a solution😃

Originally posted by: MNMS

[quote=Serialbuff]and the joy of overloading our students with homework.😈[/quote]

Scary couple!

That's why we are a happy couple - we unload all our angst, anger, frustration etc on our students. 😆

Originally posted by: serialbuff

That's why we are a happy couple - we unload all our angst, anger, frustration etc on our students. 😆

Help! Help! Im going to a perfect hide-out😛 All my sympathies to your students😭😉

Originally posted by: MNMS

Help! Help! Im going to a perfect hide-out😛 All my sympathies to your students😭😉

😆😆 that explains and doubles our comment "seems sir - wify sey fight karkey aaye hai" on few proffy who sometimes are in real foul mood.😆 j/k

Originally posted by: Lovers Ka Love

But Dont YOu think That Now-a-day People Give a Wrost name to this Golden Relation "Time Pass".

Those ppl IMO deserves

Originally posted by: sowmyaa

Raj, really good topic. I assume we are talking about Indian families here.
Though the movie-in relationship picture looks really good, it sometime is not that easy and merry, as it seems like. We all feel that when people break up in move-in relationship it is same as breaking marriage. No. It is not. Once couple is married it takes lot to break that bond compared to move-in. People do try lot more harder to work on their marriage, specially when kids are involved compared to move-in relationships where sometimes freedom and space is taken for granted. Like someone here said, I think that dating someone or knowing them couple of years before getting married is better option than moving. Once you start living with other person you start seeing all the side of that person. If it is not legally and society based committed relationship than there are more chances to break-up. Which I think is not bad, but breaking up for small issues is easy in such relation compared to nuptial bond.

Well written and understand your point.

I agree any relationship is not complete/successful without compromises or sacrifices, guess am trying to address things which you just cannot bring yourself to work with. My only concern here is why should nupital bond (legal + society) force you to work out things in your relationship which otherwise you wouldn't have and such things, you only realize or come ru ba ru after putting up with a person for while. As you mention time passes society, family, kids person just get more in the spirally web until one day after 10 years decides - ENOUGH! its been 10 long years just cannot put up with XYZ habit/behavior/anything anymore and wants to bail out... at what cost?

PS - am not sure if am conveying what I mean here, let me know can explain more.